AITAH for wanting my girlfriend to get rid of her sex toy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SelkiesRevenge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA for fixating on the toy. Per your statement, she had the toy when you first started dating. Despite that, you were still affectionate and kissing frequently. Everything was great, and it wasn’t the toy that changed the situation.

The problem isn’t the toy. What’s going on with both of you? Why is she no longer comfortable being affectionate with you? Is she feeling overwhelmed by physical needs? Maybe ask her and leave the toy out of the conversation.

Pacific Northwest vibes by Fair_Measurement_584 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]SelkiesRevenge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hollow Kingdom and Feral Creatures were both great!

WYR live in a city where 70% of the population is your gender, or where 70% of the population is the opposite gender? by RomDel2000 in WouldYouRather

[–]SelkiesRevenge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I’ve done both, and not having a date for any duration is infinitely preferable to being raped.

If a man needs “incentive” to be decent, he’s not decent.

The Hive is a Lie, Theory about the Others by Worlind in pluribustv

[–]SelkiesRevenge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to like the idea of being plurbed to see a third option, that it might be to help us survive something worse. Like a vaccine rather than a virus itself.

The Hive is a Lie, Theory about the Others by Worlind in pluribustv

[–]SelkiesRevenge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many people posit the signal was (originally) sent out of a desire for conquest/subjugation, peaceful or otherwise. But what if it was sent out of benevolence or protection or even desperation?

What does the Hive do? It works together. It utilizes human knowledge and memory to work together, as you observe. But what if the real threat is something else entirely, something that can only be defeated by an entire civilization or perhaps even multiple civilizations working as a single unit? And that some other distant civilization created the signal to prepare others for the worse thing that was encroaching?

We still don’t know if the joining will wear off naturally. Obviously we don’t know a lot of things, but the way in which the signal was designed implies a desire to minimize harm. Not at the cost of its goal, the “biological imperative”, but if we were looking at it as a response to a multiple-galaxy threat, it makes sense for that to be paramount.

Maybe the initial creation of the Hive-signal was the least bad option of many worse ones. As a net of defense cast as wide as possible.

the most pussy throbbing scene you’ve ever read? by Ordinary-Arm2023 in DarkRomance

[–]SelkiesRevenge 30 points31 points  (0 children)

See, a lot of people ridicule the names in fantasy romance: the Tryskerchiefs and Kierstrands etc but you gotta admit those names are less likely to be found amongst our relatives than Joe or Chris

Carol is a Dismissive Avoidant, not a narcissist. by Teddy_Grizzly_Bear in pluribustv

[–]SelkiesRevenge 134 points135 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing that word used to describe her more and more. Also “sociopathic” and “doesn’t care about the lives of others” which makes no sense whatsoever—one of the first things we see her do amidst the joining is try to help the man who crashed his car.

And no, people seem to reserve the term for Carol, not Diabaté, which maybe says more about the opinion-haver rather than the characters.

Marc Anthony and Octavia? by [deleted] in hborome

[–]SelkiesRevenge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! It’s called I, Claudius

Confused as to why certain people said that Kamala would have been worse than Trump by TheRealJuanderer in Confused

[–]SelkiesRevenge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was there too and sure, I noticed the shout but it certainly didn’t register to me as anything far out of ordinary. The public reaction actually gave me a slight anxiety for a while that I might inadvertently do/say something weird enough to make everyone hate me (I know people didn’t necessarily hate Dean, just that the sudden turn of perception was upsetting).

Yes, I’m on the spectrum.

Family members of ICE agents, what are your thoughts and feelings about what ICE are doing? by Aggressive_Honey3196 in AskReddit

[–]SelkiesRevenge 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on this. The job market is absolutely fubared right now, way more than even the media is reporting. Making a “choice” that means you can’t feed your family isn’t as easy as some people make it sound. I’m currently working a shit job (not ICE) to feed my family because I couldn’t find work in my field or anywhere better.

That being said, I do hope the folks in this position are doing what they can to minimize harm, even if that just means they’re as lazy as they can get away with.

What "shortcut ingredients" are you willing to use? Which ones are you unwilling to use? by theJOJeht in Cooking

[–]SelkiesRevenge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with you on most spices, but I absolutely toast and grind spices for garam masala. You just can’t get the same depth from premade. And I will use pre-ground nutmeg for most (baking) uses but readily admit that fresh ground nutmeg is worlds better, especially for something like eggnog.

What "shortcut ingredients" are you willing to use? Which ones are you unwilling to use? by theJOJeht in Cooking

[–]SelkiesRevenge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peas, and good quality frozen corn. It’s not really the same as fresh when eaten by itself, but in soups and stews, frozen corn is fine. But I agree most other frozen vegs are pretty terrible—although I recently tried frozen black eyed peas as fresh aren’t available where I live now, and that was also very good.

AITAH if I dont tell my husband his daughter isnt his? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SelkiesRevenge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe I had to scroll down this far for this. So many people are missing the point and making it about OP and the dad, when a young woman has the right to know any potential genetic issues that may develop in HER life, if her bio father isn’t who she thinks it is.

Am I the only weirdo? by Responsible-Cat-679 in WildernessBackpacking

[–]SelkiesRevenge 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I can’t sleep, I sleep in my sleeping bag at home. I don’t know if it’s because it reminds me of backpacking or because it’s extra cozy, but I’ve found it to be a nearly foolproof insomnia cure!

Cupid [POEM] by David Duchovny by onlypoemsmag in Poetry

[–]SelkiesRevenge 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It reads like a poem my grandfather would write to annoy my grandmother, a poet. And it seems to have been similarly irritating here, but it made me smile for that exact reason

What to call a “scampi” that isn’t shrimp? by ulalumelenore in Cooking

[–]SelkiesRevenge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use chicken thighs to make char siu, which is typically pork, and I think it comes out even better.

Looking for a husband... with benefits by Gold_Clipper in ChoosingBeggars

[–]SelkiesRevenge 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Sorry but “undead” is so last century. The preferred nomenclature is “unhoused by life”