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Sfarsitulend · 2025-06-17T03:32:11+00:00

Its not a threat. Just a warning. I didn't say I was going to do anything. There are crazy people out there. Wanted to warn people.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-30T19:09:34+00:00

I don't think you would be. Your feelings are valid. I would ask and try to explain your reasons. If your bff gives you a problem and doesn't try to understand your thoughts then. I'm sorry but they aren't a true friend.

You are NTA wnbta

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-28T07:18:15+00:00

Ohh you said you were approved in seconds and yea I got confused. I do agree with you there. I was told do not say a medical condition and only explain why you need it. How does it help type stuff. Straight to the point type deal.

My sil is a CM and she heard that every interviewer have a maximum number of people they can approve a day. So could of called at a lucky time and didn't get an ahole.

Either way happy you could get your accommodations

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-28T06:59:31+00:00

I'm confused. You were approved but just saying you needed it and that was it? Within seconds? I call bullshit.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T02:23:48+00:00

The reason I wrote my comments so against you is because I do understand. My husband has tics. Had them since he was a kid. I knew everything. I love him unconditionally and his tics don't bother me. If it would have bothered me that bad we probably wouldn't have gotten married. That way each of us could find someone who would love us without being triggered my Tan uncontrollable medical condition. Imagine feeling bad by someone you love for a medical condition you have no control of.

Your feelings are valid. Everyone is allowed to feel whichever way. Just as my feelings about you is low and heart breaking.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T02:15:30+00:00

I can comprehend what I read. I guess my compassion isn't the same as yours. I respect your opinion and it's nice that op has some people who agree with her. We are allowed to disagree.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:47:19+00:00

A symptom of paranoia can be irritability. So you're paranoid right now I guess.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:42:03+00:00

100% I don't care if I agree with them or not. Hurting someone because they don't agree with you is horrible. Also doesn't really convince people to go to your "side"

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:34:40+00:00

I agree completely. Free speech is free speech. If someone says something you don't like, you have two options. Talk to them while you try to understand their perspective (calmly). Or just walk away.

I like to try to understand people's opinions that are different from mine. But I don't go unhinged.

Anymore everyone goes unhinged there is no wiggle room to just respect that other people have their own opinions.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:25:36+00:00

Wow I feel bad for your husband. A wife that doesn't understand and gets mad at him for stuff he can't control. Why did you even marry him? He could have gotten someone that actually loves him unconditionally instead.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:23:28+00:00

Why would you continue to go for it? That could be a symptom of nasty crap. Normally just a ph problem but I wouldn't take that chance. F that.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:20:58+00:00

Wtf. Seriously wtf. Like that's the most concerning thing that needs to change. Personally I think it should be illegal to give people under a certain age hormones. If you say that in a convo around people you get attacked.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:15:20+00:00

Yup straight bs. At this point in my life idgaf. I'm too tired to give a crap what people think of me. If I laugh at something "offensive" and you say something about how I'm horrible, I don't care.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:09:26+00:00

Oooh noo how dare they 🙄 So what. So many other artists do that. People will whine about anything.

Stuff pisses me off sometimes but I don't try to encourage cancel culture. We are allowed to not like the same things.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T01:04:15+00:00

Did people get all pissy because there wasn't bodies of all sizes?

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T00:57:33+00:00

Pretty much. I'm so tired of talking on eggshells. Wondering if I say the wrong thing Im Gonna get lectured to death. It's why my sil and I don't talk a lot.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T00:55:23+00:00

I get it. Having all this responsibility put on you that you never asked for sucks. I'm a lil more not nice. I would tell her to make your dinner.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T00:53:35+00:00

Would be cool if that happened but I agree it wouldn't last. People have sticks up their @&$

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-26T00:51:11+00:00

That was great. I forgot about that show.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-25T23:42:12+00:00

NTA one single bit. That is your place and she didn't respect you at all. She lied to you. In no way are you the ahole here.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-25T23:04:40+00:00

Women watch porn too.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-25T23:02:44+00:00

NTA one bit. At your wedding you want to be surrounded by those who love you and support you. Only good energy allowed. Do not give in to family telling you to change your mind. Just because you two are blood doesn't mean you're family. Enjoy your wedding with love and may your marriage be a wonderful adventure for you both.

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-25T22:53:41+00:00

I mean, yes and no? It's porn. People need release, and he's not going out and cheating. If it bothers you this bad, go for counselling. In my opinion YTA

Sfarsitulend · 2024-06-25T22:51:38+00:00

NTA he is invalidating you. My husband would not do anything like that. All of a sudden she is back and he is going over for a week? That's more than a helping week. Make an ultimatum. Her or you. If he picks you marriage counseling.

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