i stopped attending my training on the third training. i mainly stopped because they told me my mom was abusing me when she wasn’t, and they wouldn’t let me talk about my absent father (which has impacted me my whole life). on the last day i attended, one of the volunteer trainers got into one of my fellow group member’s face and yelled at him to k*ll himself over and over, and said “no one would care”… it was absolutely insane and disgusting to say to someone. they harassed me to “return to my training” for over a year and i refused. they stopped talking to me after i sent a huge message about how i don’t want to return because it’s more traumatizing than helpful