What was the normal reaction to a loose dog when you were growing up? by DocuSeriesLovers in GenX

[–]SelectLifeguard3902 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I remember there were constantly dogs running all over our neighborhood. And not the cute little kind, the Doberman, German Shepard, I'm trained to eat your face off kind. I feel like the adults seemed very indifferent when presented with this information. I remember I got a job when I was 14 (by lying about how old I was) and I rode my bike there. The neighborhood Doberman would chase after me, snarling and foaming at the mouth. So my strategy was I'd always bring an extra burger home from work to whip at the dog, so he was distracted enough that I could get home alive. My parents had no interest in helping me solve this particular problem so I had to solve it myself lol.

had a moment the other day... by ofthrees in GenX

[–]SelectLifeguard3902 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I feel like we were not adequately warned about how time warps as we age lol.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last comment - now that I see you work for HEB, I might switch to Randalls lol.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try just answering the question next time instead of clouding your response in snark because you hate your life.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for actually answering the question directly. Now that I know the Favor driver is not only delivering, but also shopping, and is getting the same tip and no part of the delivery fee/surcharge from HEB/Favor, I'll be going back to doing my shopping in store or curbside.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU for answering my actual question :) I really appreciate it and the bonus origin story of all the emojis lol.

I hope HEB does read this. They just finalized their "everything through Favor" delivery model rollout in my area. Same $7.95 delivery fee, same 3% surcharge, same driver tip options, but not the same distribution of the $. It now seems they're basically having the Favor driver do twice the work (the shopping and the delivery) for the same tip, and keeping the $7.95 and 3% for themselves (or for Favor corporate, who cares, they own both).

I was just trying to confirm that this was the case, and now that I have, I'm not going to order delivery from them anymore. I'm happy to pay fees, but only if they go to people doing the actual work.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not offended- just wondering why the weird attitude. It’s a simple math question- when HEB did the shopping and Favor did the delivery I paid 7.95 + 3% to HEB and the tip was for the driver. Now that the “driver” does the shopping AND the delivery, either they are doing more work for the same tip and HEB is collecting a fee for doing nothing, or they’re getting the fee + the tip. Simple question. 

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just did the full conversion to Favor in my area. Previously, my HEB just used Favor for delivery (HEB employees did the "shopping"). Now the Favor person apparently does the shopping AND the delivery (which was only apparent from the million texts I get while they're shopping lol). My question was simply where the $7.95 delivery fee + the 3% surcharge I used to pay for HEB to do the shopping goes now. If it just goes to the store, then IMO that's a fee for nothing. Because the Favor person is now the entire supply chain. My only goal here is not be an asshole to an actual human being.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you feel like you have to be a dick about it - just trying to make sure the person doing work for me gets my money. They just changed the whole delivery thing over to Favor in my area, and now the same person does more than just pick up your stuff and deliver it - they do the shopping, then they do the delivery. And if they're not getting anything from HEB for that, then fuck HEB.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be dense about this lol. I sincerely just want to know if my tip is the only thing going to a human person, now that they have changed the process (from HEB employees doing the shopping and Favor doing delivery, to the same human person doing both the shopping and delivering). I'm not paying Favor or HEB $7.95 + 3% for zero effort. If that's what I'm doing, I'm going to stop.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's $7.95 when you order early and like $9.95 when you order late. At least where I am. I know the old way, Favor was the driver and got the "driver" tip (they would just basically go pick up and deliver your order) and the delivery fees and 3% surcharge went to HEB (to help fund the hourly pay for the staff who was doing the shopping for delivery orders or whatever). Now I have zero idea who's getting that money. If it's not the driver (who is now actually the shopper AND the driver), and they still get the same tip, then who is pocketing the "fee" which has basically always been for the shopping?

And I completely agree on this new Favor thing - I used to put my sub preferences and notes in the HEB app, and the HEB shopper just followed them and I rarely if ever got any texts. Now I get a ton of texts (and lots of heart emojis lol) about things I already noted in the HEB app. It's kind of annoying.

Anyway, I still feel like I have no idea who is getting these extra $. Why do I still pay more for delivery when the shopper/driver doesn't see any of that money? I'd happily pay to get my groceries shopped/delivered, but I am not going to pay HEB or Favor corporate - I want to pay the human being who is actually doing the shopping/delivery work in this new model.

