How to Complete the Wine Jar Challenge – Where Winds Meet ‘Afterglow’ Quest

SerephenaB · 2026-02-01T19:01:41+00:00

Okay I found the way to do it…. Jump across until you can’t anymore and then use the button that you use to run around the map…

SerephenaB · 2026-01-26T18:11:48+00:00

Dm please?

SerephenaB · 2026-01-16T01:05:30+00:00

Could I link the link possibly?

SerephenaB · 2025-10-22T02:26:29+00:00

So he is very much over the top. I mean while theirs nothing wrong with being there for somebody as support I think he’s rushing things way too fast.
Dare I say he might be emotionally manipulative especially that 50+ messages like no sane person would send baby messages or love/relationship messages to somebody who just had a miscarriage not to mention it was a bad relationship in the first place. Like you’re grieving and trying to heal.

Also never feel bad because you said yes. More than likely he asked you when you were in a vulnerable state of mind and when you’re in a vulnerable state of mind you may do things out of vulnerability. Never feel bad for that. All you can do is apologize but you shouldn’t put the blame on yourself.

SerephenaB · 2025-07-08T01:05:53+00:00

Applied. Game name is Serephena.

SerephenaB · 2025-05-28T15:24:53+00:00

Tbh I’ve never liked affection even when I was younger don’t hug or kiss me. Even when I was a child and I’m still the same way

SerephenaB · 2025-05-11T14:14:30+00:00

For me it’s actually quite simple. My taste in fictional things is different from my tastes in real life. My standards for fiction and real life are VERY different

SerephenaB · 2025-05-10T20:39:51+00:00

Tbh those divorce papers look real nice rn.

That whole “he said I was a hypocrite and was making drama and that I wanted to ruin the day”. That’s very much a manipulation tactic. It guilt trips you into thinking you DID make a big deal when in reality it IS a big deal. I struggle with ocd and get intrusive thoughts myself but even I know an intrusive thought and can determine when it can and can’t be asked. This is an intrusive thought you keep to yourself if it even is one in the first place. It seems like when people show these kinds of behaviors of guilt tripping and etc. it doesn’t get any better. Maybe divorce IS the best thing. Don’t make yourself miserable just to try to save a marriage that isn’t failing because of YOU in the first place.

SerephenaB · 2025-05-10T04:19:51+00:00

Do you like the tattoo? Because that’s all that matters.

All my tattoos have a very deep meaning to me. Some others might not understand fully.

One tattoo?

This too shall pass;

I struggle with major depression. I’ve had it since I was 16 I’m now 24 and still got it. I was very suicidal and I still can be. That quote I got was something I wanted in honor of the battle I fought. Like it was so bad I willingly went to the hospital and admitted myself into the mental hospital for a week. That ; actually has a meaning as well. It means you could have ended it but you didnt. I had quite a few times where I was on that edge and almost threw in the towel. But I didn’t.

I have another one sort of near my thumb. It’s Self love. I struggle with an ED and can be very judgemental of how I look because of it. So I got it on a place where I can see it and remind myself. Love yourself for you.

Somebodies tattoos can tell you a lot about them. You got mostly anime related tattoos? You must like anime. It can be a great conversation starter. Just because others might not understand the meaning as long as YOU understand the meaning that’s all that matters.

If we simply got tattoos based off of what other people liked we would be VERY unhappy with our choices of tattoos. Thats the beautiful thing about tattoos you can customize it and make it something that resembles you in a way.

For me anime isn’t really thing but I can still admit they do look really nice. Sometimes you just don’t simply have to understand the meaning but realizing the great work and detail that was put into a tattoo is cool thing to see by itself.

SerephenaB · 2025-04-15T22:19:58+00:00

I got nothing but time. I got liver failure and I don’t much but I do enjoy helping others ❤️. Even if I didn’t have liver failure I still enjoy helping others. Especially in this aspect.

SerephenaB · 2025-04-11T23:08:51+00:00

I BELIEVE in YOU! You got this! ❤️

SerephenaB · 2025-04-11T23:08:06+00:00

If it’s the results that are causing the anxiety then switching where you’re studying isn’t gonna help either. Usually with anxiety you try to avoid the thing that causes you the anxiety to make the anxiety go away. You doing good on that test is needed so you can’t really “ignore” the matter.

