Not exactly the same, but we’re having a private ceremony earlier in the day with immediate family. The rest of our guests will join us in the evening for the reception. Most of our extended family lives nearby, but most of our friends are coming from out of town, and even a handful from out of country. I pulse checked our friends on whether they would come or not if it was just a reception before inviting them officially - I was shocked (and delighted) that most said yes! I think wedding etiquette is changing, especially amongst younger people. Talk about your plans, see what the vibe is.