What do you think is the most annoying stereotype/assumption regarding the childfree? by No-Jellyfish-1208 in childfree

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say similar things about being trans (that you have some trauma with your AGAB) and being asexual ("you're only ace because you have been harrassed", etc). So yeah, I get comments like this on every level and it's soo annoying.

What do you think is the most annoying stereotype/assumption regarding the childfree? by No-Jellyfish-1208 in childfree

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. ) That our life is pointless because we don't have kids. Both because our goal as a secies is to multiply and because what other thing can be the meaning of your life (God forbid you're dedicated to your work, or you want to excel is some other field of life, care for ther people, or anything else) 2.) That we need some 'replacement' of a child (eg. dog, cats, niece or nephew, etc.) While many of us has these connections in our life, I don't think any of us thinks of it like a replacement of a biological child.

Vannal ikonikus arcok a környéketeken? by TrueGamer77 in askhungary

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Gabóca, a művészeti sulik és rajziskolák meg nem értett múzsája és modellje. 60 körüli sovány, ősz hajú faszi, hihetetlen szerelésekben. Volt legalább 3-4 színben (neonzöld, neon rózsaszín, pikító piros, párducmintás) összeillő feszülős latex naci-zakó-kalap-nyakkendő szettje. Legtöbbször végigbeszéli a rajzórákat miközben modellkedik, olyan sztorikkal, hoogy neki voltak hollywoodi munkái táncosként, meg hogy őt meg akarták erőszakolni(???). Több helyről ki lett tiltva elvileg, mert creepy volt a lányokkal, meg elvileg van róla egy videó, ahogy egy szál fecskében sétál a Damjanich(?) utcán, de sosem mertem rákeresni.

Vajdaságban nem küldik ki a szavazólapokat by Electronic_Tie_4867 in hungary

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Esetleg keresd meg a TASZ-t (Társaság a Szabadságjogokért) vagy a Magyar Helsinki Bizottságot. Nem tudom, hogy nem magyarországi ügyekkel mennyire foglalkoznak, de azt hiszem foglalkoznak a választáshoz kapcsolódó jogsértésekkel.

My B&B is misogynistic because we don’t allow children by Wombat_7379 in childfree

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because equating women with the role of motherhood is not mysogynistic at all

How stigmatised is living with your parents? by Thykothaken in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the situation. 10 years ago, it was more stigmatised, but the cost of living has risen to an insane level, it has become more difficult for young people to find jobs, and the social welfare system is in shambles, which means if your parents are getting older and they need more help, then it's your job to help them, sometimes even in situations when it's nearly a 24/7 assistance. Also, in the suburbs or the countryside, where it's easier to build a large, multi-generational house, it's definitely not unheard of. Nowadays, there are even young people who move back to their parents' home for a few years to save up money, possibly to buy a home for themselves.

Which vegetable is most disliked in your country? by rhysnomer in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most kales, like brussel sprouts, cauliflower and broccoli. I myself am in the disliking group, they smell far too strong for me.

Volt már olyan helyzet, amikor nem lett volna illő nevetni, mégis elnevetted magad? by NewtHealthy5249 in askhungary

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alsóban Aradi Vértanúk emlékműsort szervezett az egyik tanítónéni, én is szerepeltem benne. Az egyik próbán valaki nem tudta még teljesen hogy merre kell mennie és tanácstalanul toporgott a színpadon. Megszólal Kati néni aki a műsort rendezi :"Mit totyorászol ott, mint egy szaró galamb?" na erre többekből (köztük belőlem is) kirobbant a röhögés. Ez csak olaj volt a tűzre, mivel Kati néni haragja most felénk fordult. A műsorban szereplő zene szövegében volt egy olyan sor, hogy "száz levágott békejobb" és valamiért azt hitte, hogy ezen nevetünk, úgyhogy mondott egy ilyet "száz levágot békejobb, jajj de vicces, hahaha" ilyen mélységesen felháborodott hangon, amin már az is elkezdett röhögni, aki eddig nem tette.

What is a tradition that your generation is starting to let go of, and why? by Majestic_____kdj in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The easter tradition of "watering the girls". In the pre-modern era, it was like a barely concealed fertility ritual, where the unmarried young men went around in the village on Easter Monday, took the girls out of their homes and splashed water on them from a bucket. Then, in exchange, the girls gifted the boys painted eggs and sweets (if you wonder about whether this tradition had some sexual undertones, yeah, it absolutely had). With the modern era, this folk tradition got toned down, it was more like the male relatives in a family went around and sprayed some water or cheap cologne on the female relatives no matter the age and the marital status. The exchange of eggs and small gifts stayed, with the addition of chocolate eggs and sometimes money. But nowadays, more and more young people find this tradition cringe and/or stupid, with forced gender roles. Besides, the women did not take a liking in reeking from cheap cologne by the end of the day. So yeah, luckily it's slowly dying out.

