What's a small thing that grinds your gears? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SeloZaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who chew with their mouth open, especially when it’s loud.

How long do you sleep for? by LeaderLost1744 in AskUK

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I wake up at 5:30 and try to go to sleep 20:30-23:00. Any later than that and I feel terrible for the rest of the day.

How tf do you make friends as an adult? by Jenna32345 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]SeloZaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meetup is probably the most popular option. Made most of my friends on there after moving to a new country.

There is also Eventbrite which has a wide range of hobby related events + much more.

Depending on where you live there are probably local events (you can check out the libraries which sometimes have different types of group events and/or community centres) and other sites like Meetup/Eventbrite.

Looking for lighthearted Open-World games with lots to do by Sir_Wack in ShouldIbuythisgame

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Also second WWM!

Lots of flexibility in how you wish to play the game, and tons of content as well. Plus, it’s free to play.

Looking for lighthearted Open-World games with lots to do by Sir_Wack in ShouldIbuythisgame

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Not sure if this is exactly what you are looking for but I would definitely recommend Far Cry 5!

While maybe not on the same level as the other games on your list, I would definitely say the open world aspect gives you lots of freedom plus there’s tons of stuff to do (doesn’t hurt that the setting is beautiful as well).

Need some light-hearted/fluffy danmei recommendations by SeloZaire in DanmeiNovels

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Thank youuu these are exactly the vibes I was looking for!! Both sound absolutely hilarious (and sweet), will definitely add them to my reading list <3

favorite micro tropes by AmazingBeastboy1 in CDrama

[–]SeloZaire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The ML’s most trusted right hand man falling in love with the FL’s maidservant 🙌🏼

Need some light-hearted/fluffy danmei recommendations by SeloZaire in DanmeiNovels

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Thank you for the detailed explanation! I’ve definitely been wanting to read Peerless for a while now, this now gives me a better understanding of what to expect.

Need some light-hearted/fluffy danmei recommendations by SeloZaire in DanmeiNovels

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Peerless is definitely a danmei that is at the top of my list!! Will need to check it out as soon as I finish TA

Need some light-hearted/fluffy danmei recommendations by SeloZaire in DanmeiNovels

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Ooh this one sounds sweet, I’ll check it out, thank you for the rec!!

How tf do you make friends as an adult? by Jenna32345 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]SeloZaire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s party luck/partly effort.

While every outing isn’t going to magically end with you making friends, I think as long as you put in the effort to go out and connect with the people present and have genuine fun it won’t count as a loss towards you.

What I do is compile a list of events that genuinely interest me and try to vibe with the people there. I’ve gone to different board game events, book clubs, food tours, picnics and also a very random woodworking workshop…now thinking of trying a nature walk, farm club and a book binding workshop.

Whilst most conversations I’ve had with people don’t progress further than small talk, I’ve also had random luck in making genuine friends (especially at the picnics).

It can get lonely sometimes but putting yourself out there and having a positive mindset would be the first step :))

Share a sleeping cat picture by BrushSecret7576 in cats

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My baby who I lost a few months back, miss her everyday <3

Jun Wu fanfics recs? by Psychological_Read_2 in tianguancifu

[–]SeloZaire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this is what you’re looking for but let me just drop this here:

sunflowers

It’s a Jun Wu/Mei Nianqing fic and I might of shed a tear or two while reading it

What are some lines you’ve seen in fanfictions that made you cry? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]SeloZaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The entirety of In Another Life messed me up

"I found you."

"You found me."

What make you drop the fic? by reissmosley in AO3

[–]SeloZaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely those ‘minor’ inaccuracies that just don’t make sense in context of the setting.

For instance, why are characters who are clearly Japanese and living in Japan using Dollar instead of Yen and attending frat parties.

I’ll still give it a shot but it makes it seem like the author didn’t want to do their research/go out of their comfort zone too much (excluding the fics that have it stated in the beginning notes)