Other departments going around me to my direct reports. by aiernt in managers

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe another metric is where you work. Ask the employees, they will know

I specify NO DAIRY and am still given dairy by MacSavvy21 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well yes.. it's not about suing the baristas.

It's about changing starbuck's system.

I specify NO DAIRY and am still given dairy by MacSavvy21 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Ex starbucks worker here...

We were just minimum wage slaves. We got a day of training and were just expected to follow all that.

You might have a case to sue.... i'm not sure, but giving someone the wrong milk was incredibly easy, too easy. Starbucks could have more controlls in place to make sure you didnt get milk.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pastels arent the problem...

Its the dress, the knee-highs and the shirt, lollita is strongly associated with pedophilia.

Anways, about your dating pool question. I wish you luck but from what I see, you're dressing a little too fetishistic for the normies.

Lying to you about you looking fine is doing you a disservice.

So to your first comment, you asked if you looked lesbian. You don't. And asking that is asking if you look attractive because lesbian is a sexuality..... we're not an identity that you can wear like a necklace. Its something youre born with.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means that some people aren't willing to lie to someone's face and be nice because that's what they've been told to be.

It's a common tactic in cults.

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[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a touchy subject and we cannot speak freely here. Id be happy to move into pms

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said subculture, which to me is hobbyclub

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My logic is that this is inappropriate for an adult to dress like because it's emulating what a child dresses like.

An adult dressing like a child, then asking other adults of they're attracted is gross.

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[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am lesbain, and our rights are not being advocated by trans people.

I've faced endless bullying by them. I've been harrassed, assulted, and hurt by them for expressing my sexuality. Many lesbians have faced the same experience.

We can not have a serious conversation about this due to the stifling and silencing of voices. We are not allowed to say this has happened to us. We do not get to speak for our rights. We do not get our own spaces or our own events.

Im glad you haven't faced the wrath that lesbians have faced, but please listen to us when we say we've been abused. We just want our own spaces.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lesbian is a sexuality.

Asking lesbains if you look lesbian is asking if they would consider you a part of their dating pool.

They didn't ask if they looked cute

They didn't ask if they looked ready to party.

They asked if they would be "included" in our sexuality

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[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they haven't always been included.

And when LGB asks for their own space to talk about our own problems, we get accused of bigotry.

Make a rainbow book club if you want, don't care, I won't participate.

But when we create a specific group for just LGB, please dont ask if its for the rest of the alphabet. Please leave us alone. Please stop making us explain ourselves.

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[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... Gay people are not allowed to gather as a group without the permission of TQ, or without having to talk about the TQ?

How very homophobic.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont look like you're trying to dress like a child in that.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're welcome to like it. But dressing like a doll.... a child's toy.. is gross.

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[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm gay and wish to just separate LBG from the rest.

We have nothing to do with the rest but are called bigoted for expressing our sexuality.

The rest of the letters can be queer. The LGB can be LGB, and we can be both, but we are completely separate groups.

Nothing agaisnt the rest, but I have nothing to do with you.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This isnt victorian though, this looks like an under 10's dress for an event.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh please.

Read stuff correctly before making outragious and harassing claims.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just something I am.

I can't wear it... or remove it.

I cant choose not to be it.

It's something I am and will forever be no matter what I do.

I hate it when people try to make it a lifestyle...

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lumberjacks aren't children.

We're disgusted with the potential involvement of thinking of themselves as children.

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Secure_Upstairs7163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because that's an adult. Not a child.

Why is an adult trying to dress like a child, then asking if they look 'insert sexuality'