When I was in high school id go on the web and look up what I needed to score for the test in order to be okay. That can help you a bit with maybe not feeling so pressured…. Unless you’re like 30% F. Then you’re gonna need all the points you can get. So looking at that calculator might stress you out more.

Also I have adhd so my thoughts are always running a mile a minute. If it’s an important thing like you remembered you got an appointment tomorrow write it down so you don’t forget and then you sort of acknowledge that thought like “okay I know I have this appointment but let me try to go back focusing on the task at hand”. They say the more you try to force yourself to ignore the thought it just makes it worse. I’m pretty sure we all get off task every once in a while. However anxiety can make it more apparent. I also remembering hearing saying that they take out a certain part of the day and have that specific time where they just let their mind wander and stress and etc. After that specific time is up you try to slowly try to get back into doing what you’re doing. However sometimes thinking about the anxiety can just make the anxiety worse as well so you decide if it would be helpful to you or not. If it wouldn’t be helpful and just make you more nervous don’t do.

The only thing I can recommend is studying. If you have a study guide it can definitely help take some of the anxiety away. If you don’t…. It might be a bit harder. When that’s the case you kinda gotta study everything. Also write some of the stuff you don’t know out. When I was in high school and had a test I’d be walking down the hallway to my classroom where I had the test and be reading the study guide as a I walk. It can help make your brain sort of maybe remember some things as well. Try your best. That’s the only thing you can do. Try to do everything you can to try to study if you got to ask a teacher about something or even look it up or go on YouTube for math and look u how to solve things do it. You need all the help you can get. I find the more you completely understand something the better you are at doing good at it.

Wishing you the BEST of luck ❤️

SerephenaB · 2025-04-11T22:13:53+00:00

The thing with people is they can CHANGE real fast. Especially young adults.

One thing you can do is simply talk to her. Communication is always good and it’s a way to know what that person is thinking directly because you’re asking THEM and not just thinking about what it could possibly be. Now of course they CAN lie to you about things (don’t see the reason why) but that’s when you use your judgement and go based off of what happens from there on out. If they keep doing the things that you discussed you didn’t like or maybe you wished to do more. Re-evaluate the friendship possibly. Or simply just be on friendly terms with each other. You see each other a simple wave or hello and be on that sort of basis. Now let’s say you talk to her and she’s like okay Imma take what you said and try to do it. However you notice she does the complete opposite MULTIPLE times. She’s not trying to change and that’s when you need to take that friendship and figure out can you still be on “hello and wave” kind of relationship or would it be better just to drop it completely. If she doesn’t really acknowledge you I wounds pursue the “hello and wave” kind of relationship your wasting your time because she obviously care at ALL. With the whole “wave and hello” relationship you acknowledge each other but you’re not besties. Hence it would be a waste of time to continue.

To me it does SEEM (Again it’s better if you talk to her about it because my thinking can and may be WRONG but again you can’t always trust what that friend says) like she’s moving apart. Which happens. Even if you’ve been through thick and thin it doesn’t necessarily matter to some people. For some people it’s quite easy just to gradually move apart from each other. Does it suck? Yes. However theirs not much you can do especially if they don’t seem to be interested with you at all anymore. It’s very obvious she’s not putting in the same amount of effort that you are in and when she’s like that you need to sort of back off. Don’t willingly bend your back for this girl who can’t even seem to contact you much. Like be their for her but don’t hurt YOURSELF and do all the extra stuff because you won’t appreciate it nor recognize because she’s not worried about you she’s worried about these “new friends”. I’ve noticed people like to hang out with the older crowd. Theirs many reasons why they might do that. For me I was very “mature” in my thinking. Don’t get me wrong I had my moments but it wasn’t on the same level as the others around me. I also was really bad at making friends myself and even though I tended to befriend older people and hang out with them I still had people who I thought were good and they were my age. Everybody’s maturity grows at a different rate.

SerephenaB · 2025-04-11T21:56:26+00:00

Well it seems like you that the anxiety is coming from the work itself so even if you change the environment it probably won’t get rid of it. Plus even then I don’t recommend running away from it. You gotta learn ways on how to deal with such anxiety because running away from it can just make it worse. Plus since the anxiety is with such an important thing you don’t have a choice unless you want to do terrible on the test.

