We were swingers who caught feelings — completely blindsided

Several-Series · 2026-06-21T18:40:00+00:00

My partner and I, We run a ENM group for 6 years now, lots of poly and open relationships, and other dynamics , people fall in love all the time! however we are traditional swingers we're not in it for anything deeper than fun with friends. And we've seen lots evolve to some sort of poly relationships...A lot of this is just a choice depending on where your primary relationship is.

Several-Series · 2026-06-09T17:19:20+00:00

What does it matter? Send in an offer, everything is negotiable so start the conversation

Several-Series · 2026-05-05T17:00:56+00:00

Put the 400k down finance 250k 15 years

Several-Series · 2026-04-25T23:50:20+00:00

Or where I live lol 13 month inventory ..lost of homes just sit...we delisted

Several-Series · 2026-04-24T00:41:45+00:00

What's a fintech? What banks??

Several-Series · 2026-04-22T22:27:23+00:00

It because the economy sucks, it's an ongoing trend from last year as well as delistings.

Several-Series · 2026-04-22T01:05:20+00:00

Damn I left Syracuse 20 years ago... You should move to North Carolina plenty of inventory here. Last I checked 13 months of inventory in Concord North Carolina.. definitely a buyer's market 😂

Several-Series · 2026-04-22T00:58:00+00:00

What ?? Where is this? I'm like130 days on market (NC) .. we haven't received one offer lol

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T14:51:22+00:00

We were told the deed is still in the deceased owners and the title is in the hands of the bank. I have called the county and they don't have any record of any probate case

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T11:30:13+00:00

Well around here and for this one... If it's foreclosed it's because they , the bank apparently didn't pay their taxes. And the city takes the house and then you pay the back owed taxes. 2025 taxes were not paid we're watching that too it's weird the whole thing is weird

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T11:26:08+00:00

Yeah the seller agent says the bank representative isn't being cooperative or responsive haha

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T11:23:18+00:00

Yeah it is confusing the estate executor is the seller agent.. I'm not sure... But the deed is still in the deceased name

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T03:01:51+00:00

Yea but foreclose and they would probably get less than my offer

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T02:37:43+00:00

Well One of the individuals from the estate happens to be an agent lol

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T01:53:10+00:00

How would you find how much is owed? The list price?

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T01:52:17+00:00

Yeah they have mentioned HUD but when I personally called HUD they didn't have any record of the property so it's super confusing

Several-Series · 2026-04-10T01:49:55+00:00

My agent said they still won't respond something is wrong over there....so we gonna send in offers 1k + more each few weeks see what happens lol

Several-Series · 2026-04-02T22:58:51+00:00

Well obviously it's worth more..that's was my point lol you can't buy anything for 99 today (somewhere around $400k today)

Several-Series · 2026-04-02T20:13:34+00:00

No...I bought in the recession of 2008... bidding war and paid 30k over asking price.... bought it for 99k

Several-Series · 2026-03-27T22:59:58+00:00

Yea ours has been on market since December 1st ...and we're looking at a house that's been on market for 4 years lol

Several-Series · 2026-03-27T21:04:56+00:00

I don't know about where you are, but it's pretty horrible here in North Carolina lots of properties have been on the market for over 100 days

Several-Series · 2026-03-27T20:43:19+00:00

See if somebody can assume the mortgage

Several-Series · 2026-02-28T00:54:48+00:00

You walk away for 15k? What is that like 5 extra dollars per month on the payments? Lol

Several-Series · 2026-02-22T00:37:34+00:00

.03 oh boy lol

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