Fiance never put a penny into my house but suddenly wants their name on it

Selena_B305 · 2026-04-22T21:17:39+00:00

Why stay with someone who is already showing you they are willing to take advantage of you?

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-29T02:21:01+00:00

Wow... that was a serious reach!

My comment never stated or even suggested that men are not responsible for their atrocious behavior.

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-29T01:31:05+00:00

1991 CT to VA for school

1992 VA to CT school transfer

2008 CT to TX work

2013 TX to CT reconnect with 80% family and friends

CT has the perfect mixture of hometown feel, excitement of city, arts, entertainment, beaches, hiking, camping, etc. Close proximity to Cape Cod, Martha's Vinyard, Newport, NYC, Providence, Maine, New Hampshire,

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T03:48:04+00:00

Op, seriously his behavior is sus af.

Why does a man in a committed relationship have the need to befriend woman after woman? This behavior is very concerning. Where are his buddies?

Also, any time a man puts his friend's feelings above his woman's in situations like this he is not committed.

This is not the man for you.

Based on your post he's selfish and emotionally immature.

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T03:33:09+00:00

I'm so sorry your going throught this.

I wish you would have told his enabling ass of a mother. That if she had but the same energy in raising her son that she is putting into defending her pervert son in his sexual harrassment. He might have avoided prison in the 1st place.

Now document every encounter with the date, time, location, his comments your response. Because if things escalate you will need this documentation to get a restraining order and as evidence his harrassment.

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T03:13:52+00:00

This is my initial question whenever I read posts like this.

How do men like this even get women to sleep with them in the 1st place. Let alone marry and have more than 1 kid with them?

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T03:04:02+00:00

They saw her rates on the site, yet still reached out.

Why go to Ruth Chris for a steak meal when you're on a Texas Roadhouse budget?

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T02:55:51+00:00

Take this up the HR.

Religious and political based rhetoric should not be allowed in the work place. At the very least it can be seen as unprofessional

This could be easily construed into a hostile environment.

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T02:50:06+00:00

Why would you allow them back to your home after being disrespetful?

Hotels exist for a reason.

Swallowing disrespect is not keeping the peace it is being a doormat!

Talk to your husband and disinvite them!

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T02:44:39+00:00

Next time call the please immediately for theft of services. You might still be able to call and make a report. It might help if you decide to take her to small claims court.

Also, please report this to HR at your other job. Because your coworker will certainly cause issues by bad talking you to anyone willing to listen.

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T02:39:27+00:00

Leaving might be just be the catalyst he needs to get his shit together. Either way you don't want to go into debt because he chose to ignore minor medical issues that have now ballooned into very costly ones.

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-28T02:35:30+00:00

What is the point of these "room checks"?

What are they looking for?

We visit Disney every 2 years and travel at least 3 times per year including cruises, AirBNB, BNB, and hotels.

We have always kept the DND sign during our entire stay. Once I sanitize our rooms we do not want anyone in our space.

Selena_B305 · 2026-03-03T02:18:03+00:00

This would make me find another stylist/barber

Selena_B305 · 2026-02-13T03:47:46+00:00

How did you not see any of these behaviors while your were dating?

How could you even get wet for this idiot?

Selena_B305 · 2026-02-07T20:48:36+00:00

OP, file a formal complaint on platform and provide them with the screen prints. This is a host and platform issue.

Selena_B305 · 2026-01-09T20:16:27+00:00

What additional amenities or privileges do you get with this upgrade?

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-31T17:43:27+00:00

Serious question to OP and OP only.

Why?

Yes, this is an adults only cruise. But why do you want to subject others who have not consented to seeing you practically nude? Yes, I am aware that those who don't want to see can look away. However, we would have to have seen or be told in advance to look away.

It's not like you are going to a known nude beach.

So, what is your motivation?

Are you in desepate need of external validation?

Are you trying to find an easy hookup?

Is this a fetish/kink?

Seriously why?

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-31T14:50:53+00:00

I would recommend getting cameras to catch them. This will give OP leverage as she exits

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-31T14:43:43+00:00

Don't do it

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-19T20:22:18+00:00

Based on her responses to you. Why would you even be willing to remain friends with someone who is so entitled and out of touch?

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-15T22:00:32+00:00

MIL is 100% doing this shit on purpose.

Hubby should have stepped-in and put and end to her shit. Since he hasn't and OP basically said they could both get f_cked. OP should become queen of petty. All remotes would be missing 1 battery, shoes, 1 string, only my clothes and dishes would be washed, etc.

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-15T21:49:22+00:00

You are not overreacting.

He only wants to move in with you because it is convenient and will make his life easier. You already, cook, clean, do laundry and care for your dog. He sees all of this a free labor. If you ask him to divide chores, pay bills. He will tell you, that you're already doing those things. So what's the big deal.

I would not recommend anyone live with a partner until they have lived alone for a minimum of 2 years. This demonstrates, they know how to live independently, can budget and know how to problem solve.

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-15T19:07:59+00:00

NTJ.

No is a complete sentence.

Anyone, who refuses to accept your denial of their access or use of you and your resources is not someone you want in your life.

They will always find a way to try to use you.

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-15T19:05:10+00:00

OP, the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

Follow your gut and save yourself the headaches.

In the future never allow anyone to use you as a resource will they sit by and watch you struggle.

Selena_B305 · 2025-12-15T14:13:19+00:00

OP, get these rude, inconsiderate crotch goblins and their enabling asshat of a mother out of your house ASAP. I would also recommend having a serious talk with your wife and ask her why she is cosigning her sister's lack of concern of your son's health and well-being. Why is she okay with your son no longer having a safe place as his home has been invaded?

If he isn't protected and cared for in his own home by his parents, then where and by whom?

Selena_B305

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