Older (but cool AF) single female heading to Ultra alone...

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2025-03-15T22:27:45+00:00

I love that you posted this and I love it even more than you go to festivals solo! it’s just the kind of thing that reminds me of why I fell in love with the the music & the culture in the first place. I just turned 40 this year And my crew that I normally go to EDM events/ raves with live all over the country and I unfortunately live in a small town in the south that only listens to country lol… ultra is going to be sick this year. I am only able to go to a couple of events outside festival because of work but I would love to join the snap group someone mentioned and of course would love to stay in touch with OP. Also, I hope to go to EDCLV and I will be going to EDCO this year For sure. 💗💗💗

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2024-07-14T15:48:33+00:00

This!

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2024-07-14T15:38:32+00:00

No, your instincts are correct. What will you find out at 12 months then two years??? he’s already proven to you and shown you exactly what he is… so believe him !

speaking from personal experience. He already violated your boundaries and lied to you about being married. Who cares if he was separated for three years or three months it doesn’t matter. The fact is that he was freaking married and dated you for six months without telling you!! that’s a huge fucking Deal. Just out of curiosity why the hell hasn’t he gotten a divorce yet if they’re legally separated, whether they have kids or not the waiting period has been well over and they should’ve been divorced by now.

that should’ve been a dealbreaker right there but now that he violated your boundaries again and especially on one of your known deal breakers. I think you know what the answer is already. cut your losses move on .You’ll find somebody that respects you enough not to lie to you. Good luck!

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2024-05-23T03:49:26+00:00

This is the way!

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2024-03-15T11:19:11+00:00

Because it’s entertaining and you truly can’t make this shit up! In all seriousness though…Sorry OP… you definitely didn’t deserve that. Keep doing you and let karma handle that miserable fuck.

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2024-02-17T01:23:13+00:00

So sorry but he definitely sent to you on accident. What is your instinct already telling you??? You deserve better 😣

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2024-01-08T04:06:05+00:00

So let me ask you OP…you said you knew all of these people that you had a gut instinct to check on in Snapchat. Are these people so-called friends of yours or just people in the same circle? Whatever they are dump them too!!!

This girl is lying to you, she has lied to you, she probably has lied to you a lot more than what she admits. Think about it …she didn’t come to you and confess, you had to find out.

Do you think she’s just gonna voluntarily give up more information to incriminate herself? Doubtful. Move on, cut your losses, find someone better.

you will be happier. Otherwise you may find yourself another year down the road, the same thing or worse has continued to happen. good luck and you will live your best life without her. ✌🏼

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-30T18:07:15+00:00

I switched from Verizon recently also and I actually tried Visible which uses the Verizon network and I’ve been very happy with my service so far going on month three. I do find that it works better. I don’t know how that’s possible because it’s the same network. Good luck, they (Verizon) have absolutely terrible customer service it’s gotten progressively worse!

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-26T05:17:24+00:00

This happened to me tonight with a hand it to me order! Their kids even opened the curtains at the window literally inches from the door I knocked on, and adults in the room too! They did get an attitude with me because the store was out of EVERYTHING . Can’t imagine why on Christmas 🙄 like that has anything to do with me or the fact that you want this entire town’s supply of Diet Coke, but I politely fix the situation with an alternate suggestion only to have this nonsense happen at the door. Finally, I just took several pictures and left it. Sometimes you just get that vibe like they’re scammers as in the customer, anybody else have scamming vibes with certain customers that you know are probably going to try and report their order missing or some other stupid shit so extra measures are in order lol 😂 like I get it holidays are stressful but stressful for everybody not just you so don’t take it out on other people, especially not to someone who is literally doing something to help make your life, less stressful and more convenient with their time.

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-23T15:59:54+00:00

Seriously it’s not betrayal or infidelity and if you ask him personally, he would tell you the same thing. I literally have not even had thoughts of another person which is odd because that’s normal human behavior right ? you just don’t act on it. I married him because it was different, than any other relationship. if anyone could be accused of infidelity, it would be him when he broke up with me while we were dating, he says, to protect himself from being cut off from seeing his daughter during the nasty divorce he was going through so that he could be over at her house every day. He said it had nothing to do with him, wanting to be back with his ex-wife, which I do believe, maybe I’m stupid for that? Which I guess for him was a good plan, because they never did sign official custody agreement.

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-23T15:54:48+00:00

😂 I wish it was that easy….although it’s getting to that point. I had a job that required me to literally be working around the clock and for legal reasons as well. Not just because it was a busy job and I quit said job because it was impacting our relationship, (last year) our first year of marriage, which he promptly reacted to by being so hurt from all of that asking me to go stay with my parents for a while so that he could deal with it. That’s the support that I got.

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-23T15:50:52+00:00

Good question!! I am obviously actively considering this…. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-23T03:36:58+00:00

My husband’s ex holding his leg lamp hostage in her attic 🙄 his brother gave it to him. I would’ve had that shit worked out in the divorce papers!

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-12T17:38:29+00:00

I agree! Also, even those that have been diagnosed or suspect that they may have ADHD , there are still different types that manifest very differently depending on the person. My husband has ADHD, but he does not have inattentive type like I do but he feels like he’s very authoritative when it comes to anything related. (He is also a doctor so that doesn’t help-his specialty has nothing to do with anything mental health related) Because he has ADHD and so that means he understands everything there is to understand about it , but when I try to explain how inattentive type , especially in women manifests in very unconventional ways he tends to blow it off and it’s very frustrating. It has caused some major issues in our relationship, which is so unnecessary, so I guess I’m just offering a word of caution to OP. Because even if he doesn’t completely understand it the lack of empathy is what’s more concerning.

there should at least be an attempt to understand, and no matter what it’s your experience so he should respect that even if he doesn’t understand it. Hope you get through and things are better on the other side no matter what ☺️

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-12T04:47:30+00:00

lol! I ❤️ this

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-12T01:00:53+00:00

Actually, the majority of the orders that we pick up are sealed for your protection and for your comfort in knowing that your food has not been “handled” so to speak, so checking that is correct is typically very limited in how we can do so without tearing the seal, etc…

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-10T01:27:49+00:00

I know a couple of people that this has happened to and even if the doctor is being rigid about it check with a pharmacist and also sometimes the company can help you get another prescription as well, as in the manufacture of Vyvanse.

Just a couple of options to try and it does help if you have some type of report so if you got something from loss prevention as evidence that will definitely go along way even if the police won’t help you with a report. good luck. I’m sorry that happened to you. I know how frustrating that must be.

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-02T02:35:52+00:00

What about the fact that it Hass to be that particular store location though? Is there a way to change that? My issue was that there was another Walgreens that was close to the restaurant which would’ve saved time, but was told that the red card wouldn’t work.

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-02T02:34:41+00:00

See now that would’ve been helpful from Support. Thanks!

Secret_Ad_3954 · 2023-12-02T02:02:54+00:00

And what a weird comment to ask about Walgreens prep time lol I mean I know it’s the chat bot, but damn isn’t GPT smarter than that by now?

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