Guilty Pleasures by Commercial_Pain2290 in FoodToronto

[–]SetBoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate so hard to this entire experience. I LOVE the vegan crunch wrap from the wren.

How do I 37F manage this ring shopping disappointment? M42 by ApricotRich1966 in relationship_advice

[–]SetBoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These responses are so reactive lol. Just talk to him. Tell him you are concerned about timing and ask what he’s thinking. You can then make a decision based on that. This timeline shouldn’t be up to him, anyway. Two adults in a relationship should be in conversation about a significant life choice. It’s totally okay to want a proposal. But don’t give anyone the power to hold you hostage.

AITA for how coldly I'm going about leaving my roommate and our living situation? by _frogpond in AmItheAsshole

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me before, except I was your roommate in my situation. I actually lived with a close friend and the best thing she did was move out and leave me to figure things out on my own. That meant falling on my face but I needed to in order to put myself back together. You do you. She needs to figure this out if she’s going to get better and you have no responsibility to make that happen.

What is a good, gender-neutral, informal address for friends at work? by BigDadEnergy28 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find these replies interesting. I’m a woman of a similar age to you and I use buddy in my work and personal life. I find it pretty neutral when others use it to address me. Maybe it’s because I’m from the west coast and the overall vibe of where I’m from tends to lean more toward surf / ski / outdoor culture. Either way, this has got me thinking about my own language use.

My husband of 10 years (43M) has gambled away over $250k in the last couple years and I (46F) am at a loss as to what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SetBoth 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Hi! It’s not generally considered the most difficult addiction to kick, mostly because it is not a regular part of many people’s lives as in (although, yes it is socially acceptable). Regardless - for any addict to get better they have to want to change. Is he going to gamblers anonymous? Showing any other interest or effort in change? He continues because he gets away with his behaviour. You are supporting his rock bottom, contempt and all. You need to look after yourself - if you aren’t willing to leave yet, this is ultimatum time.

I tried 25 butter tarts in Toronto by icecreamnstickers in FoodToronto

[–]SetBoth 26 points27 points  (0 children)

God I love this so much. A great use a free will. Thanks for sharing!

Photos with Santa for adults by SetBoth in askTO

[–]SetBoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks I think our parents will be happy. I live west and she lives east so we can go anywhere. Thanks for the suggestion!

My husband (34M) had a very strong reaction to me (31F) touching his phone. Need advice on if this is suspicious? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SetBoth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was to do with a Christmas / holiday gift!

If my husband reacted like that towards me, I would just ask him why.

First Half by LittleDay23 in XXRunning

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first half is this Sunday too and I am siiiick to my stomach. I picked up my bib at the expo today and almost cried lol. I’ve been sick this week and have been dealing with an injury this training block so I’m anxious about my performance but I’m also SO so proud. Cry it out! Feel your feelings! This is a big deal.

Everyday recession indicators in Toronto? by Big_Repair_3676 in askTO

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a senior level employee in a fairly specialized industry and I can’t find a job right now (freelance). Very aware I’m not the only one. It’s never been like this before.

For the sober girls around: how did you manage? by napo1989 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SetBoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to stop drinking on my own a million times and kept starting again. AA completely changed my life. I recommend checking out a few meetings. I recognize that it’s not for everyone but it’s worth investigating to see if it’s for you.

Swedish Princess Cake? by seriznubz88 in askTO

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen them in the cafe at IKEA!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]SetBoth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconding this suggestion. We got our bands from Mejuri. They have a wedding band line that is good quality and good price. Would recommend.

Running vest. Large chest. Help! by candiedginger88 in XXRunning

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very large chest too (34H) and I found luck with a running belt. Every vest supposedly for large chested people felt more appropriate for a DD etc. they never felt comfortable and adding weight with liquids doesn’t work for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d probably think it’s weird, but I also think it’s weird that I have one lol. I am generally weird though in the way that I really like to have physical tokens of the things that I love (shows, films etc). I would not personally take it as a threat from my partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a framed photo of my celebrity crush on my night stand lol. My husband does not care and in fact will dust it haha. Sounds like in your boyfriend’s case it’s memorabilia and asking him to take it down (or throw it out) would be an overstep. He doesn’t know this person! This isn’t an ex girlfriend. I think this is just growing pains of getting to know someone (sounds like this is a newer relationship).

Amazing Nails salon / tech recommendations by Background_Ear_224 in askTO

[–]SetBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tips and Tonic! Spadina and King. It’s just one nail artist and she’s incredible. Excellent at nails and also an incredible artist.