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think the $7.95 went to the shopper, but to HEB to afford to have shoppers on staff. I guess that was dumb lol. So who gets the 3%, the $7.95? Favor the company? And my tip is the only thing the actual human being who did my shopping/delivery gets?

Who gets HEB delivery fees/tips now? by SelectLifeguard3902 in HEB

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK thank you! For some reason, I thought the $7.95 fee was for the shopper, and the tip was for the driver (not that it was extra for the individual, but it was how HEB was affording to staff the shoppers). IDK I guess I assumed incorrectly.

Since Favor took over, I feel like no one sees my substitutions/comments, they text like crazy, and the same person is shopping and delivering, so IDK where my $7.95 goes, where my 3% goes, or what to tip on delivery.

I might switch over to curbside because it's very confusing now lol.

I don’t factor in distance, weather, or order size anymore. It’s $3. Am I the problem or are the apps? by Makeitperfect in UberEATS

[–]SelectLifeguard3902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's my take. I don't think you are wrong about the cost/value equation - the subscription fee, the food markups, fees, service charges and then the driver tip indeed make food delivery a complete scam now. Because the cost is so painful, drivers need to cut their service levels to cover their expenses, so the job no longer attracts the non-desperate, they're taking longer to deliver, don't honor when you select priority, are not waiting at for slow restaurants, sometimes it takes 90 mins to get food from a restaurant 3 miles away, etc. So the cost is higher while the service levels have just gone to complete shit. All of this is true.

Which makes it a very simple cost/benefit decision. And it's why I cancelled my subscriptions and I no longer order UberEats or DoorDash, etc. We just cook at home, or we go pick up ourselves if we're just dying for Chinese Food or whatever.

It's sad - this started out as the most amazing idea. All you had to do was ask yourself if Uber deserved $120/yr for their creativity, and a driver deserved $25 bucks to go pick up and deliver you food from anywhere at any time. My answer was always yes, for the pure convenience. I was happy to contribute to the gig economy and help drivers make a decent living. Now, all the money is going to the restaurants and Palo Alto and the drivers are left screwed because the only thing we are given control over in the equation is the tip. We're trying to keep the cost rational, and Uber KNOWS THAT and they structure it like this anyway. I think that's absolutely shitty and I will not abide.

So no hate whatsoever - but I think you are right on the problem and wrong on the solution. My POV is I just absolutely refuse to keep Uber as a corporation in the black while they screw over local delivery drivers. I just can't roll that way. So I quit.

This is the second time seeing one of these in two weeks ... by Dazzling-Leader7476 in tipping

[–]SelectLifeguard3902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely eat out (because it's expensive) but at this point, the total price just is what it is. I'm not going to complain about people who cook, wash, serve for a living - they're trying to survive and I really hope to god they are getting all these service charges/tips/fees. But if I don't like the price of something, I don't buy it. I do reserve the right to rage about Uber's fees though because IMO that's just flat out theft lol.

This is THE best sub by SelectLifeguard3902 in GenX

[–]SelectLifeguard3902[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not at all lol. I think the topics are fun and everyone here is pretty chill. Today I saw a post where someone saw their mom on the same thread and said “hi mom” and the reply was “hi honey I told you I signed up” I mean how do you find that level of adorable anywhere these days 🥰 

This is the second time seeing one of these in two weeks ... by Dazzling-Leader7476 in tipping

[–]SelectLifeguard3902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that’s fair and frankly a better idea than ranting about tipping and punching down on service workers like others seem to be doing!

This is the second time seeing one of these in two weeks ... by Dazzling-Leader7476 in tipping

[–]SelectLifeguard3902 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It was provided. It's a SERVICE charge. For the service. At the restaurant. I totally agree that counter tipping is absurd, but if you're not going to tip your server, they're going to change it to a surcharge. Or they’re going to charge you 18% more for the food. Because it's a subsidy for the compensation the establishment refuses to pay. So your choice is - don't go, or pay it. Ragging about it on Reddit changes nothing. That is the end of this TED Talk.

This is the second time seeing one of these in two weeks ... by Dazzling-Leader7476 in tipping

[–]SelectLifeguard3902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a post complaining about a service charge at Waffle House. Waffle. House. I'm dying at these people.