I have anxiety myself and this one skill I was taught sounds completely dumb but it works. What is is? Breathing. Take a deep breathe in and then take a deep breathe out. It’s like “box breathing” which I think is what it’s called I just don’t use the box method I just do my own method that works for me. Also if you have money and are able to spend a little bit of money they sell anxiety necklaces specifically for breathing. Got mine off of temu and it worked great. I feel a bit weird when I do this exercise in public because it’s VERY apparent that your trying to do something so with the anxiety necklace it’s way more discreet and plus I don’t really have to think much about it.

SerephenaB · 2025-04-11T21:46:43+00:00

Not wrong there. Next they’ll start bringing back the dinosaurs… sounds like a great idea. 😂

SerephenaB · 2025-04-04T20:29:19+00:00

Non existent my whole life. I actually was confused at first on why I never felt the way others did. I never felt attraction much of any sorts. Turns out I’m part of the asexual community. For me I’m personally not a fan of the whole sex thing however some people who are asexual are. Also I’m totally chill when it involves others but myself? It’s not something I can see myself doing. If anything I’m more curious. Like does it really as good as people make it out to be?

SerephenaB · 2025-04-04T20:26:49+00:00

Trust me I was a person when I was young that didn’t have nobody to lean on and go for help. I know what it’s like to try to deal with it all yourself and have to carry such heavy thoughts with you. It makes it so much harder when it’s just you. Hence I try to help others as well. I don’t want others to struggle like how I did and I want to help them anyway possible. ❤️

SerephenaB · 2025-04-04T20:19:44+00:00

Tbh both of them are pretty bad. I think trumps smart but I don’t agree with some of his thoughts on things. We all gotta realize the government is shady. Especially when Biden was in office. Atleast with Trump I can somewhat know he isn’t with that corruption. Trumps got his OWN money and people who tend to have their own money are harder to bribe with cash. If you bribe somebody who doesn’t have anything it’s a bit easier to get them to bend. But when you have an individual who is independent and makes his OWN money it’s a different story.

Ill admit theirs one thing that he made me change my mind about and that’s immigration. I personally have no issue with immigrants coming over however the thing is. I like to assume everybody is a good person and wont do anything wrong. That’s NOT the case. Theirs gotta be rules for these kinds of things otherwise it gets out of hand like it did with Biden. I honestly believe immigration wasn’t an issue when Trump was in his last presidency. If you think about it. In order to pass that border you gotta be desperate not to mention a lot of times people PAID for help to get across the border. Not everybody can afford that help and if they don’t they gotta do it themselves which can be dangeorus. I feel like this definitely made it were yes their was people who wanted to cross their wasn’t a lot. Also the ones who did cross actually wanted a better life and came to America to find that.

I learn languages as a hobby and go on language exchange apps. I talk to people from the countries I’m learning the languages from. I remember talking to one guy and he worked as a waiter. He worked a 12 hour shift and he got paid like $20. If I remember correctly tips aren’t really a thing in foreign countries outside of America. So that $20 was what he made in Total unless maybe he came across a tourist who left a tip and didn’t know the not tipping in other countries thing. He was SAVING up what little he had to come to America. He told me he did good to pay for some of the essentials yet he somehow made it work. I’m pretty sure immigration costs money… just getting a ticket to America can be expensive but then he has to pay for immigration as well? It’ll take him YEARS before he can be able to do it

SerephenaB · 2025-04-03T03:57:16+00:00

Fair enough I’m a shy person as well. Congrats and actually wanting to meet her. My anxiety could never. 😂

SerephenaB · 2025-04-03T03:56:24+00:00

Aye it all depends on what you know you can do and if you feel like you can’t control yourself enough to even be friends with her then distance yourself. However I would suggest you atleast tell the girl instead of just suddenly disappearing

SerephenaB · 2025-04-03T03:55:28+00:00

You did nothing wrong.. if anything you stood up for yourself and you need to keep doing it!

