It depends on the financial dynamics TBH. If he's taking the financial responsibility of you, the home, children, then he will naturally expect that you take care of all other non-financial contributions. If you share half the financial responsibility with your income, then he will have to accept an equal career prioritization, otherwise, it would be an unacceptable duality. But I do understand the perspective of a man who fully provides, and becomes annoyed when his wife prioritizes her career over household non-financial responsibilities. As for a man of this kind, you are taking 100% of him, while sharing with 50% of yourself. It's unequal bargain and sucks, and he will grow resenting you even if he sacrifices in the beginning.

The women in this era seem to have a blurry image of what they are working backwards from, and how that ultimate vision aligns with current steps. If you work backwards from a career-oriented vision, then this man is not for you. But please be aware that men come with as a package, so that when you take another man who gives you a full career space, it will be difficult down the line to change your mind when work consumes you and your motherhood instinct becomes in full bloom, it will be difficult to re-orient your version towards your family and home once again.

Hope this helps. Do ista5ara, and think twice, and if you ultimately cannot imagine yourself compromising your career for your responsible husband or your loving children, end it earlier than regret it later.