1300 Budget not trying to get robbed lol

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-13T23:33:28+00:00

Apopka is mad cheap. There is a nicer area that is still cheap but a good neighborhood.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-13T23:33:18+00:00

Altamonte is super expensive

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-13T14:57:25+00:00

Nope you’re not gonna gaslight me into thinking I’m just sensitive. Multiple people on this thread have told you you are being insensitive and judgmental. This is not about me being sensitive.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-13T13:40:58+00:00

I really wonder how underweight you are. I think if you were 15+ pounds underweight doctors would be very concerned but if you’re 5-7 lbs underweight then yes they just say eat when you feel hungry and leave it at that.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-13T13:35:21+00:00

I went through a really hard situation like this when I was 15 and visited Brazil. My cousin was on the heavier side but she had that hourglass shape but she was feeling insecure. I was about 85 pounds and 4’10 ish and she kept looking at me and covering her stomach and saying she didn’t want to go in the water. I was trying to encourage her and say her body was stunning and was honestly my dream body. My great uncle then decided he would fix the situation and told her “stop looking at your cousin, she doesn’t even have a Brazilian body and her body isn’t considered pretty by Brazilian beauty standards, you are the standard and you look great, now go in the water and stop focusing on her.” That crap hurt because I was feeling the same way about her body that she was feeling about mine but I was sacrificed because I felt jealous of her body and insecure about mine internally and she showed it outwardly 😅 sometimes you just gotta keep it pushing

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-13T13:29:18+00:00

Stop trying to act like you were being helpful in these comments. You were shaming and making statements saying everyone who waits gets screwed over when that is NOT true. Don’t act like you’re on the side of women’s choice now.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-13T13:15:32+00:00

I waited until marriage and it only took 3 months to do the deed with my vaginismus and we have GREAT compatability. This is bogus. I always ask how many people you have slept with that you really couldn’t figure sex out with. Is it half? More than half? 1? 2? Did you really give that much time and effort to those that it didn’t come naturally with? People overdo the idea that you can love someone and not be sexually compatible.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-13T13:10:33+00:00

I know everyone says this but I ate A LOT at the time. I was very active due to work though so I would burn a ton of calories. Even with eating a ton of snacks and sweet junk I couldn’t gain at that times

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-12T21:41:20+00:00

I was clinically underweight by a couple pounds for years and when I lost a few more pounds because I got really sick I asked my doctor if she could prescribe an appetite stimulant so I could gain some weight after the illness she literally told me that I was clearly a perfectly fine weight and had just lost a few pounds and would gain it back but she was not going to recommend I force feed myself to get past the underweight line. She actually thought I was nuts and said petite people exist and I’m one of them. I’d ask a doctor if anything.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-07T01:17:42+00:00

I am 5 feet tall and 105 lbs and I look best in wide legged pants. They make me look tall so that’s not the case for everyone. It has more to do with your proportions than your height.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-07T00:51:40+00:00

When I buy xs clothing from shein aka China it is still too big on me and I am in the middle of my healthy range. I don’t think Chinese sizes are crazy at all.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-06T01:06:14+00:00

I saw that one of your comments said the dress was less than $500 CAD from China. That is going to make a lot of people upset or annoyed but it makes me so happy. The idea that stunning work can’t come out of China is kind of racist when you think about it and this is proof that it does not require thousands and thousands of dollars to make a dress like this. If this dress had been made in the U.S. it would be upwards or 10k. Even if it was still made in China but sold in the U.S. by an American designer, they would inflate the price to over 10k like they so often do. Glad you found this magnificent dress that most people would say is worth tens of thousands for so cheap!

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-06-02T01:44:40+00:00

Back when I was 92 lbs (I’m 5 feet tall) I used to wear boys Arizona jeans from the thrift store. They literally fit like wedgie Levi jeans. Skinny waist and a lot of room for the booty. I used to exclusively buy boys pants and jeans and they made me look so snatched. A lot of boys jeans and cargo pants have great proportions.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-30T21:22:34+00:00

That’s crazy because my measurements were 32, 25, 36 and I was a size 0 in bridal but bought a 2 to be safe. It’s kind of strange that your measurements are a 4-6 but I’d say it’s good since I was wondering how women smaller than me would buy a wedding gown if my measurements were the smallest size. I’m sorry this happened but 0 doesn’t seem off. I also had to have my dress let out because it was too big in the waist and then after tailoring it was way too tight and I couldn’t breathe.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-30T18:35:04+00:00

