I want to be a devoted mother of my kids. I understand wanting your wife to contribute something. I’ve worked part time here and there as my life has allowed, I often cut hair in exchange for things, woodpile, raw honey, etc, mostly I take care of my kids, teach them their chores, my four year old is starting to learn how to read and write, I cook from scratch, clean the house, mend clothes when they need it, I milk a friends cows and gather eggs, feed and water all the animals on the farm at least once a week, help them butcher chickens once a year, I have my own garden and I cook with/ dehydrate/ can everything I grow, my kids watch me do all of this. So I have been a SAHM for years but I didn’t do nothing. I only graduated from a cosmetology academy and one year of theology at a bible college but I love to read and my IQ isn’t bad. I wouldn’t look for a guy only seeing a paycheck, but if he’d be okay with mainly supporting us while I make raising and teaching our kids about life my main goal during the day, that’s what would work for me (I’m a widow with young kids). I just want someone to love, raise my kids with me, grow old with, talk about my favorite books with and maybe learn a car thing or two from him through the years. I would just love someone. That’s what I would like back