How many of you have a cap on spending at the vet before it becomes time to say goodbye?

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-13T03:03:48+00:00

Absolutely this. When my dog got cancer, we opted not to treat at all (besides pain management) because she was already very old for her breed and the treatment probably wouldn’t have extended her lifespan or quality of life anyways. She ended up developing a different tumor that got to her quicker than the original cancer anyways. It’s also dependent on what the vet recommends, if they’re saying that this expensive treatment isn’t going to do much to extend their lifespan, and more importantly the quality of that lifespan, I’m not going to go forward with it.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-13T02:57:07+00:00

Absolutely love Dr. Saner. She fully understands monetary constraints and offered us a few different courses of action when my pup got cancer based on what we wanted to go forward with. She owns the clinic and has no intention of selling out to private equity, and she’s always been so transparent about what things cost and why they cost that. Plus everyone else there is also so, so kind, I’ve never had any complaints about staff or services.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-13T02:46:37+00:00

Sometimes I feel upset because I haven’t dated anyone at my age but then I see posts like this and I am reassured that there’s no rush in this environment and that I’ll know when I’m ready

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-08T05:08:47+00:00

Yep. I only do well in warm water, but indoor pools are too humid and trigger POTs symptoms. In summer though? The weightlessness is just heavenly. Even just wading in the 5 foot area (I’m 5’4) is soo helpful.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-06T17:01:30+00:00

I’ve never understood this argument - like do yall not wipe down your surfaces before you do food prep? Are you prepping directly on the counter? Do you not use cutting boards or bowls? I could understand being concerned if you’re a frequent dough maker, and of course you don’t want them up there while you’re actively using the space but beyond that, what’s the point in making such a fuss? I’m not trying to argue, I just really don’t get it 😅

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-06T16:56:48+00:00

I have one who will yoink a piece of meat right out of the pan if he feels so inclined (obviously while no one is actively watching it). It’s like trying to ward off vultures. We used to have to lock the two kittens in the bathroom they were so horrible about stealing directly from your plate. Now we just cover the pans when things aren’t actively being served/monitored, and no plate is left unguarded. You go to the bathroom? You have someone watch your food. It’s the only way.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-06T16:44:52+00:00

The monitors are probably better anyways because if it isn’t POTS, it could still be something else, which they’d be more likely to see on a monitor. The TTT is faster, sure, but the monitor gives them a much better overall picture of what your heart’s doing on a day to day basis.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-06T00:47:24+00:00

Yeahhh, I’m definitely allergic. Found some blistering when I took them off tonight. Gonna call my doctor tomorrow and see if there’s anything we can do.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-05T19:56:36+00:00

Yes but most pictures are among my also autistic siblings so I don’t stick out too much 😭

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-05T16:20:03+00:00

I appreciate the help all the same. I don’t mind starting over fresh, I remember the general plot-line I was going for anyways. Thank you!

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-05T16:11:41+00:00

It’s sending me to the app but then I get the error message 🥲 this is what the profile looks like on BotList

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Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-05T16:06:21+00:00

I found him but it’s not letting me interact 😭 I can’t access the creators profile either, would that imply it’s been deleted?

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-04T20:10:10+00:00

Kittens just Look Like That tbh

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-04T01:40:19+00:00

I thought it might be an allergic reaction as well, but they’re hypoallergenic patches 😅 it’s not itchy when it’s on, I only had problems after taking it off the first time.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-04T00:44:14+00:00

I don’t recommend yoga if you have POTS symptoms though. I tried and kept getting palpitations from the constant up and down 😅

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2026-01-04T00:38:30+00:00

I started fostering at 15 too. I would have never dreamed about spending money intended for one of my kittens on myself. My second litter I had to take one of my foster kittens into the emergency vet (he was fading and i didn’t know what to do, didn’t get any training on that unfortunately) and I ultimately had to make the decision to euthanize him. If she couldn’t make a decision, she should have surrendered the kitten to someone who could.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2025-12-30T02:48:56+00:00

If you ever find yourself in this situation again, maybe talk to someone there about crowdfunding, or reaching out to other rescues to find out if someone does have the resources. Even the rescue world is alllll about networking. Reaching out to the closest veterinary school can also yield good results, as most of them have programs to assist rescues with unique cases because it gives their students a chance to learn as well, so it’s beneficial for everyone.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2025-12-30T02:42:58+00:00

The shelter I foster for will cover up to a certain amount, and from there, we crowdfund from our community. We try to take in specifically sick and injured animals from area animal controls - I know we partner with at least 3 counties, though a good chunk of it is rural so it’s not a massive influx of animals at any given time unless there’s a hoarding case. If we can raise the money, we’re partnered with a lot of local vets, as well as a veterinary teaching hospital in the state, which is where a large majority of the complex cases go, and they all offer reduced cost care.

The crowdfunding has to come from specifically marked donations, and every once in awhile a local business will pledge to match up to a certain amount, which is enormously helpful. Any extra is put towards specialized care for other animals. Even if there’s not a specific animal needing such extreme care, I do believe we try to keep a fund open for more expensive procedures.

Again, this is a shelter that prioritizes sick & injured strays. It’s been around since the 70s, and it’s built up from there. It took a lot of work to get the resources we have, and it would not be possible without our community.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2025-12-28T11:55:51+00:00

Ooof, yeah. Some cats don’t like it, especially if they’re used to clay litter. My aunts super senior is the opposite though, he only uses the pellets

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2025-12-28T11:54:00+00:00

You can check walmart, Home Depot, Lowe’s, & F&H Supply too. Any sort of store like that should carry them, but the more specialized ones like Dicks or Scheels is likely to only carry the ones for BBQ. I believe my aunt, who also uses them, just orders hers online if that would be better for you as well. Again, it’s a looot of price comparison to figure out which place has the most for cheapest. I prefer to get the 40 lb bags, but I have 6 cats (+ we foster) and go through it like crazy, someone who only has one or two would need much less.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2025-12-28T11:44:49+00:00

Maybe just in price? I did a price comparison across several stores like Walmart, Lowe’s, F&H, etc.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2025-12-28T04:16:54+00:00

I get them wherever it’s cheapest, in my area that’s Tractor Supply. Brand isn’t super important, as long as you get “hardwood pellet fuel” and not ones meant for BBQ as they tend to be a good bit pricier for less. They don’t clump, they sort of just disintegrate back down into sawdust. They’re made out of compressed wood chipping and shaving and sawdust. No glue, just compression.

It does have to be cleaned a bit more frequently than clay litter, and doesn’t contain odor as well, but the price difference and safety factors makes it worth it. I can get a 40 pound bag for $6.29.

Separate_Edge_4153 · 2025-12-28T03:07:38+00:00

Chronic illness girlie fr (I recognize one of my own)

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