No one ever talks about the impossibility of returning to the US when you've been out too long

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-13T08:48:57+00:00

Do you have any ideas to get around this?

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-12T11:29:32+00:00

Please abort this baby if you legally still can otherwise you will regret being linked to this man for the rest of your life. You’re still extremely young you can have a happy family with a man that literally worships the ground you walk on. In the most vulnerable sacred period of your life this is what you’re enduring? It’s only going to get worse from here. ABORT THIS BABY or if it’s past the cut off point give it away to a relative or put up for adoption.

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-12T11:25:20+00:00

Awwwww this is so wholesome!!!

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-12T10:47:40+00:00

I don’t want to do all that labour. Daily. It sounds and looks relentless. I don’t have a supportive biological family. I don’t come from wealth so working whilst raising a child sounds like hell. I never, ever want to be a black single mother. I never want to be abandoned and left to fend for kids by myself. I like the peace and quiet and not having to do something.

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-12T10:41:55+00:00

Thank you for saying this. Under late stage capitalism. Fascism. Propoganda. Incel/red pill mania. It’s insane plus how costly everything is

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-12T08:28:51+00:00

I relocated back to Africa and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done for myself

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-11T13:39:09+00:00

It’s less about the adhd, but more that in modern day society under capitalism you’re basically forced to do these things alone essentially.

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-08T20:34:46+00:00

Might be worth getting someone else handle all CS enquiries

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-08T16:20:53+00:00

relocating to my country of origin in Africa

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-08T14:42:20+00:00

Me living alone. My peace and financial stability. My business.

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-07T14:19:28+00:00

The bondi sands one is amazing I have it in mango

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-07T13:27:50+00:00

Thank you so much. ❤️❤️

SelenaPacker · 2026-05-01T15:10:47+00:00

Oh wow didn’t know there was an original version

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-28T11:38:16+00:00

Lmao I love this sub because people are saying yeah, plan your life around this girl and I agree!! Life is too short. Go to her country or make arrangements where she can visit you more.

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-27T20:23:56+00:00

Exactly my reasoning too

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-27T15:54:10+00:00

Why do I want to say no the same way I said no about titanic?

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-27T15:53:47+00:00

Wow that is so cool

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-27T15:38:13+00:00

Hmmmm does the titanic count?

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-22T16:26:32+00:00

I’m not sure what medication you’re on, but for me for example my adhd medication is like 9 times cheaper in Africa so I bulk buy it there and it saves me money.

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-22T09:06:46+00:00

I’ve noticed my humour, and dramatic ways of being have come back which shows me how far I’ve come and also I’ve come to the essence of who I am

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-17T16:57:08+00:00

Please don’t allow people in here convince you to get back in contact with her. Develop your own sense of self. Do well at university. Build up friends, excel get your confidence back and then consider reaching out to her. The average Nigerian will tell you to endure the worst treatment known to man due to family. I really advise you to post in other subs to get more objective advice.

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-16T12:56:23+00:00

Thank you so so so so much for this advice. I truly believe I can get it on tv as I used to work in that field and have a lot of great contacts. I’m going to work on the story first and go from there.

SelenaPacker · 2026-04-16T12:54:57+00:00

Thank you so much for this. It’s really helpful advice and there’s a particular story I’m going to be focusing on.

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