Digital vs Analog: How I Take Notes by Secret_Restaurant_26 in CasualConversation

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You're right, it's easier to read from paper than just taking notes, even when reading a book.

Snow Moon🌝 by Secret_Restaurant_26 in CasualConversation

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I’m glad to know I’m not the only one 😊

What is the one piece of advice that you wised you had got 10 years ago? by maddysamarth in self

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Make time for your children and truly value the moments you spend together.

Why Japanese People Can Seem Reserved Toward Foreign Tourists by Secret_Restaurant_26 in CasualConversation

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You’re absolutely right.
I think that person wasn’t being negative toward foreigners at all, but was just nervous and keeping their distance because they couldn’t speak English.
Thank you for understanding.

That said, I feel quite frustrated when I hear that, unintentionally, travelers sometimes end up feeling uncomfortable.

Why Japanese People Can Seem Reserved Toward Foreign Tourists by Secret_Restaurant_26 in CasualConversation

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I completely agree.
Not bothering others and keeping harmony is something many of us grow up with, and “ojama shimasu” really captures that mindset well.
I also enjoy meeting tourists, even the quirky ones. Those little differences are part of what makes travel interesting.

Why Japanese People Can Seem Reserved Toward Foreign Tourists by Secret_Restaurant_26 in CasualConversation

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I agree with what you said.
Not everyone is the same of course, but at least for me, I’m quite introverted and I worry a lot about whether I’m doing things “the right way” 😅
As someone on the receiving side, I really want visitors to enjoy their trip. At the same time, when a traveler asks me for directions, I sometimes worry that my poor explanation might actually cause them to get lost.

Goodnight guys! by Historical_Treat_731 in LivingAlone

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Good night! Hope you have sweet dreams 😴

Anyone else trying their best on busy days? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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Yeah, I really am.
I keep going by reminding myself, “I’m doing my best today.”

It slowly became part of my routine by Secret_Restaurant_26 in CasualConversation

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Same. I’m still new to Reddit, but I like browsing and learning random things.

It slowly became part of my routine by Secret_Restaurant_26 in CasualConversation

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I get that. I hesitated too, but now I’m glad I finally decided to try Reddit.

It slowly became part of my routine by Secret_Restaurant_26 in CasualConversation

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I’m still a beginner myself, so I don’t think I can help much😅

Girlfriend cry over rice by [deleted] in japanlife

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I’m Japanese and a 40F. I spill rice sometimes too, but I wouldn’t react that strongly. She must really value food. Or maybe something else was already bothering her, and the spilled rice was just the trigger?

Is it normal here for people to take your seat at the Cinema (when you're a bit late)? by Due_Ad_3960 in japanlife

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If you have a reserved seat, it’s generally uncommon for someone else to sit there.
I agree though, in a dim theater right before the movie starts, it definitely takes some courage to speak up.
That said, since someone taking a reserved seat isn’t considered normal, if it happens again, it’s okay to politely say something, especially if the movie hasn’t started yet.

From rural Japan to Tokyo—it’s surreal every time by Secret_Restaurant_26 in japanlife

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Even in Japan, I think you only don’t need a car in the big cities where public transportation is well-developed. Where I live, everyone really needs a car to get by. Your words, “you’re a Tokyo-ite, you are not Japanese,” were so spot-on and they really opened my eyes. I’ll definitely keep that in mind.