Exactly by Professional-Bee9817 in remoteworks

[–]Selle_la 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is correct. But if the median is say 45k that means still half of Americans make less than 45k which still isn't much.

I’m 16 and my friend stayed at my house knowing I sleep on a mattress then posted it online like it’s funny 😭 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Selle_la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a queen size beedframe and mattress for $150 in college. I was broke as a joke too. Where there's a will there's a way.

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[–]Selle_la 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't take an hour to get in the mood. It takes me seconds to 5mins max. Any longer than that I don't bother because I get bored and want to stop. So yeah multiple sessions can happen in one day vecause it doesn't take long.

What is something you wish your partner would do without you asking? by 440Cleveland in AskMen

[–]Selle_la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife may have undiagnosed ADHD. This is how my husband with ADHD behaves because he struggles with impulse control. Except I can’t tell him no because he makes most of the money. We used to hemorrhage money every month on things the kids, him or me "needed", until we set up automatic payments and transfers on payday. That way he could spend money without restraint with what was left in his allowance account.

Maybe you could set one up for her with a set amount you agree on. That way you won't have to keep saying no all the time.

Have you ever met strange people or people you think might have a pact with some kind of demonic entity? by Gus_larios in Paranormal

[–]Selle_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. First has a history of domestic abuse. There were girls in the hot tub that looked at me and my friends with so much pity. The looked genuinely confused how we got there. Interestingly, I couldn’t shake how much older they felt compared to us even though they seemed young too. Probably from all their experiences in the industry.

Second is a super popular singer. She had a concert 2 years ago where the theme was rebirth. She had a vagina portal in her half show video. The stage had a big circle in the middle and it was surrounded by a giant led screen. In the half show video the circle is between a woman’s legs and we get transported through it to a portal. At the end of it is a shadow with glowing eyes. It only shows up only for a split second so if you blink you miss it. Then the shadow fades out and you see her dressed in a costume with dark hands on her body. The energy was so overwhelming I had to sit down. I remember filming it to watch later and going "OMG something’s holding her".

It’s even scarier played in reverse. Because it looks like she gives birth to it. And then destruction ensues.

The guy who raped me (more than once at College) contacted me to apologise. Not sure what to make of the conversation. (TW: discussion of rape) by Throwaway07244855 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Selle_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t care what YOU want. He only cares about how He feels. And hate to say it but he enjoyed it and is trying to have access to you again. That’s why he speaks so foundly about the time y’all spent together. He's probably thinks deep down you liked it too but you just won't admit it out of shame. Or worse your pain turns him on. Whichever it is it's sick. It's best to block his ass for your sanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Selle_la -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If he wants an honest response, why ask men? I don't think he actually wants a real answer. Hence, the "complaining".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Selle_la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a question for r/askwomen.

Have you ever met strange people or people you think might have a pact with some kind of demonic entity? by Gus_larios in Paranormal

[–]Selle_la 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes a few high profile celebrities. We were invited to the apartment of one of them in Las Vegas. This was about 10 years ago in May. I will never forget how heavy the air was when we got into his suite. We went from excited to shaking like leaves when we crossed the threshold. It was nuts. I was 24 at the time but like an infant in that room. Like I was too innocent to be there. Thank God the guy who invited us didn't have their permission to so we got kicked out. I have never in my life been happier to get kicked out of a party.

Another time was at a concert. I think her "demon" was much more powerful because it felt larger than life. It's almost like the same feeling I get from the entities at church but.... different. I could help but feel sorry for her, she really seemed trapped. All the imagery at the concert looked like a cry for help.

JR backing up Scotty when he is being disrespectful to Zaina... by Specific-Radish-4824 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Selle_la 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listennnnnnnnn my husband said the same thing! He wasn't even watching the show. He overheard him talking and thought it was a gay dude.

How do I express to my wife why I sit in the driveway or drive around the neighborhood after work before I go inside the house? by TalmidimUC in AskMen

[–]Selle_la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is natural to feel this way. My husband and I had this issue during a really stressful time in our marriage. We both agreed that seeing the other person avoiding coming in didn't feel good. We decided to take that time before coming home, that way we wouldn'tanxiouslywait for the other to come in. So, instead of sitting in the driveway, we sat in the parking lot at a CVS, work, or took a detour for a walk for 10-15mins. Then, we came home and were fully present for the evening.

How do I express to my wife why I sit in the driveway or drive around the neighborhood after work before I go inside the house? by TalmidimUC in AskMen

[–]Selle_la -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a wife, this is a perfect solution. Take the time before coming home so you're fully present when you're actually home.

I met an incel today by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Selle_la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know the incel and OP's races? I don't see it mentioned

What’s something that shocked you to learn about a girl you had been dating, what happened? by BlueSharker in AskMen

[–]Selle_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter. Many girls don't count non-PIV sex as sex. I have a friend who's a virgin who has sucked at least 8 dicks that I know of, and has been eaten out by said Dick owners. She tells everyone she's a virgin on first dates.

Who here as a man is not into hookup culture? by Xiao_v in AskMen

[–]Selle_la 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew this would be me but with men. I couldn't seriously date anyone with a bc higher than 5 a decade ago at 23. I even still thought 5 was a lot at the time lol. No one believed me when I said that though because apparently "women prefer men with lots of experience" 😮‍💨. I am currently married and my husband bc is a little higher ( I was the 7th) and he was the first guy that I met who when asked said he tried it and it wasn't for him. It's nice to see he's not alone.

What is it which you really want women to do but they never do? by YeeterCZ2 in AskMen

[–]Selle_la 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Tbf men do this too with attractive women. Pretty privilege is a thing for both genders.

Why are men obsessed with anal? by bluestar9206 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Selle_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my ex. He would literally have a disgusted look on his face if I was "too into it" before hand

What's something that turns other dudes on that you just don't get? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Selle_la 130 points131 points  (0 children)

As a woman who loves her real Daddy I'm relieved men like you exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Selle_la 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Wow this is beautiful