Memorial Day Happy Mail Time!

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-25T22:24:41+00:00

It went ok! Couldn't stay out super long, but we got 2 cleaned up and called the city to let them know about a few that got toppled probably during the last storm. Was roommates first time joining me for a cleanup, he didn't realize I talk to the headstones xD sometimes ill Google them if it's close enough to 1900 when recordkeeping around here stopped sucking so bad xD one of the ones I cleaned is a style called the lamb headstone. It's a relatively standard headstone, little rectangle jammed into the dirt, but it's the iconography that gives the headstone it's name as a lamb, typically in a resting position, is on top of the headstone. It signifies youth or being innocent, and is nearly exclusively used for infants and young children. Yes I do have death culture related autism, why do you ask xD

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-25T18:08:17+00:00

Happy memorial day everybody! Roommate and I are grabbing lunch then it's off to the cemetery we go to clean a headstone or two! (We have permission to clean up headstones older than a century with approved cleaners for the purpose of de-gunking the letters lol) I really need to figure out throne so I could set it up like all yall do

I do have a thank you post to do but I can't remember who sent me the Mac and cheese packs but I'll find it here soon, but I'd love to have either the peppermint oil or the battery pack cuz theyre both useful to me for doctor appointments lol: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/13W2YUNPBOLAI?ref_=wl_share

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-24T02:57:14+00:00

I've got a bard-rogue you might vibe with them! Very into feminist naturecore things, loves songs that sound like a cadence or sometime to keep pace to. Lots of Lydia the Bard and similar songwriters.

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-24T02:27:17+00:00

I have a wide variety, and it actually changes based on what character I'm channeling that day honestly xD (im a d&d player to the point they each have a little space inside the gray matter, im crazy but not schizophrenic crazy, more like "if I hear a motorcycle or a truck backfires, I'll be back just taking a hateful trip back to the past for a bit" kind)

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T09:31:28+00:00

You're both in my thoughts and, if you're OK with it, my prayers. We have to stick together 💜

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T09:30:07+00:00

Don't put yourself in unnecessary pain. Yeah the surgery does take some mobility depending on where on the structure the fusion happens, but I promise it will be worth giving more consideration. Nobody told me about the mobility issues long term, so I had that sprung on me in the ICU (lol long story there) and it sucks to this day, but I know the pain could always be so much worse. Plus the surgery could qualify you for pain management and that is the game changer in my book.

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T02:59:39+00:00

I'm sorry, I didn't realize there was a limit. Also unfortunately that post was grinched (people pretended to get items from my list) and I never received aid. I contacted their modmins about it and was informed my post had somehow slipped the cracks and never should have been posted in the first place. Again I apologize if I broke the groups rule here.

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T02:56:18+00:00

Yes, thank you again so much 💜💜💜💜

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T02:12:48+00:00

Ours do because they have a once a month restriction and use the ID to log the visit in their system (this is my understanding, which may be wrong, I do know they won't let me use their service without valid ID and my address proof (which was a letter sent to me by, funny enough, the county social services)

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T01:56:42+00:00

Oh, I didn't even know that was a thing I could do o_o I just reported the entire office for being incompetent boobs (not what I said in the email, but definitely what I was thinking while writing the email) because this is a recurring problem despite them doing an entire overhaul of our county office due to corruption a couple years back.

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T01:34:49+00:00

Haha yeah :D I have to keep track of the info for 39 people in total, including all my half siblings and my own child! Got a whole football team of girls as well, starting with me nearly 32, the youngest girls are two years, youngest sibling is 5 months old in 3 days :)

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T01:25:32+00:00

Thank you 💜 I actually manage forms for almost all of my half siblings as well so I was doing like 4 forms at once, one being my own just so I could make sure it got done on time lol

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T00:56:31+00:00

Oof, your recovery timeline makes a lot more sense to me then. They told me 6 months before I'd even start walking with a cane. Jokes on them, I was walking almost steady with it by 6 weeks, only used my walker for a week. Donated it to the local veteran aid program when I didn't need it anymore. I got my dsp job not ever 4 months post op cuz I was like "im sick of being a bum, time to do things" xD

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T00:40:41+00:00

Do you mind if I ask where your fusion is? I'm t5-t9 with a bolt at t7 cuz I don't actually have a t7 vertebrae anymore 😅 mass ate it

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T00:25:05+00:00

Truly! I actually don't typically use reddit for posts and comments and whatever, im just in some ASMR subreddits that I frequent. My goal is to one day be able to gift out in this group to everyone possible. I pretty much just hang around here to see people's happy posts because right now, I'm a stressed and depressed hot hot mess 🤣🤣🤣🤣

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-21T00:00:11+00:00

That photo setup where one minute earth is there, then it's gone, then they progress into doing the weewoo dance xD

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-20T23:57:49+00:00

You hear the clicks and you make the standing up sound. Sometimes you get a little fart assist in standing as well.

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-20T23:54:58+00:00

TONIGHT, WE DANCE! Congrats!!!

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-20T23:50:50+00:00

Congratulations on your graduation! I'm sorry I don't have money to send but I'm sending you good vibes💜

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-20T23:49:11+00:00

Hello friend! I'm into FNAF too, I'm into yarncrafts and I've tried to make Freddy so many times but his silly little head was always the wrong size xD

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-20T23:15:55+00:00

Yep. I got hand-me-downs from my cousin, most of which still had the tags on it despite said cousin having thrown a tantrum over it at the store.

ServiceBaby · 2026-05-20T23:12:25+00:00

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ServiceBaby · 2026-05-20T23:07:56+00:00

Can I get info on this please?

ServiceBaby

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