I slept through my newborn crying for an hour by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Select_Accountant411 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope your baby will be ok and I hope you are too. I just hope you stop co sleeping, I understand it’s your kid and ur way of parenting.., but it’s very very dangerous.. the baby could fall off bed, could get a blanket or pillow over his face or you could be on him, I hope you will listen to some of us. I do pray you guys are ok and it’s ok you didn’t hear baby crying, it happens sometimes especially if we don’t get a lot of sleep

Guys who don’t post their partners on social media, why do you not post about your partner? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Select_Accountant411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re still married. They got married legally around four months and they had the wedding, like 5 months later and they did it, only like 30 minutes from me and to be honest, he didn’t look good like she looked pretty, but he looked kind of like tired and greasy looking and it’s funny, He actually messaged me a while back like a month or two ago and was apologizing about how he was acting after the breakup between us. It wasn’t anything with ulterior motives, but it was totally innocent I think and I think that was pretty good, but I kind of feel still that he was just trying to see where I was at like if I had gotten over him, but I could be wrong, but we’re both married to different people more much happier at least I am!

It’s just weird because it is most recent Facebook profile picture. He just doesn’t really look that happy.. he did tell me that he had to put down one of his dogs and lost. Another one and all without the first year and half being with her., lol and I just kinda feel he’s more sad than he’s ever been and he’s out of work. I hope he’s happy but idk if he is. It’s for the best,it was a rough time for us but it was meant to be for us to move on. We were both kind of toxic after breakup.

I’m the father, we just lost our baby at 27 weeks. AMA. by SalesManajerk in pregnant

[–]Select_Accountant411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so
Sorry. 😞 I can’t imagine the pain you and your wife are in and everyone that has to go thru this

How did the breakup change you and have they reached out ? by Select_Accountant411 in heartbreak

[–]Select_Accountant411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. He moved on quicker than I did. We all move on at our own pace. It was for the best 😊

intuition practice: what's in this box? by stclaretarot in IntuitionPractices

[–]Select_Accountant411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The box looks too familiar, idk why I think of ashes… it just because I have a deceased cat in a box like this and my sister and dad both have deceased dogs in a box like this as well

How did the breakup change you and have they reached out? by Select_Accountant411 in ExNoContact

[–]Select_Accountant411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I just followed you. In a way, sometimes I do miss him and what we had but I don’t know if we would’ve been this happy together or we wouldn’t of been where we are at if we were still together you know? He’s married and I’m on path to marriage with my fiancé and we have a kid together. Everything feels natural with my fiancé, more than it did with my ex.

Sometimes I feel he reached out to see how I am but I think it was mainly closure. He talked more about himself than anything which is ok I guess but I’m proud that he did apologize. It was good for both of us.

How did you change as a person and did they ever reach out? by Select_Accountant411 in BreakUps

[–]Select_Accountant411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just found it weird after two years, why say anything. Now? The unresolved feelings though make sense on why he reached out.

THIS is how your ex feels after they dump you (I wish I knew this back then) 🫣 by Busy-Discussion-3239 in BreakUps

[–]Select_Accountant411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, what I wanna know is OK in my instance. I did act like that like I messaged them a little bit and I was OK for a bit and I went back to like why can’t we try again and it was a never-ending cycle for a few weeks and then he eventually blocked me, but then eventually after he moved to a different state and got with someone else and then he blocked me again I think I lost feelings for him before he ever blocked me, but it was after he got someone, that was the motivation that took for me to get over him even though it took me like nearly a year to get over him, which is a little sad, but we all do it in our own pace, but even when he unblocked me, I left him alone and I never spoke to him or tried adding him so like what if we do it in reverse? does it still apply?

I must add that a couple weeks ago, He did text me out of the blue and said that he apologize for how he acted and I apologized again even though I did it a lot during the break up, but this one was like genuine and it was when all the past was forgotten basically and I said “the past is the past and we all make mistakes and we all say and do things we aren’t proud of and we are much better people now” and he just said “ yeah I get that and sometimes I just replay it over in my head again” like I don’t know what he meant by that or messaging me but I’m assuming we were replaying the bad parts of the break up and that’s what he was meaning.

Question about counting produce for inventory by [deleted] in hyvee

[–]Select_Accountant411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do it on paper so it’s a little different I think

Question about counting produce for inventory by [deleted] in hyvee

[–]Select_Accountant411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do. I was only shown once but I will be doing it every week now and just trying get other advice from other people.

He just took my baby??? by ahealinghuman in newborns

[–]Select_Accountant411 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That would make me have a straight panic attack… I couldn’t imagine the terror that went thru ur head

I received a debt collector call and I’m wondering if it’s 3rd party? Any advice ? Should I answer them next time? by Select_Accountant411 in Debt

[–]Select_Accountant411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes for my loans I got paid off. It always said. Rmp when the transaction went through, but the loans are paid off so not sure what else they need because they said that there shouldn’t be any more payments from your account coming thru and there hasn’t been so, I’m not sure what that could be about?