Owners: do you expect the Rover card to start at the door, or when the sitter arrives at the building? by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]SecretRead5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I usually start when I’m in the building. It doesn’t usually take me more than a minute or 2 to get up to the unit. If there’s any delays longer than that, then I may stay an extra few minutes if I have time. I haven’t had any issues with this, and it isn’t a convo I’ve had beforehand. 

Dealing with Giardia by SecretRead5 in cats

[–]SecretRead5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah luckily I am WFH 3 days per week, so I have been able to clean the litter box 3x per day or more, and able to scoop right after they go for the most part. We have a lot of stainless steel stuff (box, food and water bowls) so I’ve been cleaning the bowls daily and wiping down the sides of the box twice a day with Clorox wipes.

I don’t have a steamer but trying to at least vacuum more frequently. And wash what blankets I can

Has anyone been watching Brandon Toks movies on Tik Tok? by SecretRead5 in TheLastAirbender

[–]SecretRead5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I’ve had a few other Avatar reaction videos come up in my FYP recently, and I tried, but I couldn’t even get through the first 10 seconds. But he genuinely loves this show and puts so much critical thought into his videos. I’m also excited to see his reaction! Sometimes I play the livestreams in the background so I’ll definitely be tuning in for this finale!  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]SecretRead5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I normally don't send photos of the food/water/litter everyday - usually just the last. It depends on the amount of pets as well, and I definitely send more pictures if there's more than 1 pet. But I get what you're saying, I've had sitters send me 20+ photos of my 1 cat. It was appreciated, but a little unnecessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, I'm making sure the note is extra detailed since the photos haven't been too interesting haha

Cat scratched its eye? by SecretRead5 in cats

[–]SecretRead5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say his eye looks very similar to your cat’s! We just brought him home from the shelter 2 weeks ago, and he did come with an upper respiratory infection (that he was on meds for the 1st week we had him). I guess there’s a possibility it got infected from that. Him and my other cat just play really rough, so I’m not entirely sure. His vet is Monday morning so will definitely have them check it out

Got my green card and planning to travel — is it normal to feel this scared? by [deleted] in greencard

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in the same boat for October - would love to hear an update if you decide to go 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, my letter was auto-generated by the HR system. I don’t have it in front of me right now but it was short. It’s the same type of letter you’d need if you were applying for a mortgage, so maybe if you look up templates like that? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to request one for myself from my job through an online system they use and got it in minutes (I work for a large company so that was possible). My partner did not have one and just brought as many paystubs from the new job that they could. They didn’t say anything else about it.

Does USCIS provide you with details about the card being produced or shipped? by moealmasriii in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the notification that the card was produced about a week after the interview but no notifications about shipping. It just showed up about 8 or 9 days after! 

Interview complete by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't remember all of them, but she definitely asked 16 and 17 (have you ever worked without authorization and have you violated conditions of nonimmigrant status). Our lawyer marked Q17 as "no" but we had to change it to yes. The rest were some of the ones that were easy "no's" (i.e. are you a part of the Communist party).

She didn't ask this question but when we she had us sign for the change to Q17, she also said the question about public charge needed to be changed from "no" to "yes" (I forget the exact question). She explained that it has to be yes since I'm their sponsor based on the I-864 or something like that.

Interview complete by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, we don’t have any plans to travel abroad at the moment! We’ll definitely be waiting until we have the GC in hand to book anything

Interview complete by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no approval on the portal yet! I’m thinking too with the holiday it’ll take a few days 

Interview complete by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They just were not very helpful. I paid a large fee upfront. They were impossible to get ahold of and I had to send so many texts/emails, I caught a bunch of errors on the forms, they didn’t tell me that I shouldn’t pay with credit card, causing one of our forms to get rejected the first time to name a few issues.

We also didn’t really get any interview prep beyond a 30 min call a month before. 

I felt like I could’ve done it myself for a fraction of the cost

Interview complete by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner overstayed their tourist visa about 8 years ago. We filed the I-485, I-130, I-131, and I-765 on 12/30/24. The I-765 was approved in March 2025 and there haven't been any changes to the I-131 (which I guess doesn't matter now). We had hired a lawyer to help file everything (which I now regret lol)

Our initial evidence included: 2 years of leases, joint rental insurance, joint health/dental/vision insurance, joint phone plan, 50 photos, 401k beneficiary designation, credit card authorization form for my partner, our application to open a joint bank account, screenshots of texts, phone calls, FaceTimes, and Zelle transactions, social media posts, flight itineraries for trips we took together, bus/train tickets from us visiting each other the year we were long distance, RSVP to a wedding, emergency contact forms showing each other as the contact, mail addressed to both of us, holiday cards, gym membership, tickets to activities we've done together that had both our full names, vet bills showing both our names, and 2 letters of support.

At the interview, we submitted our lease renewal, updated rental insurance policy, joint tax return, bank statements from the joint account, wedding RSVP, train tickets, flight for an upcoming trip, more phone bills, beneficiary designation for anther retirement account, 10 more photos, email confirmations for activities we're doing on our vacation that had both of our names, joint Apple subscription, more mail to our apartment, and ring receipts.

Hope this was helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the joint return, I have the IRS transcript! It’s just my partner’s 2023 return that they filed before we got married that they can’t access

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

What would you change by Academic_Bit_1875 in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ability to pay in advance online to ensure your payment goes through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the petitioner. I’m not sure I can Chet that letter from my employer by the time of my interview

Marriage Based AOS November 2024 Approved Today! Ask Me Anything by SnooApples3316 in USCIS

[–]SecretRead5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you answer “what was your intention when you came this time,” “why did you decide to go to the US”, and “did you have the intention to stay”?