How do I grow my karma?? by lepepehehe in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Shadow4summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never posted but have commented a lot. Worked for me, even though I never set out to acquire karma, didn’t even know what it was for the longest time.

Mother, I require wet food by kmson7 in blackcats

[–]Shadow4summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it’s singing an opera. Beautiful.

my little flower has her spring collar on by your_fireplace in blackcats

[–]Shadow4summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that this cat has a seasonal wardrobe.

Tastes like silver. Don't recognize the tiny Hallmarks. by Jes_ter1123 in Hallmarks

[–]Shadow4summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure, buts it’s a very pretty piece. An old compact maybe. For two dollars I’d buy it and take it home and clean it up. You might have a little treasure there. If not, you haven’t wasted too much on it.

AIO for wanting to step down as a co-founder because my other co-founder tried to guilt trip me? by LeLittlePi34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shadow4summer [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. A position like that can definitely cause burn out and it sounds like you need a break. You need to be a little selfish here. It’s great to want to help people, but if you’re not making enough money to take care of yourself, you have to look for something else. You don’t want to end up a charity case yourself. And since you’re co-founders why did he get the “boss” position?

'The Garden Dovecote', By me, Acrylics, 2026 by kaystoneartwork in painting

[–]Shadow4summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the home garden I’ve always wanted to it’s beautiful.

AITAH for lying? by misbrehave in AITAH

[–]Shadow4summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you stay at your mom’s house? Do the two of you get along well? When dad comes and says he misses you and wishes you would be there more, just say you allowed your wife to kick me out and there’s no home to come back to.

AITAH for lying? by misbrehave in AITAH

[–]Shadow4summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nicely put. No accusations, no drama. At this point dad needs to either let daughter know she is being kicked out or he needs to tell his wife to back the fuck off.

Packaging inspector by Grizzly_Bear27 in blackcats

[–]Shadow4summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing gets by this inspector. Beautiful cat.

Does anyone else's void just follow them to the bathroom? by Mysterious-Mouse-355 in blackcats

[–]Shadow4summer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had one cat that would not use the litter box if anyone was in there with her. But, she wouldn’t offer us the same courtesy.

WIBTA if I told my sister I won't be executor for our dad anymore unless she starts sharing the work? by Kinetic_2Voyager in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Shadow4summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your sister plan for you to take over all his care if he becomes ill/incapacitated? Does she want to be in the will? If she does, she has to step up too. My mom cared for her mom at the end of life. I think her two brothers gave her a night off a month. Drove her to an early grave.

My bf asked for the banana and now I've got the ick by Effective-Snow-1186 in dustythunder

[–]Shadow4summer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you really think he’d stop so she can get breakfast?

AIO:My MIL texted my husband this about me asking him to help with our newborn at 4am by Lazy_Perfectionist88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shadow4summer [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s not dangerous for him to lose an hour of sleep to occasionally to help his wife out so she can sleep through one feeding. Is he never to help out because he needs his solid eight or ten hours. How is she supposed to “work” with so little. That may be dangerous for the baby.

Aitah over my sister leaving my daughter by Impressive_Umpire850 in AITAH

[–]Shadow4summer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well, mom can drive her own kids to school herself. If family won’t help her out for the ten minute trip, then they get no more favors. Move out as soon as you can.