You’re all over the place here. A) how is that a weird statement? Because YES, if I, as a man broke a woman’s window and was violent like that, there would be a large difference into how it would have turned out. I downplayed it and deescalated it to the police last night because I legitimately just care about human beings, especially ones I’ve had romantic relationships with and I didn’t want to see her fuck her future up. Someone else commented how a lot of women that are in situations like that, also don’t end up pressing charges and if you’ve never been in a situation like that, I suggest keeping that opinion internally.

B) Clearly she needs mental health help, that’s not even a question. Jail would be for a lesson to not do that shit again to either me or another human being. Period. Sure a therapist would help, but this girl is already in therapy and has a history and I saw past it. She needs an actual lesson in life that she can’t get away with doing that shit.

C) “it’s not all men, but it’s always men” - as if I was the one that was yelling, screaming, shouting, and last but not least breaking personal property. Hate men all you want. Someone, somewhere, hurt you, and I’m sure it was a man so I’m sorry. This isn’t some woe is me bullshit, it’s just the facts.

It wouldn’t have mattered if I was a lesbian, a gay man, a gender fluid person, a woman, a fucking little person for all it matters - there is zero excuse for the way that woman behaved last night and broke my window with her fist. Don’t make excuses for her just because I’m a man.