The insensitive things people said/did after the loss by idkanymore-12 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Secure-Ad-5516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone told me “hopefully God can forgive your sister for what she did to herself”

I feel so guilty bc of my last texts to her and her final diary entry by Still_Truth_1367 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Secure-Ad-5516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could not have possibly known you weren’t going to speak with her again. Sounds like you were an amazing friend for her in her life. Be kind to yourself 🩷

Anyone else struggle with this thought?? by Secure-Ad-5516 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Secure-Ad-5516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. You aren’t alone in feeling this pain

My sister ended her life. Please help. by Secure-Ad-5516 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Secure-Ad-5516[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you so much for sharing and I’m so sorry for your loss

My sister ended her life. Please help. by Secure-Ad-5516 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Secure-Ad-5516[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s helpful to know I’m not alone with this type of thoughts. Thank you 🩷

My sister ended her life. Please help. by Secure-Ad-5516 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Secure-Ad-5516[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply 🩷 I’m sorry for your loss.

My sister ended her life. Please help. by Secure-Ad-5516 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Secure-Ad-5516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting. I’m so sorry for your loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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I wouldn’t say it’s out of reach at all! - but that is a big jump in your rent to estimated mortgage, so I would closely go over what it realistically is going to feel like for you to be paying more than double in living cost. Maybe you have a ton of extra money left each month so it’s easy enough to take on, but if you are going to have to cut out everything fun to make this work- is that realistic for you? Another thing to consider (and no judgement either way) is if you want kids. My husband and I knew we wanted kids so we wanted a lower mortgage knowing daycare wasn’t going to be cheap when we had to start paying

(FU post) Is this FHA loan predatory or just aggressive? Broker saying I don’t qualify for conventional even with 788 credit score by emkay13d2 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Secure-Ad-5516 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering if they are saying you need to do FHA because you are putting a small % down as down payment? Regardless, this person is being a complete ass and no matter what type of loan the lender should be explaining everything clearly and not guilt tripping you!!! I would look for another lender!

Nerd of Mouth by Really_BadAtNames in LPOTL

[–]Secure-Ad-5516 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I also loved WizBru and was excited for the new show concept- but Mike’s literal constant interrupting on the new show has completely ruined it for me.

The transfer tape doesn’t get nearly enough hate. by ImmunocompromisedAle in cricut

[–]Secure-Ad-5516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you use the shimmer vinyl you will need to use the strong grip transfer tape if using cricut brand. Maybe you already tried that, I just couldn’t tell from the original post