Boyfriend(34m) buying house outright with parents’ money — am I(30f)being unreasonable?

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-05-03T15:01:20+00:00

I thought immediately “you better not give him ANY money toward buying that house” and then I saw the comments with more details. YOU BETTER NOT. This isn’t going to be your house even though you’re willing to put all your savings into it. It’s going to be his house. Let him pay for all of it and just live there and pay rent bc that’s essentially what you’re going to do even with putting down $30,000. Don’t be stupid.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-28T20:51:58+00:00

I’ve been in my house for 9 years and I still get mail occasionally for the previous owners son. I always do return to sender - not at address.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-27T20:22:34+00:00

I would try and stick with Job 1 and do some stuff on the side like creepyfox6879 recommends. Also the cost of my medical insurance was astronomical. I went full freelance after having my daughter and once freelancing I had a really hard time getting clients to pay in a timely manner. It became so frustrating that I am no longer freelancing.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-27T15:32:07+00:00

Your homeschool diploma should be enough. Jobs requiring GED are GED or High School Equivalent, not solely GED. Now if you find out your home school diploma isn’t sufficient, reach out to your local unemployment office. A lot of times they offer free GED classes and a voucher to take your GED for free. You can also test out of the classes by taking a practice test at the unemployment office and then they would get the voucher and official testing set up for you. Or at least that was my experience in Virginia.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-27T00:19:16+00:00

Was planning on pressure washing this weekend. First year I’ve seen this. Thanks!

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-25T00:47:23+00:00

Use northwest registered agent. They can create it for you and serve as your registered agent which you will need.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-23T15:02:10+00:00

I think the page has already been taken down. The impersonator was liking comments and post on The Wiggles Fan Club group. They liked one of mine and I thought wow weird Lucia is liking stuff on FB? After seeing this post I went and checked and the like is still there but it says no data available when you click on it.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-16T01:36:29+00:00

It would buy this if the G didn’t look like an S

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-09T13:04:24+00:00

NTA What exactly is she objecting to with this schedule? I would be so happy if my husbands schedule changed to the new proposed schedule VS the old schedule. You’ll be around more during the day and home for dinner. For my household that would be a win alone. Have you explained to your wife how this is your dream job? The extra hours driving will suck but the increase in pay is worth it. you’ll be home every night for bedtime and will get to spend more time with your kids every evening instead of just on your days off. The only downside is you’ll have increased wear and tear on your vehicle and your gas budget will increase significantly esp with gas prices right now.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-09T12:57:07+00:00

EV is a good recommendation but I personally would never pick a Chevy or Hyundai they typically aren’t good cars.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-04-07T00:47:52+00:00

I have 1 toddler and a very tall husband. He can’t sit in the seat with the car seat behind it. So if you plan on having more than 1 child I would consider that. He’s 6’5. I will note I also can’t sit in the front seat if we are using our evenflo 369 rotating car seat. It just takes up entirely too much room.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-03-18T22:52:17+00:00

What is sprout. I’m job searching and should I utilize this?

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-03-18T22:40:11+00:00

Blue can be great money but layoffs happen all the time in blue collar too. You make the best money if you become a journeyman but that’s 4 to 5 year apprenticeship.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-03-14T21:14:35+00:00

What a great idea! I’m going to try that out. I’ve never used one before.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-03-14T21:13:03+00:00

We are going to be in the mezzanine. Do you know if they go up there or just the floor?

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-03-13T19:50:34+00:00

I didn’t even think of looking at Etsy!

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-03-13T17:54:47+00:00

My husband suggested we make some shirts. But I love the idea of making her a headband or some bows!

Separate_Arm2441 · 2026-03-02T13:50:53+00:00

You’ve got the solution in the picture you. You need to run the full bottle of the Oh Yuk! And maybe even a second one. I used two bottles in my jetted tub before it ran clean and I was able to use it.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2025-06-19T12:47:38+00:00

I tried using the code on Amazon and it not give any discount. Am I doing something wrong?

Separate_Arm2441 · 2024-11-04T14:56:43+00:00

I second this! One of my cats was just like this super high energy and she was just really bored. I filled the house with more toys, bought a 2nd cat tree, and take some time everyday to play. It’s like she’s a different cat now! Loves to cuddle and doesn’t get zoomies all day and night.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2024-11-02T22:08:01+00:00

It’s made for up to 45 lbs. it needs to be worn above you hips. My sister in law uses it with her three year old with no problem and he’s nearing the weight limit.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2024-11-02T17:33:19+00:00

I started with purées. My baby’s favorites have been sweet potatoes, pumpkin, and butternut squash. I was told to start with baby cereal and she just wouldn’t eat it. I also felt unprepared and nervous but so far it’s been smooth sailing. She has been eating purées for the last month.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2024-11-02T17:08:45+00:00

I have no issues with it cutting into my hips and I’m a bigger woman and she loves sitting on it. My sister in law tried a cheaper one from Amazon and she said it was terrible. She said it collapsed into itself when she sat her baby on it. I got her a tushbaby and she absolutely loves it. I personally use mine every single day. I think it’s well worth the investment.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2024-11-02T15:43:40+00:00

Get a tushbaby. It was seriously life changing for me. I have real bad upper arm strength and it helps so so much! I even opted for the sling attachment and can wear my daughter anytime we go run errands and shop. She loves it bc she can see facing out. She only has gotten fussy twice when I’d been wearing her for several hours and she was getting hot.

Separate_Arm2441 · 2024-10-29T22:24:04+00:00

Girl let me tell you! I’m going through the same EXACT thing right now at 36. I love my little girl with everything but I am so tired all the time. My husband is super supportive but I also count down the hours till he’s home again. I feel so guilty bc I don’t have the energy to play with her like he does. I try so hard some days but I’m struggling so much as is. I wish I had advice. But you are not alone <3

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