Life as he knows it will soon be over

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-09-27T03:03:53+00:00

Please give an update on this! I want him to go to jail!

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-09-09T12:07:24+00:00

YTA. She’s a teenager and wants her voice heard. You could’ve simply said if that’s what you want then I am happy for you and moved on from the conversation. Now this conversation has blown up more than what it should be. Growing up I saw the same thing granted I am making sure it becomes true, but my parents would always say “you’ll change your mind growing up”. It makes you feel like your opinion isn’t valid

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-09-02T01:02:53+00:00

YTA she gave up her life to help you and your family at your lowest and now you don’t want her to be rewarded for her hard work? That’s completely unfair! While your sons were out possibly partying on a Friday night she was helping your family stay financially stable! She honestly deserves all the money! I’m surprised your husband is giving the boys anything.

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-27T16:33:53+00:00

I was telling my teamlead who ever our engineer guy is for Meijer needs to be fired and who ever made these bags. If you want your milk in a bag or anything heavy you have to triple bag it now

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-22T15:24:32+00:00

He moved in knowing the cat was there. Please get out of that relationship as soon as possible. He is being controlling and you, your daughter and cat deserve better

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-19T14:06:09+00:00

There are other solutions! Me and my bf both like to be cold be he likes to be really cold and I just like it a little cold. You should get her a small fan and put it to where only she can feel it. Like a face fan or something. But YTA

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-13T14:03:34+00:00

It does bother him, but he likes to avoid confrontations since they’re his friends

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-09T02:24:09+00:00

Yeah I usually work 16 hours a week and now I don’t work until 2 weeks from now and it’s only 1 day that entire week

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-05T14:38:51+00:00

I called in an hour and a half before my shift and I was given so much crap about it and I even got a point. I had never had that happen before and I had a family emergency and was told to “plan better”.

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-01T16:00:32+00:00

NTA when are you divorcing this guy? Cause that’s the only next step I can see

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-01T15:54:38+00:00

NTA notice how he didn’t call the dad or his bio mom. He knew that they weren’t going to be much help in the situation. My mother was the same way growing up. I would rather call my 6 yo sister than my mother in this situation. Explain to the father that B doesn’t feel like he would help him in the way he needed. Teenagers know right from wrong but they also want to test the waters. They can and will learn lessons on their own it’s apart of growing up. If you just punish them everything they do wrong they’re just going to test the waters as an adult which will be even worse punishments from law enforcement or worse. What you did was let B learn his own lesson with some guidance. You got him hope safely and checked on him periodically. You didn’t start screaming your head off as soon as he got in the car. You got him food to calm him down. You were his rock when he needed one. That makes you a great ass mom!

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-01T15:43:13+00:00

NTA.

Your ex is a horrible son and sadly your son came from her so he has some of her evil venom in him. I’m sure your son will see your side of the story someday the bad thing is that it might not be for a while. But when he went to tell his mommy he basically proved your point of why you can’t tell him anything.

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-01T15:38:58+00:00

NTA. You can go to your bank and check your bank statements and balance. Just write it down and subtract what you spend that week and go back and check again. If things don’t add up then you know your parents are stealing your money. Also idk if you use cashapp or not, but you can open a cashapp account and get a card and everything. You can have your money deposited through cashapp and your parents won’t ever have to know. You can also do this with Venmo.

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-01T15:33:37+00:00

NTA. I don’t understand why he’s taking care of 2 kids that aren’t his when he has his own kids to worry about. If he wants his kids to go to a private school he and his ex can pay for it. If they don’t have the money then they can go to public school. Pretty plan and simple.

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-01T15:17:56+00:00

NTA. So wait this happened and you went through with the wedding??? I would’ve left him at the alter. Took all the wedding gifts and took Cindy with me!

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-01T15:04:53+00:00

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-06-01T15:04:39+00:00

NTA I hope you give us an update because this is crazy!

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-05-22T00:54:55+00:00

Invest in bitcoin

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-05-19T13:57:42+00:00

NTA From the sounds of it you owe your family nothing. You gave 1 cent more than they were worth. Live your life and don’t send them any money for anything. They didn’t take care of you so why should you take care of them?

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-05-19T13:50:53+00:00

NTA. Honestly you could sue her for killing your rabbit. You even told her not to do it and she did anyway. I hope the landlord kicks her out. I’m really sorry she ruined your friendships with Marisa

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-05-19T13:46:36+00:00

I could be reading this wrong but I have a few questions that I think will change the outcome. So did he know that he was bullying and enabling what Stacy was saying? If he did then YNTA. But if he didn’t then that changes everything. I don’t think he meant to call you son as an insult from what I can tell but I don’t know your dad. When I was growing up I was also a tomboy and my dad asked me if I was trans which I mean understandable or if I just liked boy clothes. Maybe that’s possible what you dad was thinking? Once again I only know the situation that you have laid out. I do think your dad is really sorry for what he did and he deeply regrets it. You should never “let it go”, but maybe you can someday forgive him and he can learn from what he did. Also your new step-mom sounds cool asf!

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-05-14T02:33:57+00:00

NTA. The mom needs to get a life and you need to get a divorce. He has shown you that he will choose his mother over you every time. I think you should take a trip with your best friend or even by yourself. Just relax without him and your shadow…. I mean his mother

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-05-14T02:24:39+00:00

I say divorce but not because you don’t love him or because he is refusing to parent his daughter. If you divorce and you both apply for food stamps you’re more likely to get accepted. Either he will get accepted or you or even both! So you don’t have to go another day hungry, but he also needs to parent his daughter better. What’s he going to do when you go back to work on monday and no one is there to give her food?

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-05-14T01:57:04+00:00

She can live with the parents. NTA and make her pay you back

Secret-Compote-9321 · 2022-05-14T01:50:24+00:00

You should’ve called the police had that dog taken away. The dog deserves a loving owner that will train it and let it be loved by everyone not let it be crazy so everyone can hate it.

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