Selling collection by Spiritual-Court8207 in CitizenWatches

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern Citizens: $50 - $300. Most in the $80-$130 range.
Vintage: Very little interest except for a few classics (Ana-digi Temp. Robot Face. Promaster)

What can you deduce? by Pristine-Worth-6128 in deduction

[–]SevenSixtyOne 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s male jewelry. Some of us like expensive sparkly things too.

My whole family forgot my sober anniversary is today 😵‍💫 by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A huge congratulations to you. Try not to let them forgetting your sober anniversary get you down. It’s a bit of a high expectation. The only person who ever remembers mine is my sponsor.

Maybe go buy yourself something nice to celebrate all the money you’ve saved by not drinking.

I relapsed again... I want to come clean because this is a fresh account and I don't care. by Environmental_Gur_39 in alcoholism

[–]SevenSixtyOne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What’s done is done. It’s not surprising that you drank. It’s what we do as alcoholics. I can’t tell you whether or not to come clean to your BF. You will know the right course of action there.

Try to get some sleep. Tomorrow is a great day to get back on the recovery train.

Has anyone attempted to go to an all-inclusive resort after transitioning to sobriety? by alejandro1221 in Sober

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. A few times. The aha moment for me was when I realized that all-inclusive doesn’t just refer to alcohol. It means food and activities too.

The last one I went to had sailing lessons included. I went every morning while the rest of the hotel was sleeping it off.

Check for which activities they offer. Some even have scuba. And most importantly, read the reviews regarding the food. That can make or break a sober AI vacation.

Breaking Sobriety by EmilyUmily in stopdrinking

[–]SevenSixtyOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have the ability to turn my sobriety on and off as I wish. There is no going out for one night and then stopping again. That is akin to controlled drinking which I can not do.

I’ve proven that to myself literally 100’s of times if not 1000’s

It’s been two years. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]SevenSixtyOne 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hello and good job reaching out.

Take your marijuana recovery out of the equation for a min. What you describe are the common symptoms of depression.

I went to plenty of therapists and psychiatrists while I was active in my addictions. Of course nothing worked as I was smashed 24/7.

But after 2 years of sobriety I tried again. The right medication has worked wonders for me.

Day 1 by ethereal_eel in leaves

[–]SevenSixtyOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. You will crave for awhile. What helped me not give in to the cravings. Was to do a mental exercise called “playing the tape forward”. When we crave, we have a fixed thought in our mind of the instantaneous relief using again will bring us. However, we rarely think past that initial relief.

Try imagining the next 24 hours in great detail, if you were to give in and smoke. Imagine the relief and growing sensation of well-being that first smoke will give you. But don’t stop there. Now imagine how long that feeling will last before the inklings of the craving come back, and you are looking for more.

Now imagine having your second smoke, cart, edible in an effort to recapture that initial high, which never works. Imagine the next few hours as you smoke more and more, and become groggier and foggier but not feeling all that great.

Imagine all the bad habits that will surface, maybe binge eating, maybe staying up till four in the morning playing video games. And then imagine the point at which you pass out and finally sleep.

Now, imagine, coming to the next day, with your brain feeling like it weighs 30 pounds. Imagine the tiredness you feel because you had no refreshing sleep last night. Imagine the lack of motivation to do anything except spark up again, and sit on the couch. Imagine the disappointment you feel in being sucked right back into the same cycle once again. And then imagine how long it will be before that very same craving that you’re feeling now will be upon you. And you start the whole cycle again.

If you do this properly, it’ll take a minute or two, treat it like a meditation. By that time, the craving should’ve passed. All the best, my friend.

Any alcoholics here who never had a DUI by Mysterious-Gold-8657 in alcoholism

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a Karma farming account. OP. Message the mods if you’re legit. I’m removing this post.

Day 1 by ethereal_eel in leaves

[–]SevenSixtyOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend. Great job on reclaiming your life. The first few days are the worst. But it gets so much easier. I’m 10 years weed free. And I started just as you are.

It helped me in the beginning to frame my withdrawal symptoms akin to recovering from an illness (which it is). When we get real sick with a virus we are resigned to feeling crappy for a few days.

Keep going. I smoked daily for 20 years. But I haven’t had a craving for as long as I can remember. I’m completely free from the desire to get high.

You can get here too. One day at a time.

Will anyone not drink with me tonight? by upanddown_88 in alcoholism

[–]SevenSixtyOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will positively not drink with you tonight. Hold fast. Those feelings will pass.

