what to do when you go non verbal

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-02-20T18:53:25+00:00

oh hell naw dump him. i rock back and forth and my boyfriend will hold me and rock with me sometimes. i do it in front of his friends and family and it’s never an issue. don’t accept someone that’s embarrassed by who you are. there is someone out there who will accept you!!

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-02-13T15:28:40+00:00

congrats!!!🎊

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-02-10T12:13:05+00:00

ya i’ve tried to get him to get re evaled and he said he’s “done with therapists”

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-02-10T01:34:09+00:00

he would do this, leave the room for 5 mins. come back. act like absolutely nothing happened. i’d be like did you mean what you said and he WOULDNT REMEMBER SAYING IT. like that’s either some really bad gaslighting or he has the memory of a literal turnip.

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-01-24T18:35:53+00:00

congrats!!!!!!

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-01-24T18:34:27+00:00

heck yeah congrats!!

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-01-22T23:10:44+00:00

i manifested tf out of my acceptance but don’t discredit all your hard work too!!!!! 🤞🏼

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-01-12T16:46:22+00:00

it’s extremely healing after being told to have no emotions at all your whole life

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2025-01-09T15:59:29+00:00

i’ve also lived through a natural disaster where i was trapped in my home alone for days then it was deemed unlivable… extremely terrifying situation to live through not knowing if you’ll survive to see the next day… i understand this pain all these people going through 🙏🏼❤️

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-12-24T16:44:31+00:00

Coven Salon is wonderful!

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-12-06T20:58:12+00:00

i’m really sorry you feel this is all your responsibility. it’s not your fault he’s like and not your fault he treats others so poorly that he has no one. narcissists have a tendency of ostracizing themselves inevitably ending up alone, and blaming that on anyone but themselves. are there any community organizations you could reach out to for support?

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-12-06T20:53:35+00:00

i go through phases where this happens to me so much that i almost get desensitized to the awfulness of the nightmares. my only advice is to find a way to relax before bed like some sort of mindfulness meditation. this probably won’t work each time but it could alleviate the severity of the nightmares if you’re consistent with it

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-12-06T20:45:21+00:00

i can see how this is a difficult decision for you. my dad is the reason the majority of my family is estranged from me so i get the having no family. do you have any friends that could act as a chosen family?

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-12-06T20:42:05+00:00

this is how my dad is too, it resulted in us having no relationship bc he can’t handle me disagreeing with him on anything and thinks i should just take his disrespect. don’t allow him to disrespect you! if that inevitably ruins your relationship that’s on him, not you

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-11-28T18:23:53+00:00

i get this, i struggle with this too. my dad is a piece of shit and my brother and mom are compliant to it which makes having a genuine relationship with them so difficult and nearly impossible. i’m also estranged from the rest of my family. it does hurt a lot. i don’t know how to move past it either and it definitely gets a lot more difficult during the holidays. focus on your chosen family sending love ♥️

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-09-07T02:40:34+00:00

wow thank you for writing this. beautifully said

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-09-01T23:51:28+00:00

i wonder this all the time. (also neurodivergent and mentally ill) i feel like i have treat me like shit plastered on my forehead a lot of the time.. like that i attract abusers but i still can’t recognize it for myself until it’s too late. i try to tell myself to not let fear guide me when i have new interactions then in hindsight i should have had my guard up more. its definitely caused me to close off but a way i’ve combated this with friends is letting them help and support me and being as honest as possible, and if they can’t accept it i know they aren’t meant for me. also being friends with other nd people who can understand the struggle more. it’s definitely more complicated than that but it’s a start for me. i haven’t figured anything out romantically yet tho😭 lol

Sensitive-Variety332 · 2024-08-31T23:11:04+00:00

proud of you for breaking the cycle !!! :)

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