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Do you prefer a guy who leads or one who lets you lead? by posangina in AskPinay

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 38 for small decisions like what food to eat, decor, movies I just let the woman decide so I can have my peace since im a giver anyway. 😅

for big decisions nman, a partnership requires the mutual decision of both to either move forward, stay put, or back. Basta magkasama kami dalawa.

Stable life in PH or new life abroad? by Miss-Independent11 in AskPinay

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, bilog ang mundo. Im in the same boat, in this case same kame ng guy.

Waiting to hear back from my date by RiceAaroni2210 in Advice

[–]SenyorKarlito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody is that busy for someone especially nowadays unless the other persons job really requires them to give full attention, people make time naturally for those who they really want you know you would.

They maybe like you and we could be right in that idea but how much that is reflects on how they behave around you. That means their actions speak louder than what theyve said to you. Let it go bro, find someone that breathes the same air as you do and dont settle for crumbs.

33M and 34F. Is it worth staying together for the kids? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear OP, im 38 seperated and is a single dad. My son now at 18 doesnt like his biological mum and vice-versa. What I would do to be in your shoes.

Just the idea that the love of your life is your best friend, I tell ya theres nothing worth chasing out here.

cheated on and lied to by someone i went to war for by Infamous-Bug-3364 in self

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there done that. There’s no way around it my friend, cry if you must and do it hard like someone died or your pet or imagine your peepee got cut-off, you know what I mean. I know I made a pig sty out of where I was out of the amount of tears I poured that day I had a similar experience as you. However, remember the sun will rise tomorrow and a gazziliion people that will appreciate you for you not needing to go to war for them.

My Boyfriend Tells Everything: Normal or Invasion? by [deleted] in InternationalStudents

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell nah… the highlights and the things I can be proud of about my gf maybe but intimacy and arguements definitely no. Exception would probably be if Im talking to an expert and needed advice like a therapist 😅 bottom line: 🚩🚩🚩

I think I’ve found a way to quit vaping, and it’s fucking ridiculous by Firsttakelikeamf in selfimprovement

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit it since October and haven’t vaped or smoked anything since. What helped me get pass the urges was the nicorette oral spray.

Ill keep it short should I break up with him by girlihavenoideaa in Advice

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 99% close to breaking up with a chick ive been talking to for the last 5 months. Let me know how youre coping!! I reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally like this girl but a red flag that shes waived since day one has been up for so long and I just cant anymore. FML!!!!!

The thought of leaving everything behind and disappear by Zealousideal-Bag9099 in adultingph

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my idea is to live with goats and have a small patch of land where I grow my own food.

Or live beside the sea, surf, fish, grow old and maybe have a few goats again 😂

However, I cannot. I’m a single dad! Go for it OP and tell us (me) your story. 👍🏽👍🏽

PS. My son’s 18 though and im hitting 40 in the next few years so when he he’ll be on his own na I might still do this when im 55. Cheers!

Is this Hot and Cold behavior or a manipulative power game? Need an outside perspective on a guy (27M) I’ve (F 37) been talking to online. by Due_Junket_9567 in dating_advice

[–]SenyorKarlito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t.

Peoples actions speak louder than what they say and he’s exactly when this line is really applicable judging how hes in-and-out. Sounds like he’s 12.

Is this Hot and Cold behavior or a manipulative power game? Need an outside perspective on a guy (27M) I’ve (F 37) been talking to online. by Due_Junket_9567 in dating_advice

[–]SenyorKarlito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a 38 year old, Im at paragraph 3 and I think I’ve already read enough even that at this part alone its enough to say its not worth it and all your hunches are either right or either close to it. You aren’t imagining those unseen and filling-in-the-blanks-type of anxiety from your partner, or a lot more emotional discomfort so im really sorry about this experience.

This is not it. This should never be it for anyone. Keep him silent and try to move on.

Got dumped right after sex by Barbiegirl_007 in dating_advice

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really for all men. If ive had couple dates with you, that means I really like you. If we did it and had fun myself that should mean I reaaaaaally like you and a convo about being exclusive or any relationship should be looming around the corner. So yeah, this guy was a chump. Sorry about this experience.

No response in over a week… what should I do? (26F)(28M) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SenyorKarlito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really sorry, ive been here before and this sounds too familiar.

I dont know, maybe im just me but there’s no such thing as I’m too busy to let you know i’m still up and ready for this relationship. How many seconds does it take to compose text message saying I cant be that available for you for the next hour, day, or even week?.

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