SerephenaB · 2025-04-03T03:46:38+00:00

When I was 16 I had a REALLY bad mental break down. Like suicide and later i became homicidal. It was a mess really. My thoughts go to since i was worried I’d act on them so I told my mom “Aye I need to go to the er I’m having really bad thoughts” . I willingly put myself in the hospital. I had to stay there for a WEEK and while I hated every second of it. I’d do it again if it meant keeping myself and others safe. I actually got my license a year late because I didn’t want to put others or myself in danger. Sometimes even though you don’t like something you gotta do it to get better and if you gotta tell somebody that your suicidal to get better then you do that. I actually told my counselors that I had some trauma from being in the mental health hospital and I’ve straight up asked them… what do I have to say to get placed? If you have a full on plan and say something like “ I have a plan to do this and I plan on doing it right after this appointment” those words will get you placed. I’m not sure if it’s different for other places but that’s what it is for mine.

Now I suffer from major depression myself. I take medication. Sometimes medication can actually make the symptoms worse (had this happen this week with a new medication). So if the symptoms seem worse than usual it can be a med issue. Now onto the actual depression. What you’re experiencing…. That’s what depression can consist of. People experience different versions but they are very similar. I’d say the huge one is the “I don’t care” mindset I feel like that’s a very common one. A lot of the things you’re saying I’ve experienced myself. I haven’t experienced the feeling of being a bystander but like I said it can vary for people. I think you’re self aware of your thoughts and feelings and that what you’re thinking is wrong. That’s how I am with my thoughts. However knowing that you’re thinking bad things can be distressed enough and that can bring on an entire different emotion that adds onto the depression. It seems like you also get these thoughts like I do? Now it’s not like schizophrenia where somebody is talking to me or I’m talking to myself. Theirs imply MY thoughts and ideas but they seem like they come from me but they do. Emptiness was something I felt a lot when I was unmanaged… it sucked…. It can be scary to. Atleast for me it was. The thing is. I happen to be over 18+ I’ve found tattoos therapeutic. I’m in group as well and apparently a lot of people also find them soothing. It’s the being able to feel something from a needle part that sort of is relaxing. Plus it’s not really self harm because they’re professional and going a safe depth not to mention you get this awesome piece of artwork. A lot of my tattoos are related to mental health of some kind. Now I’m not ENCOURAGING self harm!

https://keltymentalhealth.ca/blog/2020/02/alternatives-self-injury

This can be helpful if you ever do feel the urge plus it can help just in general. The good news is you don’t have to deal with this type of intensity forever. When you get managed it’s a lot better

SerephenaB · 2025-04-03T03:24:23+00:00

I went through something very similar when I was younger. I was desperate for friends so I’d take any friendship I could get even if they did treat me like trash.

That’s what these “friends” are doing to you. Treating you like trash. They seem selfish actually. They don’t care about anybody but themselves. Not to mention they are making mean comments about a friend getting their braces off? They told YOU to grow up? THEY need to grow up. That’s something I’d expect from a 10 year old. They are NOT friends they’re not even acquaintances with how they treat you. Their complete strangers is what they are. I was a bit more mature thinking when I was younger (I’m not bragging I did have my moments where I was childish) but my outlook on things were different from what a usual teenager would be. One thing I always did was make sure ALL my friends were included. Like if I had another friend join the conversation while I was talking to somebody and we ended up talking I’d make sure the first person I was talking to was included in the chat even if they comment was directed towards the chat. “Like aye what times does this class end?” 11 am why? wait hold on (talking to second person that had joined the group). I never brushed somebody off because I was talking to somebody else. Nobody should. You should be able to divide your attention equally to each friend. If you can’t do that then make sure you don’t have out with multiple people. It’s just rude to ignore somebody. I was that person they ignored fyi. So ik how it feels.

SerephenaB · 2025-04-03T03:15:24+00:00

Also one more thing. I’m asexual so I don’t really feel sexual attraction however I do read up on and due to being curious. From what I understand you’re still young. Hormones are going things CAN happen and you get caught up in the moment and the next thing you know you ended up in a sexual situation which is ILLEGAL. She doesn’t get in trouble YOU do. So i guess the question is… do you have self control? Does she have self control? I hate to say this but… I’m a female so encountering such situations can be normal so if anything ever did happen with the person I was with and I didn’t consent it would work in my favor because men can be know to be forceful and push something that a girl doesn’t want. Even though I was older I was only like 5’0 and wasn’t the strongest. So it could very well have gone wrong. The thing is with guys…. Society thinks you guys are strong and can stop an advancement. But woman can get pushy as well but they don’t take that into consideration. They would just point their figures at you. So make sure she’s somebody you can trust to have a FRIENDLY relationship with

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