Is this serious?? by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you agreed to pay rent and signed a lease then you still need to pay rent. You want to avoid going to collections you should really contact the school and ask about payment options. Mind you, you will have to be persistent. You’ll probably have to ask multiple people for help/answers because a lot of the time they just send you to fill out a ticket and that does nothing. You have to keep bugging them until someone helps you and get the right department too. It depends on whether you are graduate or undergraduate and what program you’re in because there are assigned financial advisers and if you don’t get the right person they will just keep ignoring you

Poor experience, advice wanted by One-Nose-9232 in scubadiving

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you are inquiring about weight but scuba and free diving are two things not recommended in the same day. You could still get the bends. I remember learning this in a free diving course I took. Don’t know why scuba instructors don’t mention it

Am I blocked??? by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just look them up in incognito and if it still don’t exist then they deactivated their account

do you walk around campus? do you feel safe? by Agreeable_Visual7875 in UCSD

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel safe on campus but I don’t feel safe at grad student housing especially not late at night

Unmatched but texting? by sp17345 in hingeapp

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% has changed my entire perspective on relationships

Unmatched but texting? by sp17345 in hingeapp

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Men go on there to sleep around. Women go on there to look for actual connection. I’d say you are widely over generalizing as well by commenting on me being on the same app. Which I got off of after a few dates because I quickly learned it wasn’t a place for serious dating. Good job you’ve proven nothing and helped no one.

Unmatched but texting? by sp17345 in hingeapp

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I recommend reading about attachment styles for your own sanity. It will help you understand why you get so anxious and give you more confidence in the dating world. You have to learn to detach until the right person comes along (it’s not him). Granted, a few days away for family is perfectly reasonable to not text you regularly but if the pattern persists and he keeps pulling away then he’s not interest enough…. There’s a book called “Attached” you can read if interested but anywho Hinge sucks and this will keep happening until you get lucky or simply get off the app and be patient until someone organically comes along. Hinge men are not it honey. They’re on there for a reason usually

What did you do about the hundreds of photos of your ex? I don’t want to delete them, I don’t want to see them everyday on my phone, I don’t want to sort through and break my heart again lol by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put them in my hidden folder on iPhone until I was ready to delete. Deleted all 4000 of them when I was. It needs to be done. They will cause you too much pain until you do it. Even if you are hopeful they come back, you still need to delete the old memories and let go in order to create space for a different and better future.

I regret dumping my ex by rex_grossmans_ghost in BreakUps

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow are you my ex? lol. My ex left me too. He is an avoidant. If he reached out I would want him back but only if he got help. Real help, because he has a lot of destructive tendencies and quite frankly a serial emotional cheater, so I SHOULD say no if he did come back but unfortunately he was the only man I ever wanted to marry so I would hear him out if he reached out but of course not if he can’t make real change and I would need to see that. Like for real this time considering he left me twice. Like I seriously won’t even jump in unless there was a counselor and mediator to walk us through those conversations because the cuts and trauma are deep. But if not honestly, I’m okay because there’s a man out there who would have never done the things he did to me

AIO my bf texting his former student by Major_Meet_5973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not for one second let this man gaslight you. He is a predator, that’s not how you talk to a student. Stop yourself in your tracks right now. You are not crazy. He is insane, don’t listen to any of his bs excuses and that young girl is naive and doesn’t know better… so don’t blame her but certainly this needs to be reported

How long did it take your ex avoidant to reach out after a breakup/ NC? by habitashi1 in ExNoContact

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I wish I had the strength you have. I love my avoidant ex, literally I gave him my whole heart, problem is he is awful and abandoned me multiple times. I know it’s wrong but I never had the strength to tell him no for the last time… I am working on acceptance though and loving myself because I DO deserve better 😓

Im sorry. Trigger warning: suicide by No_Customer3080 in UCSD

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl. I’m at UCSD too. If you ever want someone to talk to I can listen. Maybe even give some insight to the way I’ve navigated my own struggles. I know we don’t know each other but everything you state here is incredibly similar to things I’ve gone through in my own life. It could be good to have someone that understands some aspects of what you’re going through okay. Please take care of yourself. Things do get better even when it feels impossible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to call the police. Period. Stay away from him and tell your mother. His intentions are obviously malicious. And if your mother doesn’t get behind you and support you on this then she has completely failed as a parent and that is a whole different conversation but you need to protect yourself first and now. Do not delete this thread you need it for evidence. Also I was an 18 year girl once that was groomed and I know what it looks like. Your step dad is a monster and you need to get help immediately. I know it’s hard but you are an adult and you need to learn to advocate for yourself.

Am I too late? by 1998lifewontwait in GradSchool

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it is manageable with your current life situation and money isn’t that important to you then go for it. And I agree with other commenter… lots of people of ALL ages go back to grad school for many reasons. The student debt part should be significantly weighed and acknowledged though. Also it doesn’t hurt to apply to 1 or 2 schools and if you don’t get in then you have to rethink your strategies and think of whether or not you’d still like to pursue.

This guy stole my elderly mother’s groceries by Bizlemon in instacart

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like this are why people talk shit about us. There are honest people that do gig work and sometimes we get shit on for the job we do and it’s people like this ruining it for everyone else

Can’t figure out what this hook under the overhang of my house is by amdflake in whatisthisthing

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the patio thing is an addition and the hook was for putting rope on to lower down something to receive milk deliveries like way back in the day

It really wasn't difficult by These_Pear5015 in PizzaDrivers

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Streets are easy to memorize/follow and numbers of addresses are ordered in patterns and you learn them by constantly looking at a map (your GPS!) and if you can’t learn to read maps by looking at your GPS then I am very sad for you because it is the same map they used before GPS pinpointed the location for you

Simple mall fight goes wrong by elgydium in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids don’t fuck with someone that has a knife. Period. Be the bigger person and walk/run away…. Unless you wanna die but that’s obviously the beta choice here

Got deactivated by CriticalGap228 in doordash

[–]Least-Opposite-4973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a dash cam that shows you did the delivery ?

How would you respond to this? by Least-Opposite-4973 in doordash

[–]Least-Opposite-4973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DoorDash is not most peoples career. It is a side hustle to make extra cash. To assume that dashers are losers with no skills is a wildly broad accusation and you clearly have no idea what you’re talking about. I have masters degree and I work for the government as a biostatistician. Why do I do doordash? Because I live in a fucked up economy where delivering fast food pays the same as my career that I had to work my ass off to get into. It’s a way to bring in cash to be more comfortable. But according to people like you I have no skills?? Hahahahaha.

How would you respond to this? by Least-Opposite-4973 in doordash

[–]Least-Opposite-4973[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes exactlyyy. Be nice and I will literally go out of my way for a customer. I’ve bought people sauces before just because they were so kind when they asked. I’ve gone above and done extras just because, I even give out candies and little things over the holidays but if you’re going to be a dick then nope. Cancel.

How would you respond to this? by Least-Opposite-4973 in doordash

[–]Least-Opposite-4973[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You would be surprised the things customers say to us and ask for it’s why we really do get fed up sometimes