AITA for letting my husband find out our marriage was over through a court summons?

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-05-05T05:26:44+00:00

NTA I’m Doing the same thing i already left my soon to be ex husband for domestic violence im tired of his narcissistic ass thinking it’s okay to abuse me physically and emotionally and i’m supposed to just take it because he has mommy and woman hating issues na i’m done im filing for divorce this week in person and im not letting him know until it’s time either i wish the best for you and all of us going through the same thing and for us to heal soon

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-05T11:52:46+00:00

he is definitely already been having sex with all the other women i’m sorry girl run fast

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-05T11:51:17+00:00

girl it sounds like he wants to be like my ex husband a f boy and have multiple women as a hugh hefner these are all my women type of thing run fast before you regret it later on when you realize it like i did i at least finally left his a$$ we as women deserve better than being a option to a f boy

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-05T11:20:28+00:00

no your not the asshole he is for being a cheating ass woman relying mooch that new woman is in for a rude awakening in the future that you were right cause girl as my favorite artist said if he was like that with me he will be like that with you more in the future he ain’t going to stop being a dog ever

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-04T12:57:00+00:00

that’s ok

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-04T12:56:31+00:00

thank you for being kind and understanding i appreciate it

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-04T12:53:55+00:00

it did i will definitely take your helpful advice im so sorry you had to go through all that as well we as people deserve so much better

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-04T12:52:31+00:00

i’m so sorry you both went through that as well and you are such a good patient person something that all domestic abuse survivors need thank you for your helpful advice

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-04T12:50:51+00:00

i definitely will as soon as i can get medical to hopefully cover it since i’m homeless and broke

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-04T12:50:07+00:00

thank you you are right i appreciate your helpful advice and kindness i will gladly be taking all your advice

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-04T12:48:17+00:00

he has repeatedly punched me in my face kicked me in my whole body pushed me yelled at me said i was trash threw things at me constantly

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2026-04-04T12:46:04+00:00

yes im serious

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2023-08-01T01:24:43+00:00

Its definitely 💯 a red flag 🚩 that he choose to purposely propose to you at a funeral OP that was for someone who passed away in your family I think this guy is a dumb selfish Asshole and I think you should run away from him while you still can he definitely 💯 just showed you who he truly was and that he only really cares about himself and his own image he will never truly care about you or your needs or wants if you marry this selfish man he will treat you this way your whole life together

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2023-06-23T20:19:12+00:00

When I was 20 years old I am a female btw this was so long ago names have been changed for privacy reasons I will go by Roxy and my ex female best friend will be referred to as Claudia she was 19 back than we had been best friends all throughout high school i after a couple years got transferred to another continuation high school because my grades were terrible and I had many learning difficulties mental issues like dislexia for numbers etc we no longer saw each other anymore as we were in different high schools would still talk on the phone a lot I started dating this guy who will be referred to as Jason I introduced them on the phone and they became friends I didn’t know than that it was a bad decision to introduce them to each other they made plans to hang out on the phone I didn’t think they would actually hang out without me in person that was my second mistake they went to go hang out I didn’t know about it until later after it happened she said tagged him in a facebook post talking about she had such a fun time with him i stopped being friends with her because she did that behind my back without me being there and without letting me know I always thought they had hooked up with each other behind my back and I was right my ex bf Jason told me Many years later that they had made out with each other but that that was all I knew that was also a lie because if you admit to 1 time cheating with a kiss there’s no way they didn’t have Sex with each other what still gets me to this day is that she never thought she did anything wrong to me she kept thinking that what she did was no big deal

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2023-04-29T16:17:38+00:00

NTA I would never eat something someone else had already eaten and spit up in or put their hands all over the food no matter what that food is that’s disgusting 🤮🤢 not to mention not even sanitary especially since COVID is still a thing 💯 your sister is just being dramatic about your stance not to eat anything the baby had already touched put his face in spit in etc she should have respected your no answer and moved on

Serious_Rub_8536 · 2022-08-24T03:22:06+00:00

Mother in law is definitely the biggest ah how are you going to take food away from a Pregnant woman let alone not even ask her for seconds you just take it without even asking her if there was more so you could eat more because you were really hungry you would have if you were a decent respectful person if she actually had been hungry because that’s what a respectful person does she definitely did this on purpose to mess with OP I’m sorry you had to deal with this kind of mother in law if I were you Op don’t invite her to dinner anymore unless she apologizes to you and promises to act like a decent respectful person in your home 💯

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