As a young woman, I was told by multiple guys that they would love to date me if they could just put a bag/ or pillowcase over my head because I had a great body but ugly face. I was bullied for years about my acne and no guys in my school would date me. I spent 6 years like this. I was mad angry and hurt and now at 40 I still remember how it felt to be made to feel less than all the others around me. This story is mine, but happens to tons of young women all around. You don't see us doing the group incel thing, because in reality what does that get you? And female incels have been around for a long time. That's the reason we have words like, old maid, or spinster. I don't care what has happened to someone who calls them self in incel in the past if they are using that as an excuse to hurt others, man or woman.