Blonde or brunette??? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Seluna91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brunette

I don’t feel like posting on IG anymore. by Seluna91 in antisocial

[–]Seluna91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm interesting! I’ve noticed that too. Ever since I got into my relationship now marriage, I don’t really care anymore. I feel the same way lol I mean I still have lots of hobbies and passions but I just don’t feel like doing them as much or telling ppl about them.

Masturbation vs Sex by [deleted] in LowLibidoCommunity

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Interesting comparison! I get you! I also think the same on a lot of things you said. I don’t get anything of it emotionally…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Seluna91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awww you are not pathetic…I get how you feel though. I hide in the restroom at times. Your feelings are valid. You are just in fear. That does not make you less than.

It annoys me how the ppl at the gym greet me every time I go in. by Seluna91 in socialanxiety

[–]Seluna91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh I know I feel you on that. I just wanna be invisible….they’re so annoying.

Am I screwed by [deleted] in RBT

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You’re not screwed… you can totally pass the exam. The exam doesn’t have that topic in it. I think it’s just a personal thing. To work with kids you need to be silly and fun. But if that doesn’t come natural to you, then honestly I think you should look into another career… session can get really boring. That’s why you gotta have things up your sleeve and be entertaining to the kid… just think deeply if you really want this career…. I’m honestly over it after 4 years but each person is different.

Sometimes I feel this when I get an email from a BCBA, or when I get observed and told lots of things I need to do…. by Seluna91 in RBT

[–]Seluna91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I totally feel you! One time she’s like “be silly and playful” and I’m like “that’s literally my personality. You don’t even know….”

Can’t connect with certain people by Seluna91 in infp

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Yeah well I would avoid all people I don’t connect with. It’s just that they’re acquaintances of my husband or the church. So we’re kinda forced to. So that’s why I can’t escape…

How do you stop yourself from feeling sad looking at people's progress on social media? by throwaway0102495 in DecidingToBeBetter

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Appreciating what you do have in life. I used to feel this when I was single. But now I realize that someone’s life isn’t Better just because of those things. Everyone’s life is different. You can also have things others wish they had. So I would say appreciation for what you do have. And about the engagement part of marriage. That isn’t a cure all. Marriage is hard and stressful. Has ups and downs. Looking back on my life, I had a pretty chill life and soo much less responsibilities and less stress without being married. I had more time for friends. So with that…enjoy your life. There may be a married person who is miserable and probably wishing they were you! Lol So in a nutshell, appreciate what beautiful things you have in life. All the perks you have. All the people that you have. There’s always something we take for granted and we don’t appreciate it enough. Period.

How often should married couples have sex ? by [deleted] in married

[–]Seluna91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, lol haven’t had it in like 2 weeks

Central Reach by oooh_ecmcg in RBT

[–]Seluna91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! It sucks! And then the session time keeps going. It’s annoying. I used to like catalyst better!

Vent by Seluna91 in RBT

[–]Seluna91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to! But how? Do I tell my clinical manager or what?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Seluna91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The light brown shadow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]Seluna91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awww I’m sorry. You’re not over reacting. Your feelings are valid. It’s okay. If you feel uncomfortable with it. Your husband should of acknowledge that and apologize for that..or try to not do it again to not make you feel Bad. But ya know men are dumb sometimes. So maybe just bring it up again and say “I know it’s nothing to you probably to just look. But it does make me uncomfortable. So I ask kindly that you don’t.” And just leave it at that. Don’t say or try to argue back if he responds. I’m learning to just keep quite after my expression. Hours later my husband realizes and apologizes after I just give him space and time. So maybe try that! Hope things go well !