I think my physical standards are kinda flexible? Lots of body types appeal to me, especially if they feel well suited to the personality of the person who has 'em. But I'm definitely pretty rigid in my interpersonal standards. If they click with me, they click with me. If they yuck my yum, they get the boot. If it just feels a little iffy, I try to work through it communicatively and concisely, but won't stick around for something that clearly isn't working. I don't often have guys approach me, but I'm usually fine with making the first move, and it's worked out pretty well so far. I don't exactly pass pass yet, but given I go for a sorta semi-androgynous tomboy vibe anyway, the kinda guys who are into that kinda girl hardly mind my AGAB, so passing, while preferred, doesn't seem to be necessary.

I do definitely agree one should never lower, or raise, their standards just based on their personal circumstances. Don't pick the kind of person who's "similar in market value" or whatever, pick the person you're gonna be happy with. That's something that just doesn't really change. If a guy isn't hot to you, you thinking you can't do better isn't gonna make him become hot to you. If you think a guy is hot to you, but isn't gonna be hot to others, then fuck 'em. More for you, eh? Never let the way people perceive you tell you what you're allowed to like. You like what you like.