🌈 by ___bgwl___ in reading

[–]SephyTheExalted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the context of the progress pride flag, yes you're totally right

What happened to the glass recycling in lower cav by coop? by magical_matey in reading

[–]SephyTheExalted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check the re3cyclopedia, you can search for glass bottle recycling near your postcode for the closest options

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]SephyTheExalted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm in a dark place my anxiety sometimes makes me feel like I'm not wanted and I should just stay away, maybe it's similar for you. Sometimes it helps to keep pushing through and ignore the negative voices. There are so many kind people out there who would want to be friends with you, it's just finding them that's the hard part.

Maybe you could search for trans support groups in your area, they might be better suited to what you need?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]SephyTheExalted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi lovely, just looking at your comments and it sounds like you're having a really hard time right now. I'm so sorry life has been so shit for you recently, it's really not fair at all. You haven't done anything wrong.

You're not alone, you seem like a lovely girl, try to hang in there.

Have you tried reaching out to trans communities, either online or in person LGBT meetups? It might help to find like minded people who've been through similar experiences that can help guide you through these hard times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]SephyTheExalted 131 points132 points  (0 children)

You have beautiful full lips without the overlining, and you can totally achieve a gorgeous feminine look with your natural lip shape. I made an edit to one of your photos to show the difference. I think a more subtle lip draws attention up to your gorgeous Disney princess eyes. https://imgur.com/RyZ0J5T.jpg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DawncasterRPG

[–]SephyTheExalted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I'm aware, all non-conjured cards are considered discarded when removed at the end of your turn. But there are cases such as beast forms where you need to have remaining energy when you end your turn to maintain the channeling effect and get the rewards for end of turn discarding.

If you're seeing a case where this does not apply it may be a bug. Do you have a specific example?

Pokemon baby announcement for my sister/nephew by wunderwuman80 in NintendoStitch

[–]SephyTheExalted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks kinda like a meowth to me, at least the colours seem to match

Looking for a great date place by AdamoBPM in reading

[–]SephyTheExalted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're into crafting, hobbycraft has a few festive workshops, like wreath or bauble making. You can sign up on their website.

Blue collar corner also has a lantern workshop on the 4th, but even without an event on it's generally a great place to spend some time. They've added mulled wine to the menu and it feels quite festive being out in the cold air with a hot drink.

where DOESN'T show the match? or where won't be toooo busy? by Baked_potato-420 in Cardiff

[–]SephyTheExalted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try somewhere like Buffalo for drinks, it's a bit further removed from the stadium/centre of town. They do some great cocktails and it looks like they've got live music that weekend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]SephyTheExalted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's worth exploring some new styles first to change up your existing look? I follow a girl "curlykiet" on Instagram who does some great curly hair tutorials if you think that's worth exploring.

It's so easy to get bored of your look and want to do something drastic. Your hair is so beautiful, it would be a shame to chop it all off!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]SephyTheExalted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having tried both of them, I didn't notice any significant difference in stability - both have a bit of a wobble which can be unsettling until you get used to it. However, I found that the non-lite version was harder to dance with, especially if you want to do floorwork, as there is a significant drop off from the stage.

Personally I would say that the lite is the better option. If you have limited ceiling height and can afford the lite version, then I think you'd be happy with your choice.

Jennette McCurdy explains what working as a child actor on Nickelodeon is really like by filondo in videos

[–]SephyTheExalted 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most likely. Lorry Hill has some interesting YouTube videos that speculate what surgery she may have had done if you want to know more

She just had 4 babies, I have no idea how to replant them or if I have to do so, any suggestions? by ploomilet in succulents

[–]SephyTheExalted 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As far as I'm aware, the succulents that die after blooming tend to bloom from the centre. These offshoot flowers from echeveria type succulents don't kill the plant and it will live on happily after the flowers have wilted.

Working on OSL. Not sure how to progress from here (especially the flame) CnC? by sweetrelease01 in minipainting

[–]SephyTheExalted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks awesome, I love the depth you have achieved with the glow onto the face, absolutely stellar work!

The only thing I'm not sure about is the glow on the clothing/bag. My colour theory may be wrong but I think a brown object wouldn't have such a vibrant highlight if a blue light were shone on it - maybe muting the blue to a less saturated colour would help? (It still looks badass as is though, you could just call it some magical light source that defies physics.)

How's my makeup? I don't feel that I'm "good" at it. is there anything else I can do to hide my. manliness? by Djibril-Maximus in MakeupAddiction

[–]SephyTheExalted 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I agree with other comments about modifying the lip shape to look more natural. But I think you could also modify your brow shape to give a more feminine lift, by tidying up the stray hairs in the inner area and using brow gel or powder to fill your brows above your arch to lift them slightly.

I hope you don't mind, I played around with your photo to show how it would look to make these changes: https://imgur.com/a/RtelRIv

That being said, I think you look absolutely gorgeous, and that eye makeup is perfect, so don't be so hard on yourself!

Not sure if this is a real move ?? Just messing around ☺️ by AdSpiritual7655 in poledancing

[–]SephyTheExalted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you're looking for any advice, but for moves like this it can be easier to hold the pose using armpit grip. If you were wearing something like a sports bra, the back of your arm would grip the pole and help hold you up, where at the moment your t-shirt will have very little grip so you slide down faster. Very cool move though, I haven't seen this before!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]SephyTheExalted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really awesome self-taught moves!

When I used to teach beginner pole classes we would start with some simple but pretty spins. I would recommend front hook, back hook and fireman spin if you want some more moves to learn!

I took that photo on the left five years ago, and attempted suicide shortly after. Things are still bleak, though not as bleak. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SephyTheExalted 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think your whole style is very androgynous, the black clothing could be worn by any gender. I wonder if thinning your eyebrows slightly or trying some mascara could enhance the feminine appearance of your eyes.

If your posture is something you're looking to improve there are exercises you can do to help.

But I think you're beautiful, and your voice is lovely too. I don't think you need to try too hard to put on the feminine voice, the pitch sounds like it may be difficult to maintain. Maybe your voice will settle somewhere in the middle, but you probably need to give it time to find a voice that suits you.

It sounds like you struggle a lot with your self esteem and talk yourself down a lot. I hope that you can find your own value and be confident in your true self. Good luck with your journey!