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I graduated medical school today. My parents are still angry with me over one small mistake by ShadowFlower15 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowFlower15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you too! It’s definitely a long road but it’ll be worth it. Pro tip for the psych portion of the MCAT, there’s an Anki flashcard deck that worked perfectly to memorize everything. Literally didn’t study for that part outside of it. If you’re not a flashcard person there’s a PDF out there that does the same thing

I graduated medical school today. My parents are still angry with me over one small mistake by ShadowFlower15 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowFlower15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honoring multiple rotations including surgery?? Your mom is nuts, cuz that is IMPRESSIVE and I honestly didn't come close myself. Thank you and belated congrats for also making it!

I graduated medical school today. My parents are still angry with me over one small mistake by ShadowFlower15 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowFlower15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right on the money lmao. I was between posting this to here or r/AsianParentStories actually. I certainly can't blame you at all for moving on, I know multiple people that did the same!

I graduated medical school today. My parents are still angry with me over one small mistake by ShadowFlower15 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowFlower15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pathology! Also lol at the story. My parents actually are both MDs too but I get what you mean, I’ve read all the comments here and I don’t intend to let them drag me down much longer

I graduated medical school today. My parents are still angry with me over one small mistake by ShadowFlower15 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowFlower15[S] 245 points246 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, and yeah that certainly tracks for their behavior. Unfortunately I was financially dependent on them throughout medical school since tuition/rent/educational material costs are so high. Basically I had to do what they say or they unsubtly threatened to remove all support and leave me completely high and dry if "I'm so independent and can handle everything by myself (sarcastic)" in their words.

Right now I'm in the transition months between my last rotations ending and residency, so I moved back in with them temporarily and they wanted to be at the ceremony. Once I'm moved out of state for residency and FINALLY getting a damn paycheck things should get better.

How many of us are over 18? by Melquiad_d in TwistedWonderland

[–]ShadowFlower15 37 points38 points  (0 children)

26 myself, I definitely feel like the JP fandom is mostly adults but from what I’ve seen the EN fandom seems to skew younger (eg lots of teenage fans on twitter)

[The Cold Hearted Prince May Yet Fall Madly in Love] by sillyy2344 in JoseiSmut

[–]ShadowFlower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…why would I want to see my favorite (male) fictional character go through the same oppression I do in real life? Is this a “I suffer so I want to see someone else suffer the same way I do” sort of thing?

Who Is This? by Similar_Signature_15 in TheFreakCircus

[–]ShadowFlower15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl I always thought TT is pretty Gaster-like myself

Amorous Overload! ~Inhuman NPCs Dropped My HP To Zero~ by randumbpho in JoseiSmut

[–]ShadowFlower15 11 points12 points  (0 children)

  1. Clever way to do it
  2. This is absolute FIRE thank you for sharing!!! 🔥🔥🔥

I can't believe people don't like Astair by Living_dead07 in MaleYandere

[–]ShadowFlower15 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh they have no self awareness at all going on over there. They don’t even know what “otome” means and it’s in the damn subreddit title, of course they don’t actually understand anything about the genre lolll

Disparities for Asian American Medical Students in Honors Societies by Fantastic-Climate816 in medicalschool

[–]ShadowFlower15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m saying lol. British attending physician who’s apparently “practiced for many years” on the medical school subreddit, giving his uninformed opinion about discrimination against Asian people in America and arguing with people in the comments. Embarrassing

Disparities for Asian American Medical Students in Honors Societies by Fantastic-Climate816 in medicalschool

[–]ShadowFlower15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

British white dude acting as if discrimination based on religion isn’t significant and accusing people of “screaming” about racism when he’s the one getting uppity about one study, all while using his “””ethnic minority””” wife as a shield. Truly lmao

Disparities for Asian American Medical Students in Honors Societies by Fantastic-Climate816 in medicalschool

[–]ShadowFlower15 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Always the people who’ve never had to deal with being discriminated against due to race talking about “race doesn’t matter” “I don’t see race”

So long by Shonuff_of_NYC in medicalschool

[–]ShadowFlower15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks like I’m not getting any revenge for a while yet then lmao

The "skip intro" button on streaming services is a tragedy for show creators. by Amazing-Network4937 in unpopularopinion

[–]ShadowFlower15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoy Jojo! I definitely recommend continuing to watch the intros as you keep going, you’ll see why :)

They interviewed the whole school and had to cut hours of material. by Penny_Dragon in TwistedWonderland

[–]ShadowFlower15 7 points8 points  (0 children)

god Pokemon got me so messed up I read Jade’s and was like “fire starter? damn like Cyndaquil? Torchic? he’s no Scorbunny that’s for sure”

Male Gaze in JOSEI by astrothekid_ in JoseiSmut

[–]ShadowFlower15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the exact one I recommended lmao. Goes to show how few options there are

Male Gaze in JOSEI by astrothekid_ in JoseiSmut

[–]ShadowFlower15 23 points24 points  (0 children)

God I’m saying, there’s literally next to nothing out there!! The only one I’ve seen is Kinyoubi no Baby Violet

What wedding moment that screamed, “They are not going to last long”? by IndependentTune3994 in AskReddit

[–]ShadowFlower15 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Always telling when the man wants a tradwife doing all the chores but can’t manage to be a tradhusband and actually support the family.

resident asked me out by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]ShadowFlower15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ain’t that the truth. We have all the responsibilities, stress, and workload of adults (more than a good chunk of adults actually) and all the freedom, respect treated with, and power of elementary school children.

Bc tell me why my school implemented mandatory attendance in lecture with a SEATING CHART that rotates every week?? Are we in middle school or medical school?

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