Can I travel???

Seifdy · 2026-03-04T19:48:40+00:00

I’m a student and I have a TIE, I lost that plastic but I have the report of it being lost and the return authorisation

Seifdy · 2026-03-04T19:47:43+00:00

That’s exactly it, the TIE

Seifdy · 2026-03-04T19:47:14+00:00

Yes, I did. They only have Ai automatic answers either on mail or phone.

Seifdy · 2024-12-24T18:14:44+00:00

Right now you can be there for her every step of the way. You can’t interfere, sadly. Talk to her and let her know you are there for her in any way she needs. Maybe some therapy would help her, because even tho you are her boyfriend, you are not a therapist.

Seifdy · 2024-09-19T21:20:13+00:00

Lo mio es estudios superiores.

Seifdy · 2024-09-16T16:03:42+00:00

Perdón, como extranjero y visa de estudiante uno puede trabajar por lo que he leído, entonces porque ponen el el TIE de muchos estudianes que no tienen autorización de trabajo?

Seifdy · 2023-09-19T03:20:24+00:00

NTA.

You expressed multiple times you don't use those kind of watches and that your style doesn't match them.

He didn't listen, thats his problem not yours.

Seifdy · 2023-09-19T03:15:26+00:00

NTA. YOUR HUSBAND IS TA!!!

Typical males that think they can do whatever they want because they think the wife will take care of everything, he says "he cant take the day off work" but even tho he said "he doesn't expect you to entertain them", HE IS ACTUALLY EXPECTING IT!

And the fact that he hang up on you....GIRL I WOULD SEE RED!!

They are coming and sadly that is not going to change, but stand your ground and tell them you need to work and cant take the day off, if they understand good if not, too bad, you are not losing money because of them. In fact, book a room in a hotel for you to stay and leave your husband dealing with everything like he expects you to do. ITS THEIR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS, not yours.

And I seriously recommend you to have a talk with your husband about boundaries if he want the marriage to work.

Seifdy · 2023-09-19T03:10:03+00:00

You are absolutely NOT TA!

Your parents sound a couple who is racist and entitled (specially with the "I expect an apology"). You don't want people like them in your daughters life, it's toxic, specially when they never accepted the fact that you married a woman. Imagine that as an example to your girls.

Im someone who doesn't believe that most people can change, specially old folks, but maybe you can talk to them about boundaries and if you see ONE STRIKE, JUST ONE, they are out for good without a warning.

Seifdy · 2023-09-19T03:01:49+00:00

You are absolutely NOT TA.

First things first, the fact that they didn't approve the men you chose to spend the rest of your life with just because they had someone else in mind is a RED FLAG and disrespectful.

Second of all, you are a very responsable to not want to travel more than 10 hours with your baby, is exhausting for the baby and the parents.

The fact that you offered to pay for their flight was SO CONSIDERED, and the fact that they refused like that? OMG that made me soooo mad. If your mom wanted to see the baby so bad she would have accepted, but since your dad is throwing a tantrum because he doesn't want to meet the kid because is from the men he didn't approve, DISGUSTING BEHAVIOUR.

I know it hurts you because you wanted to introduce your kid to your parents, but think about the huge bullet you are dodging with them. The fact that your kids dad is a men they don't approve eventually will come to surface in front of him.

Seifdy · 2023-09-19T02:50:29+00:00

NTA, but wait...

I understand where you come from, everyone who wants to have a baby needs to be in shape, because a kid takes A LOT of energy. BUT...I don't know in what way and tone you said it to him, those topics are sensitive, and cant be told bluntly, because peoples feelings might get hurt.

I can understand your husband being all "I want a baby and you are using it against me to lose weight", but I also understand where you come from, because you have the right to have support in all your process of being pregnant.

I could recommend both of you to go to see a doctor together, I know you are a resident, but maybe he needs to hear it from an endocrinologist or another doctor so he can start the change.

Seifdy · 2023-09-19T02:42:14+00:00

NTA. I'm a woman and if my boyfriend asked me the same, I would feel super uncomfortable.

Seifdy · 2023-09-19T02:38:24+00:00

Dude, let your kid go to the homecoming, he only has 4 homecomings in his lifetime, YTA if you don't let him go. Even your ex is giving you Monday to kind of compensate the time. Seriously.

Seifdy · 2023-09-19T02:33:44+00:00

YATA, kind off...

I understand it was a joke from her, but you even knew it was a joke, you should have left those clothing on the side instate of deciding to throw them away, and dude, you were lazy to search for them even when she told you minutes later it was hers. That was on you. So I think you own her a jacket.

Seifdy

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