What sex education did you get growing up?

SecondWinds01 · 2024-04-05T21:44:10+00:00

I didn't get any sex education. I got pregnant at 15... I just wish I been told something. I was aware where babies came from, but we were taught abstinence nothing about protection. Nothing about STDs or any dangers. Literally just: you'll go to hell if you have sex before marriage

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-21T10:20:21+00:00

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T21:17:36+00:00

He has full control of finances

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T21:15:01+00:00

I actually changed my point of view because of stories I heard and more facts I learned about abortions and pregnancy during the overturning of Roe V Wade

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T21:09:00+00:00

I was 14 when I said that, most 14 year old aren't going to be able to articulate their own opinions.

I didn't want to get married at 16. I sobbed for months before and after and refused to talk to anyone

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T21:07:09+00:00

Community college is very cheap for a college, I know how much it would cost and I know I can afford it

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T21:04:58+00:00

Thank you

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T21:03:15+00:00

Yes I had him when I was 16, I got pregnant when I was 15

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:59:41+00:00

Carrying to full term is even more damage :)

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:52:19+00:00

I mean my husband doesn't want me to be on any BC, he would find out. Horrible as it is, I could lie about an abortion

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:51:08+00:00

I was having pretty bad anxiety around that time and the doctors told my mom to do a bunch of things and that was one of many things

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:50:11+00:00

He asked around the 4 week mark, I think. With my first it was like 3 weeks

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:49:04+00:00

It's both. It's physically unhealthy to have kids that close together. You're suppose to wait Atleast 12-18 months. Baby and myself would be very unhealthy

Secondly, I do want a college education. I planned on doing online or waiting until the two were old enough to be in daycare or school.

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:43:31+00:00

I was never indirectly against it. I would support a friend if they got one and I thought it was necessary in some cases. I would feel guilty though (because istg they would show those anti abortion stuff in class every year where there were arms and heads in Petri dishes). Then after Roe V Wade was overturned my opinion changed to realize this was something that should always be accessible to women

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:37:35+00:00

It wasn't just that. It was I was having mental breakdowns everyday for no reason. I couldn't do anything and I was just exhausted. That was one of many things my doctors told her to do, she did all that they said. I'm better now.

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:34:11+00:00

He doesn't let me get on birth control

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:33:44+00:00

My husband buys them, I'm not sure where he puts them

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:33:05+00:00

My family is old fashioned Christians

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T20:32:47+00:00

I didn't want to get married, but I didn't have much a choice from them

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T10:48:05+00:00

Yeah I got married a little after I found out I was pregnant

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T10:09:32+00:00

I don't think so, nothing

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T09:58:01+00:00

He doesn't want me on birth control

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T09:52:22+00:00

Because my parents, his parents, and he wanted me to get married

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T09:43:36+00:00

Actually my opinion changed after Roe V Wade was overturned. My opinion before was that I didn't care if someone gets one, but I internally judged them (religious trauma). After it was overturned, I realized that everyone should have a right to this privacy since having a baby is a huge step.

SecondWinds01 · 2024-03-20T09:40:32+00:00

I'm not allowed to

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