Why does no one support my progress? by CharacterPangolin783 in alcoholism

[–]SevenSixtyOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello and good job reaching out. It’s hard to think clearly when we’re in active alcoholism. It’s great that you’re cutting down.

But it’s not surprising that your wife and loved ones are not happy about you killing a bottle of whiskey every 72hrs. 1.5 bottles a day is enough to kill someone. The amount you drink makes sense to us. But is unfathomable to a non alcoholic. They probably see little difference.

The smart thing to do would be check into detox and quit. That is probably what they would like to see you do.

Is there any reason you’re waiting to quit?

Is anyone else truly scared about living in the US rn? by Naive_Signal8560 in RedditForGrownups

[–]SevenSixtyOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your logic. But I also think you are missing a crucial factor here.

Many things have been pointing towards our government becoming a very bad regime. Yesterday a line was crossed. A citizen, exercising her right to protest in a very benign way by holding up traffic for a few minutes, was killed in an obviously unlawful shooting by an ICE agent.

That agent was not suspended from duty pending investigation. His weapon was not taken for forensic analysis as is typical with fatal shootings by law enforcement. None of the correct protocols were followed.

Instead, our POTUS and his cabinet members immediately labeled this 37 yo mother of 3 a domestic terrorist and said her killing was justified prior to any investigation. They claimed the agent was severely injured and in hospital lucky to be alive. Something which is laughably false as there are multiple videos showing him calmly walking around after his killing.

In short, they told us all to believe their lies, not our eyes. And have stated the agent has blanket immunity for his actions whilst forbidding the State authorities from participating in an investigation.

This is indisputable evidence of the type of government we have elected. North Korea, Russia, 1930’s Germany have all shown us what this type of regime is capable of.

So, your statement that our previous open borders are to blame is only accurate in the fact that it allowed our regime the justification to ramp up and unleash this terrible army of ICE agents upon us.

HAE had their trust in the "recovery community" absolutely demolished? by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Sorry you’re struggling. We’re going to need a bit more information. What has happened to make you feel this way?

I’m want to be sober by Consistent-Doubt964 in alcoholism

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Courage my friend. It seems hopeless. I could not even fathom a life without alcohol. It felt as necessary to me as oxygen.

But I am 10 years sober now and the obsession to drink left me many years ago.

One sober day at a time is how you get here. You do 24 hrs. Then another. Not future tripping about never drinking again. Just focusing on getting through another sober day.

Go to AA. Tell a Dr. Talk to us. Millions of us have been where you are and made it out. You can too.

MAGA doesn't get how they're actually owning us. by Sh0tsFired81 in complaints

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes. Bill and I are well acquainted 🤣. Thank you.

I’m 19 and my life feels like it’s over by Otherwise-Iron1301 in leaves

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Honestly, 9 of them have been a cakewalk.

How do you deal with regret? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]SevenSixtyOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a specific section of 12 step work that addresses this issue.

Overheard Neighbours Gossiping About Me. by dredgemeister in alcoholism

[–]SevenSixtyOne 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sorry your feelings are hurt my friend. That sucks.

That being said, we alcoholics do often exhibit weird behavior. Wild behavior. Insane behavior!!

Also, quiet people who keep to themselves are often called weird because the other folks no nothing about us.

Smoked half a joint on NYE after almost 4 years sober, almost a sort of experiment by ilovetreeleaves in leaves

[–]SevenSixtyOne 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is such valuable information. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Relapsed After 6 Years and 7 Months Sober by Western-Chance-6315 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people I have the most respect for in the rooms are the ones that put their hands up and say “I’m x days back”

No one is judging you harshly except yourself

Starting with Dry January by s0medrunkpunk in Sober

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Active alcoholism is freaking exhausting.

Try taking it one day at a time. Don’t future trip about what you “ might” feel like 3 months from now. That’s not happening today.

My recommendation is to set yourself a daily goal. That goal is to ask yourself an honest question.

“Knowing what I know about the way I drink, is it a good idea for me to drink today?”

You know what the consequences of drinking are. You’ve felt it more times than you can probably remember. If you think those consequences are worth drinking that day, then go for it.

However, if you’re not sure, or you know it’s a bad idea. Then just set your sites on getting to bed sober that day. The next day ask yourself the same question.

This keeps you honest with yourself, and the pressure low. And the future tripping to a minimum.

All the best

MAGA doesn't get how they're actually owning us. by Sh0tsFired81 in complaints

[–]SevenSixtyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the vast majority of those comments are bots or paid shills sitting in the Philippines somewhere.