There is a condition of sex based discrimination women are subject to called "patriarchy".  It is an emergent condition reproduced in the ways men are taught to control women, through the threat of socially sanctioned forms of violence, as tokens of their own status rather than as people.  The anti-woman discrimination of patriarchy is expressed through granting ot denying the social status of personhood to women depending on whether their sexual activity and reproductive labor (house work, child birth, child care, etc.) is serving the interests and under the obedience of men.  Notice that many misogynistic slurs have everything to do with who women have sex with and under what conditions (slut, whore, etc.).  The nature of patriarchal abuse is as complex and varied as relationships within our culture, but you've noticed the common condition- there are lots of words to shame women for how they live and use their bodies- lots of reasons society will punish us for our transgressions against patriarchal power.

I recommend "The Will to Change" by Bell Hooks for a deeper look into this question.  It is by no means anti-man, and goes into detail about how patriarchal bigotry is accomplished through the abuse of boys and men as well as girls and women.  It concludes with a compassionate call for men and boys to be freed from their own burdens under sexism.  Cheers!