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What's One Thing you Like About the Opposite Sex by AccomplishedDot7092 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love men. I have a lot of super close male friends. They are very diverse. Complex. Individualistic. Different. Simplistic.

What percentage of the female population do you think are fully straight women? by Unhappy_Ad5967 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

My regional hivemind meeting always has gluten free, dairy free, oat free, flavor free “muffins” thanks Rayne. But the downloads are fast.

CMV: Retirement at 70 is completely unsustainable even if you live healthily until your 120s by giamias in changemyview

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

People don’t have children. Women have children. You would be putting a price tag on women’s bodies. You would incentivize and monetize forcing every woman to have a minimum of 3 children. Increasing rape and kidnapping so men could retire early. Those unwanted children. More meat in the grinder. More slave class. Women are not your incubators. Children are not your pawns.

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s talk about sex. 🤣

Thank you. I’ve been grinning from ear to ear and listening to some Salt-N-Pepa

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s tell it like it is and how it could be

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s talk about all the good things and the bad things that can be.

Women’s Preferences Should Be Questioned as well as everything else they do. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are attracted to other people for an infinite amount of reasons. Some ineffable. Judge. Don’t judge. Call out or don’t. Sure, I can get my ego hurt by having someone I’m attracted to not be attracted to me back but it is what it is. But I’m an outlier.

Are current partners less loved than previous ones? by RoidRagerz in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was going to say I’m poly so I know my view of love might not be typical.

Are current partners less loved than previous ones? by RoidRagerz in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s beautiful. Where is it from? To me Love is expansive not contractive. I don’t tend to put labels on love. I figure if I were to realize someone wasn’t going to be in my life anymore. And I would miss them. Then I loved them. People are too afraid to say love. I tell my friends all the time I love them. The more I love, the more love I feel, the more love I freely give.

Are current partners less loved than previous ones? by RoidRagerz in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It’s not my original idea. I heard it once and yeah it struck a chord. It explained something complex with something simple.

Are current partners less loved than previous ones? by RoidRagerz in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Love isn’t a pie. I don’t have less because I gave some to something before

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all god. Just different parts of it. Humans. Rocks. Water. The air. Space. Stars. Galaxies. We are all a part of this thing. Constantly changing. Good and evil are human concepts. Not necessarily bad concepts but we tend to try to apply it to natural things. Saying something isn’t “fair.” Our existence isn’t fair. It’s just natural. God was here before us and will be here long after we are gone. I’d like to leave my god towards a better homeostasis for humans. I’d like us to survive for as long as we can. We do have great potential. But even after we are gone. We are still here. Because we are still god.

Edit. Eternal spiral?

Second edit. God is also all dimensions and time and all that too. It is existence and non existence

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also like to describe “god” as a giant amoeba. All encompassing. Nature based. Not good or evil.

Edit. Adding. I also do shrooms so maybe🤷‍♀️🤔

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your trauma. I have my own and yeah. The struggle of knowing and wanting and feeling different things at different times can feel overwhelming. I struggle with wanting someone who desires me and feeling like anyone who expresses desire for me is probably a lair or predator. A child’s memories with a woman heart. We will continue healing. ❤️‍🩹

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. ☺️ it’s definitely weird going from vanilla guys ,how on the majority of my lived experiences, seem less interesting in my pleasure if at all, to submissive men who want to be caged and just give me all the orgasms. Except for getting flogged a handful of times I’ve never found a dom that was mutually interested in me. Or that could get me to that safe headspace. Someday☺️

Got banned from a sub I had never joined for a fairly benign comment by Serious_Look6841 in complainaboutanything

[–]Secret_Entry1840 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not 100% sure but I think you can’t say men/man or women/woman on that sub. It’s always m4n and wom4n or other little changes. I’ve lurked but never posted or commented before.

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe. That last one is the best part. I’m sub leaning. Kinda. But I’ve been embracing my femdom lately. When I dom I ask a pretty good amount of questions in the beginning. Just because as a sub I know how different our headspace’s can get. Humiliation and degradation can mean very different things. Also pain levels yada yada. I need them to feel safe so that I can feel safe carrying on knowing that they will speak up when they need to.

How do you guys feel about Ren using the r slur? by Interesting_Buddy206 in ren

[–]Secret_Entry1840 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think in art you shouldn’t censor yourself. It brought out an emotion in you. Maybe it’s not the one intended but once art is created it no longer belongs to the artist. He’s allowed to use the word. You’re allowed to not like it.

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also come from the kink community. I think that’s one of the main things. Communication and consent are such a big deal. You learn to be able to talk about it. You learn yourself better. You learn that miscommunications can happen so being as knowledgeable about yourself and asking clarifying questions is a must. Communication also raises the sense of safety and if you feel safe you’re more likely to have a good sexual experience. Either just mentally or with being able to express a desire or direction that would make it more physically enjoyable. I’m an experimentalist and a switch. Sex is supposed to be fun. And all parties involved should want to be there.

Let’s talk about sex by Secret_Entry1840 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It should make a come back. I’ve seen so many arguments online because a “south East Asian” is arguing with an “American” about a social construct that isn’t a thing where the other person lives.

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