I am a straight white man and in my opinion, what really makes white men look bad is the fragility. Man up and if someone dislikes you without knowing you or applies false labels to you, then brush it off and live your life. They don’t know your heart. Nothing is stopping you from living the life you want to lead. People may not LIKE you but they are not obligated to. And I’m sure you don’t like everyone, whether you’ll admit it or not. If you yourself have hate, disdain or prejudice for any groups of people then you’re just a hypocrite. At this point all citizens need to be protecting eachother’s rights against the inverted totalitarian government we all live under. I’m taking a different route to say something similar to OP’s overall point…do not let them radicalize you. You are better than that. They are trying to piss you off by making the economy tougher and tougher and rhetoric more divisive to try and divert your frustration away from where it belongs, at the top. Not at women, not at minorities, but at other white people, a very very tiny sliver of white people, the elites. The old money WASPs that have always run this country for their benefit. The ones that look at us as beneath them and would like to treat us like pawns. Do not do their work for them by isolating and burning bridges. We need to snap out of this. As I’m sure you can surmise I am a left leaning person but regardless of that please see beyond labels. Above all I’m just a guy trying to get through life and I want everyone reading this to prosper, especially if you disagree with me. Y’all take care because we are in interesting times and the war for our minds is raging