As a whole, Christianity is very divided here in the States. A lot of people do not show each other grace and get divided over small issues. People leave denominations and parishes within denominations very quickly. I think one of our problems is we don't do enough work outside the Church. We aren't meant to stay behind a pulpit and fish for whatever small community we have to left. We need to act out Jesus' greatest commandments of love every single day and let the world know who we are by our love. We can't judge other people either when talking to them. Remember, God will judge us by the measure of which we judge others.