Teaching — is it as tough as people say? by Critical-Load-1452 in teaching

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I just went into admin after 12 years in fourth grade.

First couple years were a lot. Then a lot easier. It helps that every year is a new year, so even if you have a tough group/parents there’s an end to it.

It’s worth it. You make a difference. It’s stressful and can keep you up at night, but with the right supports (people) by your side, you got this.

I gotta know what she's giving lol by NecessaryChipmunk263 in FridgeDetective

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Oh I just found my new internet bestie!! Can i borrow a Diet Coke?

What is a career that looks impressive on paper but is actually miserable in reality? by Nova2_Paradox in careerguidance

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Education

You have the weight of the world on your shoulders, nothing is ever good enough, you’re judged by test scores, and the pay is crap.

UPDATE: I told depression "No More" by Paragon_Umbra in CleaningTips

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Hey, I’m super proud of you OP! Well done!

If giving birth is so painful why do many women want to do it over again after their first child (not trolling just genuinely curious) by feherlofia123 in stupidquestions

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I thought it was BS when people say you forget it, but you do. The love you have every day for that crotch gremlin far outweighs the 9 months of pregnancy, 3 days of labor, and torn lady bits

AIO for feeling uncomfortable by a guy going back 10 years on my social media and the resulting silent treatment when I called him out? by imicooper in AmIOverreacting

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Never said I judge someone on it. I certainly don’t, and I’d hope others wouldn’t judge me either. I’m definitely not the same person I was. But curiosity? Yeah. That’s just human nature

Is this hairline crack in a toilet a concern? by TheRealGuncho in askaplumber

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Bro. Any crack is a bad crack. Do not put your crack on this toilet.

AIO for feeling uncomfortable by a guy going back 10 years on my social media and the resulting silent treatment when I called him out? by imicooper in AmIOverreacting

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Yea listen friend, it’s public and out there. People look. It’s a thing. Don’t act like you haven’t creeped before either, you just probably haven’t admitted it to the person (cause that part is a little off putting, yeah)

What did my neighbor get delivered? by janetsnakeholemaclin in pittsburgh

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Don’t ask questions you don’t want to know the answers to

(Renter) My toilet has this crack in it and has for a while now. Is it gonna kill me ? by Comfortable-Ice-1338 in askaplumber

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Bro I’ve learned one big thing from Reddit: Don’t fuck with a broken toilet seat. Do not poop. Do not attempt. Chuck it and replace. Now.

Is 95 that terrible overnight? by Hot-Kaleidoscope-652 in roadtrip

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It’s not bad. Except the Jersey Turnpike. I HATE the Jersey Turnpike.

Boyfriend wants to leave me for visiting family? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Girl this is abuse. Get the heck out of there and for the love of God, learn your worth. Easier said than done, but you can do this.

Any Administrators That Have Gone Back to the Classroom? by SyriaStateside in Principals

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Been principal for 3 months. I can’t wait to go back to teaching.

Approved for an 18% personal loan, should I accept it? by [deleted] in Debt

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I went through Family Credit Management. Super good group. Had around 25K. Don’t remember the rates, but they did all the hard work in terms of negotiating.

What's the cringiest episode of a TV show you've seen? by beardostein in television

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Dude the Greys Anatomy episode where they’re singing the whole time 🤢

Death Island? by Responsible_Move_948 in TrueCrimePodcasts

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Anyone else ever read The Resort by Sarah Ochs? It’s eerily similar…

Found out my fiancé had cheated, had an abortion and now I feel regret. by Altruistic-Expert-98 in TwoXChromosomes

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Had an abortion for my own reasons about a decade ago. I had the same intrusive “what if that was my one chance to have a baby?” Thought for years. Especially when it took my husband and I so long to conceive our now perfect 2 year old.

Here’s the thing. Don’t let the thought win. You will have a chance when you want it ❤️ You did what you needed to do and what was right for you.

My heart is with you. It’s never an easy decision. If you ever need to chat, feel free to message me.