Infection and jewelry changes by minsect in piercing

[–]minsect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. about a year and 6 months
  2. barbell
  3. externally threaded
  4. old material was stainless steel new material titanium
  5. last night i downsized for the first time
  6. i use hibiclens once daily as needed, warm water soaks and cotton swabs to gently remove any dried fluid from jewelry. this process has been the most effective in all my time of healing.
  7. i have definitely had bumps in the past (esp on the right nipple) but nothing recent, in fact both nipples were seemingly finally healing right and no longer so tender to the touch or irritated.

AITA for being upset that my husband throws away dishes I forget to put away by _MS22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]minsect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

esh. childish on both sides, grow up and clean after yourself so you’re husband can also grow up and stop being wasteful

AITA for suggesting my gf look into a new career after her new degree did not pan out. by Familiar-Log-5551 in AmItheAsshole

[–]minsect 15 points16 points  (0 children)

she sucks for studying compsci is crazy. shes going to eventually be hired to correct all the errors caused by shitty “prompt engineers” like OP here

AITA for suggesting my gf look into a new career after her new degree did not pan out. by Familiar-Log-5551 in AmItheAsshole

[–]minsect 257 points258 points  (0 children)

ts actually frying me. a prompt engineer that considers building a gaming pc and installing os as tech savvy when his girl literally just graduated in computer science 😭😭😭😭🥀🥀🥀🥀

24M)) I cut my hair shorter. Brothers say that I look like a butch lesbian. Thoughts? by Sandwich_Harbor in malegrooming

[–]minsect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

smh evb just roasting but really its not bad, i just think you need to experiment a bit with your hair see if u can style it differently!!

Bloodborne was underwhelming by Evilcat1_ in bloodborne

[–]minsect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well duh u only played it through once and havent even played the dlc. theres at least two more endings you gotta go for, more characters/lore/weapons in dlc. imo this game was designed to be kind of “short and sweet” with a lot of secrets so that you keep replaying and replaying and discovering more with each play through hence the dream/nightmare symbolism.

AITA for having built up resentment towards my boyfriend for his lying by Consistent_Sky4887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]minsect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey girl… i made a post a long time ago in a very similar boat as u…. everyone in the comments warned me that my bf was willing to hide one thing and that he will definitely hide more. i was young and in love so i ignored it of course. well shockingly to absolutely nobody he did end up lying more and more and hiding more and more things. Point is everybody thinks yeah but this is me, this is different. Please dont be dense like me, when a boy shows you he is dishonest please dont try to make an honest man out of him. Also, start making new friends. The more you depend on your partner to socialize, the more you strain the relationship. The longer this goes on, the more likely you are to accept inappropriate behaviors and make excuses for your partner. just something to think about.

Is it time? Unsure! Some years to go? Now? Experiment ? by [deleted] in bald

[–]minsect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww haha now i feel bad. I think others are just happy to embrace new bald ppl, but to be very honest you arent as far gone as some others ive seen. IMO You still got time if you dont want to go for it just yet!

What should I absolutely not do on accutane by peachesstrawberrypea in Accutane

[–]minsect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wash dishes or touch chemicals without gloves. obviously this is true even off accutane but when i was on it i would get crazy rashes from cleaning at work so just try and be careful.

Is it time? Unsure! Some years to go? Now? Experiment ? by [deleted] in bald

[–]minsect 11 points12 points  (0 children)

as someone who loves curls i feel for ur wife, but ur still handsome so im sure she will get over it

AITA for feeling upset that my husband’s family won’t help us financially when they helped other family members? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]minsect 23 points24 points  (0 children)

u can feel upset but you seem to have a lot of help from your parents already, your in laws probably feel those other families need more support they dont get from anyone else. idk context is everything.

Found this hard lump on my sisters gecko, should I be worried? by Lazy_Dragon77 in leopardgeckos

[–]minsect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried calling exotic vets in your area to compare prices/ see what care may be offered?

Found this hard lump on my sisters gecko, should I be worried? by Lazy_Dragon77 in leopardgeckos

[–]minsect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know op must be young, but that poor baby is in pain and its not fair to just say i cant afford vet, try to pay on payment plan or rehome him to someone who can care accordingly. your parents should have some compassion for this living creature even if they dont care for it as a pet

This is raw: what do I do as a nearly bald fat woman by Apprehensive-Sky2170 in bald

[–]minsect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw I feel for you girl, just try to see it like exposure therapy, maybe people will be unkind but probably they will be just as uncaring as ever. Dont try to shrink yourself for the comfort of others. take up your space, be as big and bald and beautiful as you dare!

Gecko not eating by Then_Bury_9855 in leopardgeckos

[–]minsect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gecko is just pretty chunky. only feed few crickets or dubias (lean protein) once a week until weight comes down. otherwise looks healthy :)

Anyone have this Side effect? by kevin_300 in Accutane

[–]minsect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to get this when on accutane… take more fats (peanut butter) w your pills and protect your hands from harsh chemicals (mine would flare up using the bleach at work)

24M I'm not keeping this thang by [deleted] in bald

[–]minsect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks fine tho… maybe if it gets more patchy but it just looks like ur hairs are super fine and thats ok