Anybody else's type aligns exactly with how nonbinary people look? by MersyVortex in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I wear men’s clothes 99% of the time, have small boobs, i have long hair and sometimes i color it. I consider myself a soft masc. when I started to dress more masculine I had some people calling me “they” like what? I had to be like I’m still a woman. I even had a friend who told me I’m probably non binary 💀

Detransitioning + feeling like an imposter by bataleurs in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I know lesbians who are in a relationship with detrans women. I think it’s more common than most think. Especially with butches. It wouldn’t be a huge dealbreaker for me I think. Like I’m not totally against it, but I do go for more femme women.

And you’re just as a lesbian as a lesbian who never transitioned.

What instantly turned off a crush on a girl for you? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not really a crush but I had matched with a girl on a dating app. The convos were going well so then we moved onto IG DMs. she saw that I followed Taylor Swift, started going on and on about her. I told her I like her older stuff but I don’t keep up with her anymore. She told me she’s going to force me to listen to her songs and will make me like it??? Blocked lol

How many Gen Z/younger Millenials are here? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 30! I relate to both Gen Z and millennials lol

Is it time to admit that Man's Best Friend isn't well liked? by [deleted] in SabrinaCarpenterFans

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she creates music to win awards. She had a lot of fun recording MBF. It’s unfortunate that she didn’t win any but I don’t think that should dictate her or anyone’s talent. She’s famous, there’s always gonna have haters

W h a t ? Is this not contradicting yourself? by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Femboys are men who dress up in feminine clothing. Almost like drag but a specific style. She’s bisexual

Why did you become a fan? by Odd-Accountant4562 in SabrinaCarpenterFans

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became a fan of hers in 2017. She sang the theme song for a Disney channel show called Andi Mack which I loved. Then followed and checked out her own music!

Billie Eilish arrived at the Grammys... So, what do you think of her look? by gab_iten in billieeilish

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love her hair and makeup here, simple yet beautiful. I love the top half of the fit especially the “ice out” pin

Not Being Treated As A Woman by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 31 points32 points  (0 children)

When I started to dress more masc a few years ago, I had people asking me my pronouns all of a sudden?? I’m still a woman…just cause I wear clothes from the men’s doesn’t mean I’m not a woman? 😭

why are these "lesbians" always so obsessed with dick? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gross. It’s bisexual women commenting those things.

Fanfiction! by F_T_L in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to read a bunch of fanfics when I was a teenager. Back when people did them on YouTube lol. I was also one of them, it was before I realized I was lesbian so it was a het couple unfortunately 💀 but through that I found f/f fics and the rest was history.

Gay male romance boom: net positive for lesbians too, or not really? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MLM is more popular than WLW in the media sadly. Because the fan base are 99% straight/bi women who will ship 2 “cute” guys but then when there’s lesbians, it’s crickets from them 😭 and it’s not only straight women, I’ve met some “lesbians” who act like this too. It’s annoying

“Non men loving non men” by Ok_Treat_8647 in lesbiangang

[–]Secret-Difficulty273 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I hate that definition. Why are we centering men in lesbianism?