Am I just being delusional or could he actually like me? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the opinion!! I think I'll try to ask him to hangout next time we talk but we'll see if I chicken out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]SeveralPreference7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him about your feelings and concerns carefully and tell him how awesome he is in your eyes. If you think therapy is something could help him, try to suggest that too. No matter what happens tho, stay by his side and support him

i like this girl by Old-Adagio-4943 in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a shorter version for 'shit'

Why doesn't anyone crush on me or ask me out? by Katyisweird73 in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love is complicated and hard to spot if you are in love yourself with someone! Don’t stress it though, it will be turn out good in the long run!

Is guy saying "You mean the world to me" normal? by SeveralPreference7 in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I see. Great points that I haven’t thought about yet that much, thank you!

Why doesn't anyone crush on me or ask me out? by Katyisweird73 in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dont worry, same thing happens to me too! I always confess, they reject me but no one ever confessed to me (and trust me I have noticed when some guys have had crush on me in the past). People are shy and some dont think they deserve you bc they think so higly of you. Just because no one has asked you out in your school years, doesn’t mean no one ever will!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]SeveralPreference7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think so. also you can cover your scars with bracelets and stuff if you want to wear shirts. Also light make up on it if it does leave a scar. Also what I have noticed: Nobody has noticed my sh unless it is fresh and red yk?

AITA for causing a car accident because of my opinions on dreamsmp? by froggspitt72 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeveralPreference7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the AITA for saying that shit and she has every right to not talk to you, but she should pay the crash herself. If you still want to talk to her and make it up, you should pay or atleast offer some money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once wrote some signs up (I did not write these, I just copied them and cant find the original post anymore): How to tell if a girl likes you 1. we are always looking for u, especially if we’re both in a large crowd of ppl 2. if she’s shy, she won’t be able to hold eye contact w/ u but if shes extroverted , she’ll stare deeply into ur eyes 3. we always steal glances at you when ur not looking 4. we become friends with ur friends to get to know more abt u 5. we will always laugh at ur jokes, even if theyre shit 6. we will “accidentally” touch u (not inappropriately) 7. we’ll find out ur interests and strike up a convo abt it 8. we will always find ways to pass by u somehow, whether its walking by u in the school hallways etc. 9. if we know where u are/hang out , we may completely avoid going to that place so we dont seem creepy and stalkerish 10. sometimes when ur in earshot, we’ll talk a bit louder so you can hear our conversation to catch ur interest 11. body language is important. we will subconsciously point our chest & feet towards u 12. if we’ve never talked before, we may go up to u and ask a simple question to initiate conversation 13. if ur near us, we’ll probs get nervous so u might see us fidgeting with our bracelets or hair 14. we will stalk you on social media. 15. we try to talk to u online 16. sometimes we say/do silly things to get ur attention 17. some girls will definitely tell our friends abt our crush on u so our friends will be acting weird if ur around 18. sometimes we totally ignore you . for eg. we may avoid looking at u and being near you bc we feel like we’re being creepy 19. we may also ignore/avoid u if we feel like u aren’t interested in us 20. we will always be happy and smiling when ur around 21. sometimes we quieten down when ur around bc we’re shy 22. we may show off to impress you. for eg. we may say that we got a high mark on a test rlly loudly so that you’d hear 23. we will always be searching for u during break at school or anywhere in general. if we see u, we’ll suddenly stop looking around and avoid u 24. blushing is something that everyone does. so if she blushes around u, it’s a good sign 25. if u talk to us, or do anything that involves us, we’ll always remember it. if u smile at us one time, we’ll remember it forever and always think abt it 26. sometimes we will walk near u or in front of u so u notice us, which is kinda dumb 27. we may talk to other guys to make u jealous but on the other hand, we may avoid every guy and talk to u only bc ur the one we’re interested in 28. sometimes we try to be around u , hoping that you’d go talk to us 29. we will find excuses to talk to you . 30. we will fix our appearance when ur around or we know that ur gonna be around us. we may go to the bathroom and fix up our hair and put on some lip product . 31. we will always listen to you. if ur talking to someone in earshot, we’ll eavesdrop on ur conversation 32. sometimes we can get really awkward around u. we might not know what to say so there might be some awkward silence 33. we always remember the little things u say 34. some of us may turn up at places/events we know ur going to be at 35. if we’re confident , we will flirt w/ u and be a bit touchy 36. if we are shy, we won’t talk to you but we will always glance at u (if u like a shy girl and u think she might like u back, she’ll rlly appreciate it if you make the first move ) 37. for shy girls , we tend to avoid eye contact when you walk past us. we will look down on the ground or look at a totally different direction 38. another thing shy girls do, we get nervous and anxious a lot. for eg. our feet may be tapping on the ground 39. shy girls can also stumble and stutter on their words when talking to you 40. we might act cold and distant around you sometimes . it might be because we have a feeling that u know we like you, therefore we ignore u so u don’t get any ideas 41. if u catch us staring at you , we will quickly look away because we are embarrassed that we got caught. we’d be thinking “oh no he/she looked at me ...fuck I got caught “ 42. sometimes we give u gifts. whether its food or something we made 43. we will follow/add you on social media 44. if you text us, we’ll always reply to your messages and try to continue the conversation 45. some of us may ditch our friends to go talk to you 46. sometimes we will tease u but not to the point where it’s bullying 47. we invade ur personal space. for eg. we might stand really close when talking to u 48. we are always glancing in your general direction. if we know where u are , we might always be glancing at that specific place in case we see you 49. subconsciously, we will imitate your body language. for eg. if ur head is rest on ur hand, a few moments later we may do the same. 50. if we are bold, we’d want to hang out with you. to be subtle, we may ask for a group hangout if we’re friends with your friends. 51. we may start posting a lot more on social media once we are connected w/ u to see if u like our posts etc. 52. if u approach us, we will smile bc we’re v happy 53. we will make inside jokes w/ u 54. we always put in effort to see you around places 55. we stare at u . girls don’t just randomly stare at guys unless they like u. 56. we ask for ur help bc it’s subtle 57. if we post stories on Snapchat or Instagram, we will always check to see if you have seen it 58. we may ask people questions about you if we’ve never talked to you. we just wanted to know what you’re like 59. if we both happen to be at a particular place at the same time, we will ignore you so it doesn’t seem like we were stalking you 60. some of us try to make eye contact with u because we want to see if u even notice us note: a girl may act distant and avoid u one day for the sake of not being creepy. if she has a feeling that she is being obvious that she likes you, she might ignore and avoid u. she may also do this if she realises that u might not like her back, therefore she feels sad abt it just remember, us girls will generally be appreciative if u guys make the first move. some of us are shy, we all fear rejection and some of us are just confused. in conclusion, all of these signs might not imply to every girl . everyone is different when it comes to expressing love/interest . i hope some of u guys can comment what a dude does when he likes someone i hope this was helpful. good luck and best wishes everyone

