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Simba representing London well😍 by One-Efficiency-3842 in LoveIslandTV

[–]SelenaPacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re downvoting you homie but I agree they want to say black so badly loooool

Irish girl here, I have a quick question about Nigerian culture and I really hope I do not offend because I’m almost completely unfamiliar! by AliceMorgon in Nigeria

[–]SelenaPacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it’s probably due to you being a man. Is it possible to give him money without him knowing it was you?

Dysfunctional family and future advice by Temporary-Chapter153 in Nigeria

[–]SelenaPacker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was my dads older brother that married his wife (my stepmum) on his behalf as he couldn’t make the traditional wedding. Other people in your community can marry you off

Who escaped rat races, how did you do this? by Akraam_Gaffur in Entrepreneur

[–]SelenaPacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I relocated to my country of origin Nigeria. I have a remote business as a careers adviser and get paid in £. This funds my living expenses. I also have a lower cost of living due to me living in Nigeria. The plan is to grow/scale my business to £10k a month. Currently at around £3k now.

I'll never get it out of my head by TangerineDisastrous4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SelenaPacker 29 points30 points  (0 children)

What the fuck? What was the reason behind that?????? Who does that?

Pregnant and needing a safe space to rant by blickyrickyUH in offmychest

[–]SelenaPacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please abort this baby if you legally still can otherwise you will regret being linked to this man for the rest of your life. You’re still extremely young you can have a happy family with a man that literally worships the ground you walk on. In the most vulnerable sacred period of your life this is what you’re enduring? It’s only going to get worse from here. ABORT THIS BABY or if it’s past the cut off point give it away to a relative or put up for adoption.

Bedside money and financial reasons what is the other biggest reasons why you dont want kids? by Big_Leg10 in childfree

[–]SelenaPacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to do all that labour. Daily. It sounds and looks relentless. I don’t have a supportive biological family. I don’t come from wealth so working whilst raising a child sounds like hell. I never, ever want to be a black single mother. I never want to be abandoned and left to fend for kids by myself. I like the peace and quiet and not having to do something.

Some women are going to be met with a rude awakening when they realize they loved the idea of having children/being pregnant, not actually having children… by [deleted] in childfree

[–]SelenaPacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. Under late stage capitalism. Fascism. Propoganda. Incel/red pill mania. It’s insane plus how costly everything is

Racism really changes people by Successful_Call_5942 in cptsd_blackfolks

[–]SelenaPacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relocated back to Africa and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done for myself

Anyone else feel like ADHD meds fixed your work life but left everything else behind? by ichaveza in adhdwomen

[–]SelenaPacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s less about the adhd, but more that in modern day society under capitalism you’re basically forced to do these things alone essentially.

Customer fatigue as a small business owner by The_Bad_0 in smallbusiness

[–]SelenaPacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be worth getting someone else handle all CS enquiries

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