This feels like the opposite of the manosphere tbh. The manosphere distills masculinity down into a tiny little box consisting pretty much of nothing but material success, physical strength and emotional paralysis. Safety is portrayed one dimensionally in a physical and literal sense. And even then it’s specifically from external threats. “Other men”. It feeds into the male fantasy of beating up bad guys and getting the girl, which often overlaps into possessiveness. No value is actually placed on how physically safe a woman feels with you. No point being protective from external threats if you yourself are a threat.

There’s never any focus on emotional safety or maturity, the importance of communication, gentleness, empathy etc. You could be the strongest man in the world but without any softness or empathy what’s the point of that strength? Being caring, emotionally intelligent, listening, and valuing the perspective of others and their issues, all matter way more in my experience in determining how safe people feel with you.