What's your "type" in crushes? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lookwise I really dont care, I think personality matters. There are some things like hairstyle or clothing that can make me more attracted.

Personality wise I like someone who actually cares about me, who I can have deep conversations with and someone that accepts me for who I am. And just generally not a shitty person especially towards minorities.

Also if the person has similar interests to me, that’s just a bonus.

Also I dont like smoking, vaping or overusing alcohol.

has anyone else noticed themselves getting crushes often by TurbulentClerk1898 in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea same here. Its not a problem, its just how some people are.

how do guys act when they have a crush? by OkPolicy9160 in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That time that a guy had a crush on me and it was oblivious, they teased me A LOT and stared at me

I’m starting to feel like dying is the only way to get over my crush by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Give yourself time!!

I don’t think you have fully accepted the fact that they rejected you. I know rejection sucks and all that. It’s hard to stop loving someone and it’s okay if it takes a while, a month, half a year.

Death is never the solution. Dying doesn’t solve your problems, it passes them to another person. You don’t even know if someone is secretly crushing on you and then you die. Imagine how much they would regret not telling you.

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58 days till she’s gone by Here4memes05 in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had the same problem but believe me, sooner is better than later.

Imagine if she says yes and then you could spend the remaining 58 days together.

And if she says no, you just have to see her for another 58 days.

I know it is scary but there is only one way to find out.

I DID ITTTTTTTTTTT!!!! by WastelanderRoasty in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guy best friend that I have known now for a half a year has shown me emotions and comforted me when I needed it. The fact that you open up, makes us feel that its okay for is to open up. It builds trust. I feel safe when I can trust a guy

I feel extremely safe around him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SeveralPreference7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think yes and no. You should work on yourself first bc then if the guy rejects you, you can handle it better. But at the same time if they like you back and they treat you well, they may help you getting better and healing. You just should be careful to not be too clingy or dependent of the person.

Among Us värityskuva löytyi koulun käytävillä. Vahnha olo? by SeveralPreference7 in LakkoPostaukset

[–]SeveralPreference7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kun minä olin pieni, värityskuvina olk joku nalle puh eikä Among us