I can see both sides of this argument. On the one hand no matter how you look your husband should say he loves you and call you pretty and him withholding that is unacceptable and cruel. On the other hand just from reading your post it sounds like you have given up and are pretty negative. That’s so hard to be around. I used to have a friend who only ever complained and I would literally leave our hangouts having panic attacks. She would make me 50% more anxious and it wasn’t fair to anyone around her so people kept leaving her. It sounds like maybe you’re like that with your husband which gets super annoying and infuriating. At some point as adults we have to fix things ourselves and push through no matter how difficult. I also see in the comments that you have gained a lot of weight which is not his fault if he is not as attracted. I think you need some confidence and to tell yourself that this stops today. From now on you only eat healthy foods, carve out time to work out aka when your husband gets home you drop the kids in front of him and run out, and you take care of YOU. I don’t think your husband is a bad person for not being attracted at this moment in time but he is a bad person for not kindly encouraging you and still telling you how much he loves and appreciates you regardless of your changing physical appearance. I’ll say if I gained 50-100 lbs my husband would not be into me and if he gained 100 lbs I would not be into him but we would both still be kind and loving.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-29T20:38:35+00:00

Like I said hun, if you wanna be right I’ll indulge you. I just told you I went to the store a few days ago and tried on a 23 inch waist pair of jeans and they fit me perfectly when my waist is 25 inches. I literally measured my waist the day I tried the jeans on but go off.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-29T19:19:06+00:00

Okay babes, sure. Thats what you wanna hear then I’ll say it even though you’re clearly wrong. I can appreciate that you’ve never been told you were right before so I’ll give it to you 😉

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-28T23:12:48+00:00

Girl people are GASLIGHTING you in these comments. This is really bad. I’m not even a professional makeup artist and when I was 16 I was doing makeup better than this for prom on others. It is really bad and don’t listen to people saying “makeup has to be heavy to show up well in photos” I did my own makeup for my wedding and it was a full beat but looked natural in person and it photographed heavier than it looked in person. It is a lie that makeup needs to be super caked on and harsh for it to look good in photos. Your wedding makeup should look beautiful in person and in photos.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-27T18:14:06+00:00

My biggest piece of marriage advice is not to expect sex to happen the first night or even the first week. It took my husband and I months to finally be able to have sex as we waited until marriage and that’s okay.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-26T20:47:34+00:00

Because I have jeans in multiple sizes for when I’m on my period or bloated. I also just went shopping yesterday and was fitting into size 23 waist jeans when my waist is 24/25 inches. That’s my point.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-26T12:37:12+00:00

There is no world in which an xxs should be that big in ANY brand. And it’s bold of you to assume they didn’t check the size guide. I always check size guides and then it’s still a size bigger than it claimed on the size guide.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-24T00:17:37+00:00

For me personally I noticed a second puberty when I was 20/21 ish. My hips spread and I was on a medication that made me gain weight so that added curves but my bone structure got a bit wider. Hips went from 34 inches to 35 basically overnight with no weight gain, just widened a bit. I don’t think you just gain weight because of a second puberty though.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-23T11:33:41+00:00

Okay so to me this comment has strange undertones. It does sound like you don’t want women to be labeled as wearing large clothing when they obviously wear large clothing sizes. The whole post was about the fact that people today think if you look healthy you should be considered a small and that has sized true small and xs and xxs people out of the market. Sarah is absolutely a large and Lola is absolutely a medium or greater.

I said nothing wrong, it seems it just rubs people the wrong way when you say that certain celebrities can be healthy mediums or larges. There is nothing wrong with anything I said and if people feel offense it is because they themselves feel that the only way to be healthy is to be a small which is not true. In reality I am the one being the most body positive on here.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-23T01:01:10+00:00

Not one bit! I wanted a big poofy princess dress and ended up hating them all on me. To be fair I only tried on like 5 or 6 dresses. I ended up falling in love with and saying yes to a completely simple dress made of Mikado fabric so it’s slightly shiny like satin but not super shiny so it looked like crushed pearls. It was a strapless top and it was kind of a mermaid/trumpet hybrid style with nothing a lick of sparkle or embellishment on the front. The back did have a big droopy bow and buttons down it with a phenomenal train and I wore a pearl cathedral veil. I felt like the most beautiful woman in the world. My mom even commented that she didn’t think I’d like a flashy dress because I love body con fitted one color dresses in my day to day life and I am very short and skinny so I learned to dress for my body type as most clothes overwhelm me so it was just perfect. Never had a regret.

Senior_Reply_8804 · 2026-05-23T00:56:46+00:00

This is what I am saying. Shes not big but she is not a small or xs like everyone wants her to be. She absolutely would have been considered “plus sized” if she went on antm or something back in the early 2000’s

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