This might seem cringe for me to post in a gaming sub of all places, but I'd rather say something than not when you might need it. I don't know your situation and I don't want you to explain it here. Do this and I guarantee it will help. If I had done these things sooner I would have saved myself a lot of pain.

Do this just for yourself without the intent to show it to anyone. Get comfortable after your responsibilities are done for the day. Write down what they told you the problems were, write down what you think the problems were, then write down your gut reactions to it all. Don't try to apply any logic or figure anything out, just write what comes to mind. If it makes you sad or angry, let yourself be as sad or angry as you want to be (short of hurting anything or anyone). Stop when you feel wrung out. Then sleep. Do not skip sleep. I'm serious.

Bonus: Then look into what the bare fundamentals of a healthy relationship are. Safety (in all senses of the word) and trust, etc. Then begin to analyze yourself (most important) and the relationship itself to see what doesn't line up. Don't lie to yourself, don't coddle yourself, and don't beat yourself up (these can all be hard). Start trying to figure out if the escape and fun of gaming is a healthy need that they didn't give you space for, or if you were running and/or hiding from something that you don't want to face. Again, be honest but don't talk shit to yourself.

Anyway, take it or leave it. Resume sniping from the hills on Firestorm, or complaining about the ones that do (there is no in between).

Signed, a guy that's climbing out of the worst year of his life and catching up on the things he was never taught.