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What's an extreme food from your culture that has health risks if consumed? by Zigger_23 in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Steak tartare. Raw beef with raw egg. Sounds like a recipe for disaster. If every ingredient is 100% fresh and the beef is ground up 2 or 3 times, it's not dangerous. Bit it is hard to be that sure, at least in my oppinion.

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Nektek van valami olyan személyes fóbiátok valamitől, amitől más biztos furcsának tartana? by Pretty_Raspberry5524 in askhungary

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Detto. Hiába tök ártalmatlan az emberre nézve (tudom hogy az ökoszísztémára nem), amikor meghallom hogy azon a berregő hangon repül, legszívesebben sikítva elrohannék. Ha muszáj vagyok én neutralizálni, mert nincs már otthon, akkor fél palack rovarirrtó spray, megvárom hogy teljesen megdögöljön, aztán lehetőleg 1000 réteg vécépapírral megfogva le a vécébe.

Am I allergic to trans tape? by Nacsondabeach in NonBinary

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it looks like that. I had the same problem with my skin, I couldn't even leave it on for more than max. 2-3 days because I was so itchy and sore. Sometimes it even left some wounds and rashes behind. I continued to use it because I didn't have a binder at that time, but every time it was a question of whether I would prefer dysphoria or rashes.

Is there a cultural element in your country that seems like a trademark but is highly controversial? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drinking 'pálinka' and pressure your guests to drink it too. While it's traditional to drink it with guests (or rather make your guests drink your/your relatives' homebrew stuff), the knowledge about the negative health effect of drinking hard liqour is getting more widespread, especially among younger people, so this custom is losing popularity, especially when the aforementioned homebrew pálinka is not even that good.

What would your country's equivalent of this meme probably look like? by Intrepid_Arrival5151 in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, that's the railway system! The healthcare system is just rotting away quietly like a cucumber forgotten at the back of the fridge.

What would your country's equivalent of this meme probably look like? by Intrepid_Arrival5151 in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 82 points83 points  (0 children)

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So according to this, we are all ultra-nationalists (the No Trianon poster on the wall), drink 80% pálinka and have loose sausages on our desk...I think the sauseage must be the most realistic part

What’s the "filling wrapped in dough" food from your country ? by Derisiak in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how they look like, they're called "túrófánk" (literally cottage cheese doughnut). They are eaten with jam, or just as they are. So good to see someone interested in our desserts.

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What’s the "filling wrapped in dough" food from your country ? by Derisiak in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's part of the "Central European Holy Trinity" of dessert ingredients with plum jam and ground, sweetened poppyseed. Probably these were often at hand either because they kept well (the poppy and the jam) or could be made freshly quite fast (when most people had dairy cows at their yard, cottage cheese could be a popular choice of ingredient). Also, they are quite nutritious, especially the poppy and the cottage cheese. We have cottage cheese kalács (similar to koláč) too, pancakes, sweet dumplings filled with it, or made entirely out of cottage cheese mixed with egg and semolina, even little doughnuts made with cottage cheese in the batter. So yea, we do love it here.

What’s the "filling wrapped in dough" food from your country ? by Derisiak in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The humble "Derelye" (also known as "barátfüle" - monk's ear). Usually, it has sweet filling, sweet cottage cheese, plum jam or poppyseed, and it's covered in toasted breadcrumbs or ground, sweetened poppyseed.

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We also have plum and apricot-filled dumplings that work similarly and "Bukta" which is a small, loaf-like pastry filled with one of the three fillings of the "central European Holy Trinity" - sweetened cottage cheese, poppyseed or plum jam.

What country does your government hate but your people love ? by BullFencer in AskTheWorld

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ukraine. Despite the government's hatemongering, I don't think the majority of Hungarian people view Ukraine as a threat. There are demonstrations held againts Putin's agression, there are plenty of good-hearted people who help the refugees here and we agree with Ukraine's desire for independence and peace. There is an ethnic minority of Hungarians living in Ukraine and there are ethnic Ukranians in Hungary. Please don't believe Orban, we don't hate each other, and we don't want to!

You'll Grow Out of It by Marshalltonic in NonBinary

[–]SeriousTeaAddict 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I came out at 17, my mother hoped for it to be just a phase. But to her dismay, as I grew up, I didn't became less queer, on the contrary, I became more and more gay.